When you fly do ever think about the history of aviation? I don’t think about it when flying commercial but when I go small airport in the city, Dallas no less, and fly a small Cessna you think about it when you take off and have to take a sharp right to miss the skyscrapers nearby.
I was flying with my ex-husband and his instructor on one of his last check-out flights. His instructor told him to stall the plane. I was so scared, but trusted him to do it right. That is what he spent so many hours training for. Aviation is based on math skills, I learned the hard way when taking flight lessons myself. I failed the test, no surprise when it comes to math.
The next time you fly, think about the history of aviation and how far we’ve come. We don’t think about getting on a plane and there are plenty of planes for everyone.
I can’t let the day go by without thanking the aviators from years gone by for never giving up on making flying a dream come true.
On August 19, National Aviation Day is celebrated across the United States. It is an annual national observance that honors the development of aviation.
The holiday was first observed in 1939, after the proclamation by U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt. August 19 was chosen on purpose because it is the anniversary of Orville Wright’s birthday. Orville was the younger of the Wright brothers, renowned American aviation pioneers. He was still alive when President first issued the proclamation.
Be sure to fly your flags on the 19th to show your support for Aviation and its history.
If you type “moving house guide” into Google, you return over 1,410,000,000 results. Odds are, a great number of these returns are comprised of articles detailing the exact same moving plan – find a good removalist, plan your utilities, pack and load your goods, hand over the keys, travel to the new home, unpack, and organize again. Rinse and repeat however many times you move.
Of course, there’s a reason this kind of advice is so prevalent. It works. Moreover, it’s not as if you can “have an opinion” on whether you’re supposed to bring your items with you from house to house, most people will be more than interested in doing so, and it doesn’t really matter if you use self-storage, ask your friends to help you, or move each possession one at a time, the end result is the same.
All of these plans and warm advisory tips are there for one reason – to make this big life change seem surmountable and even exciting. This is certainly achieved by good planning and care.
But what if you still feel quite upset without really knowing why? It’s widespread for people to feel near-distraught when moving house, even if they’re quite looking forward to the new chapter of their lives.
It’s not hard to understand why. To move is to pick up everything and move the entire orbit of your life from one focal point to another. Sure, you’re welcoming something new, but you’re also stepping into the unknown. It will alter almost everything. In some cases, it may mean moving away from friends or family for the first time. It’s not hard to see why some people struggle with this, and it doesn’t mean they’re being weak or theatrical at all.
In this guide, then, we hope to provide you with a little support should you feel this way. Let’s discuss emotional regulation during a house move, so you can contend with those intense emotions and feel calmer about the whole ordeal.
Give Yourself Time
Often, the best thing you can do for heavy emotions is to process them with time. Fighting them, dismissing yourself, and even covering those emotions by never sitting down, never discussing them, or never allowing them to properly express themselves can be a mistake. Otherwise, you might bottle up your worries, and then when an inconvenience strikes, you might find yourself arguing with your partner or acting out unpredictably. Again, you don’t have to be an irrational and silly person to feel this way, as many have had episodes like this before.
It’s good to give yourself time to move, then. Have the chance to visit the new home you’ve purchased. Book a weekend getaway in the new town you plan to live in, so you can explore its surroundings, cafes, restaurants, and flow of life. Meet the locals. Take a drive to the commute for your new job or school run. If you can settle into that, then the experience feels less like diving into an icy pool from 20 meters up, instead, you’re eased into calm waters.
Use This Opportunity For A Clearout
Moving house is an opportunity to clear out the unnecessary junk and built-up possessions that you’re hanging onto for no purpose. As we all know, moving house is expensive, and so selling some of these items may even help you raise money and feel a little less worried about the stringent budget you’re planning this move from.
For example, you might run a yard sale to get rid of your old, unnecessary items. You could decide to use cash for gold services for a quick sale of old jewelry, or perhaps even donate some goods to charity if you think they could do some good.
