Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

I’m having an emotional crisis right now

I was reading more about the three officers who shot a mentally ill woman thru the door. The three officers were fired but an investigation into the entire department needs to take place. What I saw on television, got to me.

It brought up the repressed memory of having a non-violent crisis in the front yard. Long story short I had an officer pull a gun on me. I never processed the trauma probably because I was fighting for my life with Lyme winning. I’ve been crying ever since the memory came back and I’ve been in bed crying.

I don’t know when I’ll be active when I stop crying or in August when I meet my new Psychiatrist. It’s deplorable that a woman considered wealthy, with great insurance, and doctors could not check me into a psychiatric hospital last night.

My crying is for all the others who don’t have my resources, what happens to those on the opposite end are often killed during a Mental Health call because Police have no training.

The governor looked into the eyes of all the families of mass gun shootings, promising to do something, no gun control because that’s not the issue. That’s the BS line from all Republicans. So he tells people at their most devastating moment he is going to make changes. HE sure did, he passed a 2 Billion Mental Health Bill and not one penny goes for Mental Health Services. All of the money is being spent to build new jails and jails with Psych hospitals. His stigma against those who are mentally ill says you all belong in jail. That set me on fire!!!!!

I’m going down the drain right now and will post when I can.

Melinda

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Blogger Highlight-Caffeinated Philosophy

Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, Caffeinated Philosophy.

Caffeinated Philosophy

A digital café for lovers of coffee and cognition to congregate and converse

A place where I share posts on philosophy, psychology, poetry, and fiction. I hope that these posts will act as catalysts of curiosity, stimulating your mind and exposing you to novel perspectives and ideas.

 You have to check out this most interesting blog.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

 

Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

Are You Mentally Ill? What To Keep On You At All Times

In Texas, we’ve heard our Governor Greg Abbott say repeatedly that gun control was not the issue, we needed more Mental Health support. Here we are a year after the mass shooting at Uvalde and all we’ve heard is the same ole politics.

I had a Mental Health crisis and ended up with a gun pulled on me, very traumatic. I was lucky to be in front of my house and had my phone.

If you have a severe Mental Illness, you never know when you might have a crisis away from home. These tips will help if the Police get involved.

Have a card in your wallet that states:

Your name

What type of Mental Illness do you have

Your contact information or the contact of a family member

Doctors contact information

Wearing a medical bracelet would help since it’s one of the first things Police look for

Why are these tips important so important?

If you have a serious crisis there’s a chance you’re hallucinating, psychotic, or in a state where you are not aware of what you are doing. You’ll probably encounter a Police officer and having the information on you will help Police better understand how to help you.

My personal advice is to never buy a gun or other weapon. You could easily hurt or kill someone if your mind is not stable.

Melinda

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People Who Have Changed My Life For The Better

Sometimes people walk into our lives and years later you realize the impact they made in your life. In some cases, it hurts more before it gets better. No doubt you have people in your life that have done the same.

My grandparent’s support goes without saying

The 5th grade Music Teacher forced me to talk to my counselor about how I got the bruise on my face. This was one of the most traumatic experiences but she was doing her job. If a child looks like child abuse you have to take action.

My Probation Officer drove me to all of my Orthodontist appointments. She believed I could be reformed, I was on probation for carrying a gun the state took custody of me, and off to Bad-Girl Boarding School. If I had gone to a hard labor camp I don’t think I would have made it. My anger and attitude at the time would have driven me to the ground.

The Nuns and Father George at boarding school. The Nuns often gave positive affirmations and prayers. Father George was old as dirt but he took time out every day to teach me the piano.

My Counselor, Cathotholoism Teacher, and Godfather changed my life. He spent so many hours preparing me for Baptism and Confirmation. He was nerdy, had a double Ph.D., and was the most generous man I have known. He made me feel so smart!  After being told daily by my mother that I was stupid, she convinced me. I attended a celebration at his house and there were mostly educators there. They all treated me as an equal, not talking down to me, and they asked me some questions, it was one of the greatest days. He gave me Man’s Search for Meaning, along with several books on Psychology. He changed my life.

