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Melinda
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Technology didn’t change my job until the mid 90’s because computers weren’t used where I worked. We didn’t even have voice mail, messages came on a pink message slip. The old days had it’s advantages, like no social media and the level of violence we have today.
I retired in 2005 and technology has made a big difference in my life and it has affected me negatively as well. I recieve a data breach letter almost monthly. How can can large corporation not have more knowledge than hackers?
Melnda
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Thank you for joining me for Wordless Wednesday and I hope to see you again soon.

Melinda
I don’t have a hidden skill set, and I don’t wish for skills. If I want to learn or do something, I set a goal and go do it. Being diagnosed with Lyme in 2014 or 2015, my life was turned upside down. The Lyme spirokettes find a major organ to set up house, and they set up in my brain and caused cognitive impairment and other medical issues.
If I did wish for something it would be a cure to my illnesses and the ability to participate in the activities I love.
I do hope your wishes come true.
Melinda

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Melinda
Speaking of weather, have you notice how climate change has affected the weather around the world? I live in Texas which is considered the south, we are know for our blistering hot summers and milder winters. In the 80’swe had four seasons, not any longer. It says Spring on the calendar but it was 90+ the past two days. We only have to look at all the flooding, fires, more flooding and more houses being washed away during the floods.
As for my preference in weather, that depends if I’m traveling. Even though I’m freezing all the time, the weather didn’t deter me from going to Russia during their Winter. I always say in winter you can add more clothes.
I like all seasons yet some are less tolerated for very long. Spring is my favorite time of year but we’re having less Springtime weather here in Texas.
Melinda
Looking for the Light
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week’s highlight is Heather Miller at hlmillerblog.
A place to pen my thoughts
https://hlmillerblog.wordpress.com
Well, hello there! Thank you for stopping by. My name is Heather Miller. I am a wife, mother, grandmother, teacher, writer, hostess and friend. But, those are just labels. My true identity is a child of God. I am forever grateful for His love, grace, mercy and forgiveness.
I started this blog back in 2014 as a place to post my writing samples from a creative writing class I completed. Since then, I have met so many incredible writers here on WordPress that are friendly and supportive. My goal now is to encourage and comfort others through sharing my own struggles and how God comforted me and carried me through them. “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)
In addition to blogging, I currently have a few writing projects in progress. Two of them are children’s books, and one is a memoir. None of them have been published yet, but hopefully soon! My hobbies include spending time with my family, crocheting, reading, solving puzzles, and spending time in nature.
The biggest change I’ve made in my writing is being vulnerable to share every part of my life without fear of what readers may think.
Writing and reading comments makes me feel connected to others in this WordPress community. I enjoy making friends and reading about their lives too!
Be sure to stop by Heather’s blog, say hello and enjoy reading her archives.
I still can’t add a link, please bare with me.
Melinda
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Melinda
Money can be one of the worst things for making you worry; indeed, a lot of people can feel like their mental wellbeing has been effectively ruined over their financial insecurity. It’s a very serious thing – almost half of the people currently in debt also report having mental health issues.
If that also sounds like you, being able to take more control over your finances is key for achieving greater peace and stability in your lifestyle. Of course, learning to live with and/or manage your money worries is only part of the solution, but it’s essential to do. But don’t worry, you don’t have to take this challenge on alone – here are some tips for stopping your money worries from overwhelming you.
Don’t ever let your finances go unchecked; face your fears and confront the problem head-on by keeping up with how your bank account, credit scores, and any other financial platforms you’re a part of our functioning.
Because when you’re aware, you’re in control. You’re able to face the problem, and prevent it from becoming a bigger problem before it ever gets the chance to. And you can make this easy for yourself. For example, if you’ve got car insurance to pay for, be sure to make it easy to check in with by using something like a direct auto insurance account to keep up to date straight from your phone.
The next step is to be realistic, which can be a hard thing when you’re finding it very hard to face the reality of your finances. However, when you’re realistic, you’ll be able to put together a workable budget, that allows you to take care of yourself and pay for any debt and other financial obligations you have.
Start with your income, and then take away your expenses, both fixed and variable. If this all fluctuates, use a monthly average. Whatever you’ve got leftover is what you can put towards those credit card bills, and use to bump up your credit score bit by bit. Even just a couple of regular debt payments can turn it green again.
Finally, if you’re someone who has serious money worries, don’t let yourself be alone in facing them. Talk to friends and family about them, or work with a professional such as an advisor, who could help you to see the light in your struggles.
Most of all, make sure you feel supported, and like you’ve got some strength behind you. Even if you need someone to be there with you when you check your bank account for the first time in months, ask someone to come round and sit with you. It could really change how you see your finances.
Money worries can be overwhelming, at their worst. Be sure to reach out for help, and always try to face your fears, as you have the power to take control of a problem like this.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
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Melinda
What a treat seeing and hearing them together.
It’s the weekend!!!!!!
I’m glad you joined me for another edition of Weekend Music Share this week.
Have a great weekend!
Melinda
Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.
Alive!
Melinda
Looking for the Light
New York resident Holly Ahern is a professor emerita of microbiology, a researcher working on improved diagnostic tests for Lyme disease, a member of state and federally convened working groups that examined all aspects of Lyme-infection associated chronic illness, and the mother of a Lyme disease patient.