Most of us have drawers, cupboards, and even full rooms filled with items that we can’t remember the origin of or haven’t used for years. Don’t be afraid to let this go. Not only does this give you the chance to gather new items, but there’s a great deal of freedom that comes with letting go of unnecessary attachments.
Additionally, if you willingly let certain items go, then you can feel as though you’ve done so with autonomy and purpose, as opposed to feeling like you’re losing things out of your control thanks to the move.
Throw A House Leaving Party
Yes, we’re certain that the plans to move out of your home are quite enough thank you, and so we won’t recommend that you put together a big blowout party with entertainment, catering, and private chaperones.
However, it can be nice to enjoy “an event” dedicated to saying goodbye to your friends in the local neighborhood, even if you’re still going to come back from time to time to meet your family and friends.
This can be as simple or as complex as you’d like. Again, we’d certainly skip the five-act stage show unless you’re really into making this a blowout event, but heading to a nice restaurant with a few friends, or even having a cheese board and wine night while you play board games with your favorite neighbors and friends can be enough.
Thanks to this effort, your final memories of this property will be pleasant, and you’ll have given yourself the closure and comfort you deserve.
Enlist Help Where You Need It
There’s no shame in asking for help in any capacity, especially during a once-in-a-while event like a house move. After all, it’s not as if you stoically move everything from one house to another yourself (except when moving very short distances), you enlist the services of removalists, even if you’re paying for them.
So, could it be that friends, family, or neighbors can help you? Maybe your neighbors are happy to leave space outside the street by not parking near the curb so your removalist van can come. Maybe your parents are happy to take your children for the weekend so you don’t have to worry about caring for them as you pack everything and turn off all the utilities in your household.
Perhaps a sibling or relative of yours is more than happy to take a flight to the new home and ensure they greet the removalists as they arrive, while you focus on a long-haul drive as you bring your cars with you, stopping off in hotels to break up the journey and feel a little less worn by the road. No matter your reasoning, don’t feel bad asking for help. You might genuinely need it.
Work With The Right Professionals
When moving home, you may need to work with professionals within the real estate industry such as realtors, conveyancers, mortgage brokers, and professional movers. Hire the right professionals and you could find that they take away a lot of stress. Hire the wrong professionals and you could find that they create extra stress.
For example, a good moving company will be able to provide services like disassembly/reassembly of furniture, and boxes and even provide temporary storage. A bad moving company may add stress by breaking items, refusing to move certain items, or taking too long to transport everything.
By hiring professionals with a good reputation, you can increase the likelihood that they will take away your stress rather than adding to it. Look out for positive online reviews and professional bios such as this one from Caron Jones Burlington. A well-designed website and good rankings can be a positive sign too.
Moving into a property is effort enough without immediately having to meet all of your new neighbors, enroll in your new job, start with the school run, and begin your new life with a day to spare.
If you can, move at least a week earlier than you have to contend with all this. Give yourself a little time to deflate after all the excitement, and make sure to get plenty of rest. This is especially true if you’ve moved a long distance, and especially if you’ve gone abroad.
This isn’t just a small change, in some cases, the new environment can actually weigh you down physically, which impacts your mood and outlook. For example: if moving to a higher altitude area, then the air will be thinner than you’re used to, which is why many high-performance athletes will often train at this level so the oxygenation inspires harder work. It can take time to get used to this, let alone recovering from the long commute, let alone living without all of your usual utilities for a day or two, let alone having new social experiences, let alone getting used to managing a new property.
In other words, give yourself a break. Moving is hard, and you’re not a lazy person for feeling the effects.
If You Need Further Help, Just Ask
Of course, so far we’ve given a range of tips for how to transition to a new home and a new life with care and focus. However, in some cases, the issues you’re experiencing may be beyond the scope of this article.
If you feel as though certain issues might not be because of the move, but have been uncovered by this new process, then it’s good to find someone to help you. Counseling services, visiting your doctor, or even discussing your worries with a therapist can make a big difference.