When I was 13 years old and in bad-girl boarding school, my Journalism teacher asked me to create a newsletter. Not only was it my dream to be a Journalist, but she also gave me full control of the content. What a confidence boost! She was young and one of the few people who came from outside the Convent to teach. I still have a copy and it’s hilarious but it’s so special to me.

I’ve been seeing my Therapist for almost 30 years and we’ve become close. She has a gentle approach and never pushes me. I’ve been able to resolve most of the trauma in my life working with her and she has taught me so much about myself.

I’ve been seeing my Psychopharmacologist for 32 years, I sought him out after my father committed suicide. For the first couple of years, I didn’t think he liked me. His style is gruff but after learning how to talk his language, everything worked out. He’s a genius, he probably has the DSM5 memorized. He’s been there thru all of the ups and downs, and he’s been so generous in teaching me about my Mental Illness. He’s retiring soon and it breaks my heart! Will I find a doctor that can fill his shoes?

Who has changed your life?

Melinda

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Fun Facts

 

Thanks for stopping by today, I love hearing your comments each week. 

Some octopus species lay 56,000 eggs at a time

That tiny pocket in jeans was designed to store pocket watches

Turkeys can blush

Most Disney characters wear gloves to keep animation simple

Cows don’t have upper front teeth

Melinda

Reference:

Readers Digest

 

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#Weekend Music Share with *John Mayer – Waiting On the World to Change Awesome Tune!

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

I’m so glad you’ve joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

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Hot and Heavy: The Role of a Clean Office in Promoting Employee Health

Are you tired of feeling stuffy and unproductive at work? Do you find yourself constantly sneezing or getting sick in the office? A clean office not only promotes good hygiene but also plays a crucial role in ensuring employee health and safety. 

In this blog post, we’ll explore how maintaining a tidy workplace can lead to a healthy summer office and happier employees. So, get ready to turn up the heat on cleanliness – let’s dive in!

The Hazards of Working in a Hot Office

Working in a hot office can be extremely hazardous to your health. Such an environment can lead to dehydration, which can then lead to heat stroke. Unhealthy offices can also worsen conditions such as asthma and heart disease. 

It is a good idea to keep your office clean and free of the clutter that will gather dust. A clean office will help you stay cool and comfortable and will also help you stay focused on your work.

Cleaning Tips for Hot Weather

Here are some cleaning tips to help you keep your office safe and comfortable during the hot weather months:

 
• Dust regularly and vacuum often to remove any build-up of dust and dirt.
 
• Wipe down surfaces with a disinfectant to prevent the spread of germs.
 
• Pay extra attention to high-touch areas such as door handles, light switches, keyboards, and telephones.
 
• Regularly empty trash cans and recycling bins to prevent unpleasant odors from developing in the heat.
 
• Encourage your employees to do their part by reminding them about basic hygiene practices such as washing hands frequently with soap or sanitizer and keeping their workspace tidy at all times.

Ways to Keep an Office Cool

When the temperatures start to rise, it can be difficult to keep your office cool. Bear in mind, though, that there are always things you can do to help make your office more comfortable for workers. These include:

1. Ensure the air conditioning inside the building is working properly. This may seem like an obvious solution, but it’s important to make sure the AC is running efficiently before taking any other steps.

2. Use fans strategically. Placing fans around the office can help circulate air and keep everyone cool. Just be careful not to point them directly at employees, as this can create a draft.

3. Keep windows covered. Sunlight streaming in through windows can make an already warm room feel even hotter. Closing blinds or curtains can help block out some of the heat.

4. Encourage employees to dress for the heat. Employees should avoid wearing heavy clothing or clothing that doesn’t breathe well in hot weather. Instead, opt for lightweight fabrics that will keep them cool.

5. Provide cool drinks and snacks. Keeping a stash of cold water bottles and light snacks like fruit or yogurt in the office will help employees stay hydrated and cooler throughout the day.