In the following guest opinion in Syracuse.com, she offers a thoughtful response to an earlier article that overlooked important, established information about Lyme disease.
Lyme disease is a complex illness caused by a bacterium whose ingenious life strategy doesn’t match the classic model of how bacterial infections affect human physiology.
Although we all want to believe that the current one-size-fits-all medical guidelines represent an evidenced-based framework to guide diagnosis and treatment — quite frankly, they don’t.
Health care providers continue to rely on and defend practices that may work for a small percentage of Lyme disease patients, but leave the majority in limbo.
Patients seek “nontraditional methods” of treatment from “functional providers” because the longstanding guidelines directing diagnosis and treatment have failed many people over many years.
First, the legend. Fifty years ago, a researcher at Yale University identified an outbreak of a previously unrecognized bacterial infection and named it Lyme disease. A diagnostic test was developed. Antibiotics became the standard treatment for this disease. Treatment-resistant cases were noted in nearly half of diagnosed cases, and were treated with more antibiotics. Persistence of the bacteria after treatment was acknowledged. Transmission during pregnancy leading to adverse outcomes was discovered and researched.
Then early research progress stalled, and by 2001, Lyme disease became known as a disease that was “hard to catch and easy to cure.”
A conflict developed between patients and researchers that resulting in patients being labelled “Lyme loonies” by the retiring NIH official who in 2007 oversaw federally funded Lyme disease research in the U.S. And it’s apparent from the opinions previously expressed that medical mislabeling of Lyme disease patients with persistent illness continues to this day.
There are more than 500,000 diagnosed Lyme disease cases a year in the U.S., so obviously it’s not all that hard to catch. A significant percentage of those cases will have persistent and debilitating symptoms that last for months to years, so it’s not so easy to cure, either. That’s the truth.
And now the myths, starting with the one about how Lyme disease is easy to diagnose because almost everybody knows they were infected by a tick bite and show up to their doctor with a unique, bull’s-eye shaped rash that enables early diagnosis and curative treatment.
Here’s the science behind that medical myth. In the early years of research into Lyme disease, a handful of epidemiological studies proclaimed that over 70% of diagnosed cases started with this rash.
However, all of those early studies relied almost entirely on the bull’s-eye rash for case determination, a strong research bias that should be apparent to all. From newer research it’s clear the bull’s-eye rash isn’t the diagnostic tool it was thought to be.
Fewer than half of all Lyme patients recall the tick bite, and 40% report seeing no rash at all. Only 10% of rashes are actually shaped like a bull’s-eye. Not such a great clinical sign after all.
Then there are the diagnostic tests, which starting 40 years ago were acknowledged as being not all that accurate. Yet today we’re still using those same tests. Positive results are often disregarded as “false positive” and those patients go untreated. Negative test results can’t be used to rule out a diagnosis of Lyme disease. Huh?
With regard to symptoms, numerous published studies point out that symptoms are variable. Women experience Lyme disease differently than men. Men are more likely to develop the bull’s-eye, give a positive diagnostic test result and experience more obvious symptoms.
Women are significantly less likely to develop the rash or test positive with the current two-tier testing approach, and more commonly experience non-specific symptoms like fatigue, headache, heart palpitations, vomiting, photophobia and higher severity of memory loss and psychiatric issues.
Which means men get treated, and women get referred.
Since the rash is unreliable, symptoms are variable and the tests don’t help, early diagnosis is missed more often than not. And late diagnosed patients, who are more often women, are at a higher risk of becoming chronically ill. That’s the truth.
Which brings up treatment. Because Lyme disease is a bacterial infection, the recommended treatment is a short course of one oral antibiotic. But Lyme isn’t caused by your typical bacterium, and that treatment doesn’t always work. The longstanding assertion that additional antibiotic treatment isn’t warranted, because there’s “no evidence” that it works, needs to be balanced with the reality that there is “no evidence” it doesn’t, either. There’s just not enough evidence, period.
The truth is more federally funded, well-designed clinical studies that aren’t designed to just reinforce what investigators want to believe, are desperately needed. An update to outdated Lyme disease medical school curricula appears to be needed, as well.
Republished by permission of the author.
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Melinda
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Lavender is the most commonly infused into oils and uded topically. It is one of my favorite herbs for it’s numerous beneficial attribute, including it’s antibacterial and antiseptic uses, and soothing mild sedative properties, which can naturally support an exceptionally long list of common ailments.
Cuts and scaring
Insect bites
Eczema
Burns
Headaches
Anxiety
Sleeplessness
Depression
Hypertension
Preeclampsia
Constipation
Labor pain
Melinda
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If you’d like to add edible flowers to your garden and recipes, there are a few things to remember. Pick them early in the day, before the sun grows to hot, and use the promptly or store them in a sealed container in the refrigerator for a couple of days. Wash them, gently dip them in a seal container of water and dab onto soft towel.
Carnations
Chamomile
Cornflower
Dahlias
Dandelions
Elderflower
Geraniums
Gladiolias
Hibiscis
Honeysuckle
Lavender
Lilac
Magnolias
Nasturitium
Pansies
Roses
Snapdragon
Zucchini
Melinda
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