This way, you might notice that actually, the move has become a shorthand for your worries which extend more deeply. That’s not to say you’re going to conduct a full course of treatment right before or after a move, but be sure to give yourself space for that outcome if you need it.
We would be negligent not to mention this because after all, a move offers a healthy leverage point to springboard into better self-care and good habits.
With this advice, we hope you can enjoy better emotional regulation even during an intensive house move.
Have you checked out the resources available on the Organizations That Can Help page? This is one example of the extensive list of resources available.
A few changes can lead to significant benefits. This also applies to our health. Making some changes in our daily life we can put the first elements in motion for a complete rebirth. If you suffer with a chronic illness, it is even more important to start looking after your health and boosting your immune system. If you have a disability, even if you use a mobility scooter, you still try to move, only gently, if possible. Mobile scooters give disabled people the independence that they deserve and coupled with excellent diet and lifestyle, you can start to regain some confidence and happiness.
Vegetables are divided into two categories: starchy and non-starchy. Starchy vegetables are potatoes, corn and beans, non-starchy are spinach and other leafy vegetables, carrots, broccoli and cauliflower. Starchy vegetables have more calories than non-starchy ones. So by filling half the plate with non-starchy vegetables you ensure that you will receive all the necessary nutrients, water and fiber, but without many extra calories. It’s an easy strategy not to bother with calorie and portion counting. Processed carbohydrates, have almost no nutrients and no fiber. The only thing they have is calories that can make you gain weight.
In fact, a diet rich in processed carbohydrates – white bread, buns, white pastries, sweets, etc. – can increase the risk of developing type II diabetes and heart disease. Get rid of the bad habits! Unprocessed carbohydrates such as brown rice and whole grains enhance your diet with “good” calories, fiber, vitamins and minerals. Fatty fish such as salmon are an excellent source of omega – 3 fats, which are essential for good heart health and reducing inflammation in the body. They also enhance mental health. Drink green tea because this is going to be important to those with disabilities as it helps work as a toxin remover.
Disconnect from everything one hour before bedtime
Quality sleep is the alpha and omega for health. And one of the things that destroys it is technology. Devices that emit “blue light”, a type of wave that is common during the day, “confuse” the brain, making it think it is morning. So by avoiding screen time before bed, you can improve the quality of sleep.
Sleep at the same (approximately) time every day
In addition to poor sleep quality, many people have trouble sleeping. This is largely due to poor rest planning. Having a specific time when you fall asleep, you train your body clock so that you can fall asleep more easily. At the same time, scheduled bedtime has a positive effect on concentration and memory.
Keep up with regular checkups
t may seem very low on the list of things you have to do, but it is important to keep up with those regular health checks. Whether that is booking a hearing check at your local hearing center, or heading to the optician to get your eyes checked, these things are important to keep up the quality of life that you have.
Limit socializing with negative people.
Even a little negativity is enough to get you down. Try to spend more time with happy and optimistic people. If you have negative people in your inner circle, try to convey some of your positive thinking to them and change the direction. The rest is up to you and how you treat yourself. Don’t be hard on yourself and appreciate all the little things. Remember self-care is not selfish.
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blog, Life According To Sassy.
She writes under a pseudonym to protect her safety in a world that is unsafe for women, among others, who speak out against violence and oppression. Sassy is a survivor of domestic violence and learned first hand what it was to be silenced by those who wanted her to remain controlled.
You will want to check out the blog, she is passionate about her writing and has a story to tell.
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The Band “Up On Cripple Creek” on The Ed Sullivan Show Live! Great version!!!!!!
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Melinda
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I’ve been writing my thoughts and the impact on my life from Fibromyalgia for some time now and it’s time for an update.
I have been blessed to not have a full-blown flair in several months, but when I did it caused all the pain in my body to worsen.