Photo by Kian Philippe Martos on Pexels.com

Benefits of a Clean Office Environment in Hot Weather

In hot weather, a clean office environment is important for promoting employee health and safety. A clean office allows employees to stay cool and comfortable and reduces the risk of heat-related illness. A clean office also provides a safe and healthy place for employees to work.

Employee Health and Safety Considerations

First and foremost, businesses should provide employees with a clean and safe working environment. This means ensuring that the office is free of dust, dirt, and other contaminants that could potentially cause health problems. 

Furthermore, businesses should make sure that all office equipment is properly maintained and in good working condition. This includes making sure that chairs, desks, and other furniture are ergonomically designed and meet industry safety standards. It is important that businesses train their staff and provide them with the necessary resources to remain safe while on the job. 

By taking these simple yet effective steps, businesses can ensure safer working environments are created.

Conclusion

A clean office is essential for creating a safe and healthy environment for employees. It will not only help reduce the likely spread of diseases but promote better employee morale, leading to improved productivity. With proper cleaning protocols in place, employers can ensure that their offices are free of dust and germs while providing an enjoyable working experience for everyone involved. Cleanliness should be an integral part of any workplace culture if businesses want to create a safe and efficient work environment where employees feel comfortable and productive.

It is such a simple and cost-effective way to improve office life for everyone, so it makes sense to have the office cleaned properly, particularly during the hot months.

If budgets are tight, then consider cleaning more during summer months, and hiring those that know how to achieve this in the shortest space of time.

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda

Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

How To Help Someone In A Mental Health Crisis

People who have a Mental Illness are like you and me, the only difference is instead of having Diabetes, they have wiring problems in the brain. Both have to take their medication or bad things can happen. Unless you know someone who has a Mental Illness you may have a stigma to overcome.

It’s a difficult time for people who have severe mental illness due to stigma and the ongoing hate in our country. Mental Illness is often overdramatized by television, nightly news, and trash rags, and Social Media is the worst.

There are many factors to consider when deciding to help a person during a Mental Health crisis. You can have the biggest heart in the world but your safety has to come first. If someone looks out of control, you can’t rush in and make the situation worst. You will have to help from afar.

The first step I would take if I saw someone acting, out of control, psychotic, delusional, talking to themself loudly, yelling out at people walking by, and maybe self-harm. against themselves, to name a few. I would call the police in the area, walk away and come back by to see they’re gone.

We want to help but we have to think about ourselves and our families. This is also a good read for teens that may find themself in a position to help. The way we can help reduce stigma is to learn the basics of Mental Health.

Even on medication or several medications people with severe mental illnesses, medications can stop working, some people will not take their medication and others have a more serious crisis. In an ideal world, we could easily find urgent  Mental Health support in several areas of the city.

One important note!

If someone is clearly having a crisis or breakdown you can access the situation from afar and CALL POLICE.

If you see someone in need you have a couple of choices. 

Call the police.

Call someone that knows him that can help.

Ask someone in the general area, do they know him or do they have his/her’s phone number. I would go as far as calling the number but would not get involved.

If there is a Mental Health Charity nearby, go there and ask them to help him.

Call the police!!!!!!! I can’t say this enough because the person may not know what they’re doing, have a weapon, steal your purse, steal your phone, and could become violent. I have Treatment-Resistant Bipolar Disorder and have had my own crisis in my front yard with a Police pointing a gun at me.

*Most cities have talked for years about having several officers trained in Mental Health but I can’t say anything has been done.

We have to think hard these days about all people we meet, but if a person is erratic, violent, talking loudly to themselves, or walking in circles, you don’t have the skills to help and may get yourself hurt.

I watch almost nothing but Police, Law, and Spy show, you can imagine what I’ve seen. Television is drama, not real unless it states. When the show Dallas went off the air, I was in shock but quickly my mind settled, this was a nice overly dramatic show, just an escape.

The last thing I want to do is add to the STIGMA of Mental Illness, that goes against who I am. We need more free resources around town to support those in need. If you’re an abled body Advocate, look at the resources available in your town/city. Start relationships with the person by checking in every week, learn from this person where the crisis is happening, and see if you can get a Charity, Corporate or use your own money to build some signs, have a table with information about Mental Illness.

I hear too much disturbing news all day long, and so or our kids. Limiting children’s time on the computer and all social media, I don’t care if they’ve done it one way, You are the boss and the boss is making changes. Have strong settings on the phone, and don’t allow access to Social Media during school or other family functions.

While you are making changes to computer usage, your child might be savvy and try to get a phone. Don’t Do It!

Don’t fall for these B.S. Excuses!

My best friend has one

My bother has one

All the girls in my school have one.

I have to be a to reach my friends

With all the mass shootings in America scaring you as much as me, I would make some exceptions. As these are for school safety only and you can only call, the police, parents, or friends who may be able to help. Don’t allow them to get on the Internet from the phone.

Visit the NAMI for all information on Mental Illness and excellent support systems.

I have a passion for Mental Health Support and America is driving off the rails and leaving people on the streets and no support for their Mental Illness. Now is the time to bring the faces of Mental Illness to the front, and educate children and adults with real content and support services.

I did not say anything about helping someone yourself, when someone’s in a crisis they can get violent. I will never ask anyone to put their life in danger. One nice gesture, if they are calm, stop and get a couple bottles of water and a sandwich.

Melinda

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Looking for the Light Is Celebrating 14 years on WordPress

I first joined WordPress in 2005 with a blog called Defining Memories and in 2014 I started Looking for the Light. 

There is no way to thank everyone who has supported me thru the years. I am grateful every time you visit or leave a comment. Looking for the Light is a passion of mine, I like helping others if I can and work hard to be an armchair advocate. 

I would not be the person I am today without all the kind words and I’ve learned so much in the past 14 years, you are great bloggers. 

 

14 Year Anniversary Achievement

 

Happy Anniversary with WordPress.com! You registered on WordPress.com 14 years ago. Thanks for flying with us. Keep up the good blogging.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

 

Men & Womens Health

If You’re Having WordPress Issues, Contact, Contact, And Contact Again

Are you having a problem with your WordPress site you are not alone and if luck you may get the issue fixed. Contact the Happiness Engineers every day, and contact them over and over until your issues are solved.

This is a similar post to what I’ve written about before, it’s a new problem that showed up yesterday. This is why Fortune 500 companies use the best practices for programmers by doing changes and updates offline. When programming is done live in the working with core systems, a fiasco continues almost daily.

My beef started on 5/11/2023 when the programmers jump in to make a change to the Reblog Sytems changes, I’ve had so many issues with bugs in the system, bugs that pop up before the original question I get answered.

WordPress has a bad reputation and I may have to share some articles with media and social media to see if WP gets the point.

I don’t want to leave WP, I want them to do their job, in a high-quality manner that services Bloggers.

http://www.wordpress.com

Melinda

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Wordless Wednesday *Blooming Rosemary

I’m so glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday. Thank you for stopping by my blog.

 

 

Melinda

Men & Womens Health

Test Post for WordPress

I’ve been in heavy conversation with WordPress since 5/11/23 when they started on the Oh-So important Reblog changes. I hope this last post will give me the answer I need and no longer have to spend hours a day communicating with WordPress.

Thank you for hanging in while I work out my problems with WordPress.

I pray they get the sytem bugs worked out and then leave the process alone.

Melinda

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Have A Chronic Illness? Take Control By Shaving Your Head

*This post is from 2017 and I’ve updated it to capture the years between 2017 and 2023.

There are times when Chronic Illness can get the better of you. I had such a week resulting in shaving my hair off. I’m no GI Jane but do have a nice head minus the scars from brain surgery.