I have bursitis in both hips and is painful long before I can get my steroid shots. I also have an injured shoulder which is painful when I sleep. When I’m not having a flair I can function except for my hips. It’s hard to sleep on one side for very long and then I have to turn over, and so and so on.
When I have a flair I can barely walk, it hurts to put any weight on my hip and my knee wants to give out. The doctor says nothing is wrong with my knee, it’s a replacement so the low-grade pain I feel is amped up.
I can’t walk without pain all over my body, sometimes in places I don’t even expect. I spent most of the winter in a terrible flair and am so grateful it has passed. But I know it will be back again and after the winter struggles my husband has a much better idea of what a flair looks like.
Even the pain I don’t feel gets amplified, and I stay in bed for many days. I’ve missed so much of my life to Fibromyalgia and several other chronic illnesses. I fell into a deep depression and wanted to kill myself, I didn’t see a future. That’s when I call my Psychiatrist and say I’m falling and can’t get up.
People might not tell you how debilitating Fibromyalgia can be but it can put your life on halt. The most important message I can share is to have a team of doctors and a therapist that supports your journey.
It takes a toll on your mental health especially if you have other chronic illnesses. Be gentle with yourself, and have self-care time set aside every day. You have to take care of mind and body.
I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder but did not take it seriously until my father committed suicide at 52 years old. He put a gun in his mouth and it was a terrible scene. After he died I started reading about Bipolar Disorder, it said that 75% of children whose parents kill themselves will do the same. At that point, I decided I need some professional help.
Bipolar Disorder can present itself in many ways and it’s important to know so you can contact your doctor when in trouble. I’m on the depressive side and rarely go into a hypo state and have never been manic. I had a problem in the late 90s where I was switching, so one day depressed, and one day I would be fine, and then boom, I’m depressed. You need to have a Psychiatrist who can keep working on the right mix of medication to keep you stable. When looking for a Psychiatrist, the key thing to ask is do they treat Bipolar Disorder.
Now that you know a little about me, I want to share how I stay healthy:
The most important task every day is to take your medication. I get tired of taking so many pills but I know that’s what it takes to keep me going.
Get rid of your stigmas and shut out all the people in your life who don’t care to understand or have their own stigma. You need to cut all the negatives out of you’re life as possible. I’ve quit watching the Nightly News because politics get me worked up. It’s been a big relief.
There is nothing to be ashamed of, you have an illness just like others have an illness.
Take time out every day for self-care, it could be enjoying the fresh air and listening to the birds, taking a hot bath with essential oils to calm you down, or anything you can take time out to pamper yourself is good for your mental health.
Keep all appts. with your doctor. I would also recommend seeing a therapist too. I’ve been seeing my team for over 30 years.
Take the time to learn about your illness but don’t over-focus on it. You need to know what you’re dealing with but don’t second guess your doctor. Not everything you read on the Internet is correct. Go to reliable sites for information.
If you swing to the manic state, it may feel good but as my doctor says, what comes up must come down and you won’t like the coming down part. Being manic can cause you to think differently and you can get yourself in trouble very fast.
Stay on top of your refills, you don’t want to miss any days of your medication.
Share you’re story with someone you trust, you may have to explain your illness to them but you need someone on your side. You also need someone who can tell when you’re not yourself and alert you before you slide one way or another.
You have to understand when you are at your limit. If you are thinking about suicide, now is the time to raise your hand. Call your friend for support. Worst case scenario go to the local Emergency Room.
It can seem overwhelming at first, but with good information, a great Psychiatrist and Therapist, and a friend you can trust, you have a good safety net.
I want to send a special thank you to Vital Field’s Communications Director Nassia Bitha for sending me the Pineal Gland Cell’s. If you’ve read my blog long enough you know that my relationship with Vital Field started over two years ago and I’ve reviewed many of their products. I don’t completely understand the science behind each Cell but all of the reviews I’ve done have been positive.
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I want to thank Trigger Publishing Editor Andrea Marchiano for sharing Sometimes by Joann Howeth. I have enjoyed and learned so much from children’s books. Parents today have a choice of what tools they use to raise their children. There are no children’s books like the ones from Trigger, you must check out their complete selection of children’s and teen’s books.
These are great books for Grandparents to have around so they can reinforce the way you’re trying to help your child.
Blurb
Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming. Sometimes, we cling to things that we should let go of. And sometimes, those who are closest to us are the ones who hurt us the most. Despite what others may tell us, during these times, the best thing we can do is talk.
In this honest and poignant story, Joann Howeth reminds us of what can happen behind closed doors and, in doing so, encourages kids to tell their own stories to ensure they get the support they need. A must-have for every library, classroom, and therapist’s office, this book will reassure struggling children that they are not alone and help them find a safe and healthy outlet for their troubles.
My Thoughts
This is the most serious children’s book I’ve read and think all children need to read this book because it shows them that sometimes you have to tell your secrets to someone you can trust. This book will help children struggling with divorce, lack of money, or other struggles that go on behind closed doors. One very important piece of information is missing, it’s her name. This goes along with her secret.
She has many secrets that she keeps to herself and the pressure it puts on her is heavy. Her Dad is gone and her mother is in a bad place, it could be from mental health issues or she just can’t make ends meet. Often times when she goes to the refrigerator there is no milk, or when she wants to wash her hair there is no shampoo and the house is stacked full and running over including the moldy dishes.
She is not allowed to participate in school activities or go to barbecues and is isolated from friends because she doesn’t want anyone to know her secrets.
She feels so alone and embarrassed and her mother has said no one can come into their house. She has no friends except the neighbor who is kind to her. Her room is filled with items her mother has collected and it crowds out her sleeping space, sometimes she sleeps in a chair or will sit on the stoop.
Her neighbor has a good idea of what is going on and she offers her a string cheese, an apple, and a hug on the way home from school. One day she realized her neighbor knew what was going on and asked her not to tell. Her trusted friend, Mrs. McGeorger said sometimes you have to share with someone.
This is happening today much more than we know it and we can’t judge or blame the children. I had many secrets growing up, I was abused and my step-father was an alcoholic. I didn’t want any friends to come to my house for fear of getting a glimpse of what was truly happening. I didn’t trust anyone, that was a heavy burden for a child to carry around every day.
This book is for parents, grandparents, therapists, and schools, all children need exposure to what can happen behind closed doors, it may help a child come forward or at least make them less judgemental. I love this book, it was hard to swallow but I could relate so clearly and know there are plenty of children that have secrets.
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Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight the blog of Stella Reddy’s Blog.
My site is about how I have healed and what I did to achieve that. I am open about my mistakes, share all I have experienced and learned, and share my innermost thoughts over it all. I made a site about me, to be found with theirs, in case anyone is interested if not, that’s okay too. I do it for my own peace of mind, knowing my truth is there, to drown out their nastiness in my name.
Always, upwards and onwards!!
You will love her blog and she’s great to talk to.
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I’m so glad you’ve joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.
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Melinda
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There are more Health Apps than a year ago and it’s getting crowded so you may be inclined to pick one. BEWARE! More research is needed before you ever sign up! One important thing to remember is these Apps are not regulated, as some Apps are unscrupulous including where your information is being shared, and more importantly are the Therapists and doctors who are providing support are licensed.
Let me tell you about an App that offered the services of a medical doctor. The App would refer people to the doctor and the doctor was a fraud! The medical doctor who would write pain medication was not a licensed doctor. The DEA got wind of this and started watching him. They busted the doctor for prescribing more pills than allowed, writing his own scripts when the patients didn’t have one and if I recall correctly he had prescribed over 15,000 scripts for pain meds, many patients were left addicted to pain meds and had to find help elsewhere. He is spending only 5 years in jail, that is the scary part.