For the past 13 years, I’ve been a caregiver to my grandparents and spent time in Psychic Hospital twice for ECT treatments. Finding an answer to my heart problem took three years, two cardiologists, and a trip to The Mayo Clinic I had a diagnosis in four days.

The search for ?? (Lyme Diseases) started in 2012 and the diagnosis in 2014. It took two attempts to find a competent doctor and tons of frustration. I’m not driving, my cognitive abilities like balance and memory were taken by Lyme.

Last week I discovered a total knee replacement is required and scheduled for 11/14/17. All the falls from Lyme blew out my right knee.

                                                                                            Wild Crazy Hair

I’m not one to have a pity party but the weight on my shoulders became too much. I gave my husband many reasons why I shaved my head, the truth is CONTROL. I have four chronic illnesses and have to manage my health every day and every day can be different. There are many days I don’t have the strength to bathe, on those days I use medical-grade body wipes.

I’m 54, my mental illness is close to balanced, was looking forward to driving after several years, and most importantly I want to know who I am.

Shaving my head was liberating, a part of the new me came out. I can control some things and have to roll with the punches on others.

Can you imagine coming home from work to find your wife has shaved their head? My husband wasn’t surprised.

Melinda

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Blogger Highlight-Mother Wintermoon

Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, Mother Wintermoon.

Mother Wintermoon

Stage 4 cancer, dv, trauma and NDE survivor.

Spiritual treasure hunter, learner, teacher, mystic, nurturer, and scribbler balancing on the tightrope between worlds. I share and receive guidance from Source and my Mentors in the celestial realm.

Peaceful warrior writing and winding my way through c-PTSD, loss, and grief.

I believe you and I crossed paths for a reason, at this pivotal moment in earth’s revolution. Welcome all lovers of the written word sharing your journeys and seeking to create community.

 Check out her incredible storytelling and exciting art.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

 

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Happy Father’s Day Gramps

My Gramps was the one they broke the mold on, he was the calmest, help anyone in need, and family’s first type of man and he worked hard.

I was a previous drug addict, alcoholic, and an out-of-control teen when I went to live with my grandparents. Gramps was a year from retirement so he was about 62 years old, he looked forward to fishing and playing dominos every day. Now there’s a 14-year-old living with them, not something either of us expected.

They raised me with tough love, the Greatest Generation way. I had so many rules to follow and I did not want to disappoint my grandparents by breaking them.

I didn’t realize he was not my biological grandfather until about 8 or 9 years old. Granny and I were talking and I said why is Gramp’s name different than my father’s. I was crushed at first then realized how fortunate I was to have him in my life. He was the only father I had, my father created trauma in my life and I had little to do with him.

If only everyone had someone like my Gramps in their life.

 

Served in WWII

I think of you and miss you so much my heart aches. See you soon.

Melinda

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Fun Facts

 

Thanks for stopping by today, I love hearing your comments each week. 

Johnny Appleseed’s fruits weren’t for eating

Scotland has 421 words for snow

Samsung tests phone durability with a butt-shaped robot

The Windy City nickname has nothing to do with Chicago’s weather

Peanuts aren’t technically nuts

Melinda

Reference:

Readers Digest

 

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#Weekend Music Share-Aerosmith and Johnny Depp – Train Kept A Rollin’ *Johnny will blow your mind!

Each week I showcase one of my favorite songs. I’m so glad you dropped by, have a great weekend.

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Melinda

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Learning To Walk Away-Guest Blogger Join Us Down The Rabbit Hole

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New ADD & ADHD Resources Added To Organizations That Can Help Page

I’ve added some important recourses for ADD & ADHD to the Organizations That Can Help page. The resources are under Mental Health.

NIMH.NIH.gov

ADDitude Magazine

CHADD.org

ADD.org

Melinda

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Good Times on the Highway to Hell Part 5

More Antics On My Journey In Life

I vomited in my new Land Rover on the way home from work. I could not pull over fast enough, vomit was everywhere and I didn’t have a napkin. Once I arrived home, the clean-up began. It was getting late and stopped only to find I had locked myself out of the house. I was living in a new neighborhood and only had three neighbors. I found a light on and asked if I could borrow a phone book, and she said yes.  Bet I smelled bad and this was the first time I met her. Even after a professional cleaning it smelled and I traded it for something else.

 

Photo by picjumbo.com on Pexels.com

 

My friends and I went to dinner to celebrate my 33rd birthday. Out of the blue, I decided to get a tattoo and a belly button ring. Several of us drove to a bad part of town because they wanted to watch me get the tattoo. Thank goodness I was drunk, they said on the sign not to be drunk but at that age, I was on top of the world.

FYI, the belly button piercing hurt so bad, like your guts were being pulled out. After six months of babying the spot, it would not heal and I took it out.

My gramps had Prostate and Bladder Cancer, the two pushing against each other caused him to have to pee about every 10-15 minutes. My cousin was in a small plane crash and was in really bad shape, Gramps had to go see him. The problem was the hospital was 1.5 hours away. Knowing that we would be stopping along the way I took an empty Gatorade bottle for emergencies. I’m flying down the highway close to 100 miles an hour and Gramps says I have to pee now! I had to push the accelerator all the way down to find an exit. I was Speed Racer! I found a spot and he peed in the bottle. It wasn’t funny at the time but it sure is now.

Melinda

Men & Womens Health

Test Post for WordPress

I’m still having problems reblogging and you might be too. I’m doing a test to get to a certain screen for WordPress to see.

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com

Melinda

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

Things I’m Loving

Here are a few products I’m in love with right now. I hope you find a new product to add to your household or self-care routine. The list may also give you ideas for a surprise for friends, family, or co-workers.

 

Olly Heavenly Hair Growth Gummies 60 count

It supports strong, healthy growth with Keratin, Amla, Biotin, and Minerals. They have a Tropical Citrus flavor which tastes good and is not too hard to chew. I haven’t been taking long enough to give you the results. Very affordable compared to other top gummies.

Dr. Hauschka Lip Care Stick 

It softens, hydrates, and protects with a hint of flavor. No gloss or gooey lips, just pure natural goodness. The first products were launched in 1967 and Elisabeth Sigmund trained the first Dr. Hauschka Esthetician in 1971.

Weleda Skin Food Nourishing Body Lotion

The lotion is creamy and soaks in quickly. I love that the bottle stands upside down so the lotion is always at the top, no more squeezing to get to the bottom of the bottle. From Weleda’s website.

“Some cosmetics leech small microplastic beads and liquid plastics, such as silicones, into rivers and oceans, which pollutes the environment. We do not use these substances. Our Body Cleansing Scrub, for example, uses environmentally friendly wax beads made from carnauba and beeswax. We believe that quality and sustainability go hand in hand.”

Prime TV by Amazon

If you are a Prime Member you get so many perks it’s hard to believe for the price. One of our favorites is free Prime TV, it’s loaded with original content, movies for all ages, and series. We’re addicted to The Practice right now. All the regular TV shows have ended for the season, and now we have plenty of shows to watch. 

I buy most of my products from Amazon. 

What products have you added to your life that you love?

Melinda

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Wordless Wednesday *New Orleans in Bloom

I’m so glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday. Thank you for stopping by my blog.

 

New Orleans

 

Melinda

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

Let’s Celebrate Flag Day on the 14th

For Flag Day 1942, President Franklin D. Roosevelt launched an international “United Flag Day” or “United Nations Day“, celebrating solidarity among the World War II Allies, six months after the Declaration by United Nations.[22][23] It was observed in New York City as the “New York at War” parade, and throughout the United States and internationally from 1942 to 1944.[citation needed]

The annual celebrations on Flag Day and also Defenders Day in Maryland (September 12, since 1814) commemorate the Star-Spangled Banner and its creator Mary Pickersgill, for the huge emblem that flew over Fort McHenry guarding Baltimore harbor during the British Royal Navy‘s three days attack in the Battle of Baltimore during the War of 1812 (1812–1815).[citation needed]

Through all the violence, hatered, and politics, I believe our flag is sacred.

Melinda

 

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

Blogger Highlight-RabBits

Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, RabBits.

RabBits

 

Stories about family, faith, friends and funnies. Pull up a chair. Grab a cup of coffee and laugh, cry, ponder and inspire about ordinary events of this wonderful, ever changing, bubbling pot that we call “every day life”.

RabBits is one interesting blog and I know you will find something that strikes you.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

 

Mental Health

Guest Blogger-WordPress Post On Reblogging

I went from 5/11 to 6/10 without an answer about why the Reblog process is changing and how to properly reblog. It’s a long read, you can skip down to the end of the post if you already know the new steps and my comments are at the end.

Reblogging Gets a Refresh

June 8, 2023

Dave Martin

Reblogging is a way to show appreciation for another creator’s work while also providing your own audience with a valuable piece of news, work of art, or thought-provoking opinion. We recently made a few significant improvements to the experience of reblogging to make it more customizable for you while also ensuring the original creator gets the credit they deserve.

What’s new with reblogging

1. Freedom to choose your title 

You’ll now find the title field empty when you’re taken to the editor to reblog a piece of content. Rather than automatically using the original post’s title, you’re free to add your own flair. This allows you more creative freedom and reassures your audience (and the original creator) that you’re not simply passing off another person’s work as your own. 

2. No more default featured image

We’ve also changed the automatic import of the featured image. This helps avoid the appearance of content duplication while also helping you manage your site’s media storage limits more effectively. That doesn’t mean you’re stuck with text only, though — you can still add your own featured image to the reblogged post.

3. A new way to embed

Lastly, we’ve replaced the Quote Block with the core Embed Block for the post you’re reblogging. This change provides a more accurate representation of the original content and makes for a nice visual experience for your readers. Here’s what it looks like:

How do I reblog a post from the WordPress.com Reader?

Reblogging a post within the WordPress.com Reader is a simple process. Here’s how it works:

1. Navigate to the Reader by clicking on the “Reader” tab in your WordPress.com dashboard. 

2. Browse through the posts until you find one you’d like to reblog. Click on the “Share” (arrow) button located at the bottom of the post.

3. Select the site that you’d like to reblog this post to.

4. You’ll be taken to the editor, where you can add your own title along with any additional thoughts or comments.

5. When you’re ready, click “Publish” to share the post on your own blog.

A more enjoyable experience for all

We believe these changes will make reblogging a more respectful and gratifying experience for everyone. As always, we’re eager to hear your thoughts. Try out the new process and let us know what you think!

Happy reblogging! 

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I read thru the replies and many didn’t even know they could turn off the reblog button! What does that tell you? The Reblogging changes were to satisfy a few claiming reblogging is PLAGERISM. It seems counterintuitive to make changes to a process that already worked.

I’m asking EVERYONE ON WORDPRESS to contact a Happiness Engineer via email or chat and tell them you want notifications on pressing information including systems changes pushed thru the Notification section and not by email.

I’m not down on WordPress enough to leave but I would like them to send us news about upcoming projects, projected dates, what’s is the purpose of the change thru the Notifications, not an email. They can push information to us and we are less in the dark. After the project is finished a new notification goes out with how to apply the changes.

Melinda

 

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

Quote from Dr. Jacob Hascalovici Co-founder and Chief Medical Officer for Clearing App

“Our patients go to battle every day, fighting through their pain to go to work, play with their kids, be ‘normal’ – medication is only one piece of the puzzle” 

Dr Jacob Hascalovici

Dr. Jacob Hascalovici, MD, PhD 
Co-Founder & Chief Medical Officer

I had not been to the Clearing App in a while and I wanted to know what was new. I found the quote and had to share it. Here are two posts I wrote about Clearing. 

The Clearing App Provides Pain Management On Your Time

Overview of Pain Management App Clearing