When an App includes the service of a Therapist or Medical Doctor you have to make sure they have the proper license to do so. One way I would do it is look ask what doctor they use and then do a search on them. Find out they are legit. The same with a Therapist, the wrong Therapist can set you back not moving forward. I would check them out as well.
Then I would look closely at the Privacy Policy, and read carefully who they are sharing your information with. Some are sharing your information with hospitals doing research for which they are probably paid to share. If the Privacy Policy doesn’t spell it out, that would be a red flag for me. I would write them and ask where your information is being shared. You’re not signing up to help a research project, your signing up because you want help. If someone is sharing your information, my thought is there in it for money. Beware.
Ask around to see who has used the App in the past or what other App they use. You have to look at it like finding a new doctor. You don’t throw a dart to pick one, you check them out first. I would also do research on the App it’s self, see what you find on the Internet about them. You may be surprised. I’ve written about several Apps in the past and can tell you one is already out of business.
Take a step back before you join any App and make sure you’re getting what you expect, not that wako doctor with no license prescribing medicine of any type.
In America we have the FDA to approve all prescription medications, manufacturers have to prove their drug has all the data on clinical trials, and they even do down to approving what the label can have on it. If the FDA is not satisfied the FDA will tell the manufacturer to go get this information and reapply. That’s critical to know. In America, we have a system that all prescriptions go thru before being released to the public. They also have a section you can report adverse reactions or a medical device that failed. We have a system.
I know that people with chronic illnesses especially those with chronic pain have trouble getting the pain management they need and out of frustration turn to the Internet. BEWARE!
There are other countries that have a system in place but we have no idea if it matches our standards. There are also countries that have no system to verify the drugs are pure, they do what they say and they are monitored.
The FDA says this about online Pharmacies.
Warning Signs of an Unsafe Online Pharmacy
Beware of online pharmacies that:
Do not require a doctor’s prescription.
Are not licensed in the U.S. and by your state board of pharmacy.
Do not have a licensed pharmacist on staff to answer your questions.
Send medicine that looks different than what you receive at your usual pharmacy, or arrives in packaging that is broken, damaged, in a foreign language, has no expiration date, or is expired.
Offer deep discounts or prices that seem too good to be true.
Charge you for products you never ordered or received.
Do not provide clear written protections of your personal and financial information.
Sell your information to other websites.
These pharmacies often sell medicines that can be dangerous because they may:
Have too much or too little of the active ingredient you need to treat your disease or condition.
Not contain the right active ingredient.
Contain the wrong ingredients or other harmful substances.
If you buy from any online site from another country, you have no guarantee of what’s inside. It could cause more harm to your body, it could have nothing in there to help you, and the worst is it can be laced with different products and can kill you.
That’s strong words I know but I have read too many articles and heard of personal stories where buying online was the worst move to make.
Melinda
References:
Yes, there are ligament Pharmacies online, I would check them out before you buy. Do an Internet search on the Pharmacy. You may be surprised what you find or you see they are legit Pharmacies you can go to. The key is what country is your medication coming from.
Where you can protect yourself is to search, search, and search before buying. Your health and life are more important. Personally, I would not buy a drug online unless my insurance company offers an online Pharmacy.
I haven’t seen the movie but I have heard about it for years. The key thing to remember is this is a movie, an overdramatic movie. Was Electro Convulsive Therapy more difficult in the old days yes, before doctors figured out that muscle relaxers would stop the body movements there was the possibility of breaking a bone.
So if you take out the overdramatic scenes that are barbaric you would probably see something still very scary. But ECT has come a long way and I want to take you back to before ECT and you will see that even in its infancy ECT was a much better option.
Before ECT they did Lobotomies which left the person unable to function without full-time help. I don’t know how the procedure is done but It’s been described as a screwdriver was put thru your Frontal Lobe. Rosemary Kennedy had the procedure and it changed the family’s life forever. You see, much of our thinking is in the Frontal Lobe. Her parents thought they were the right thing but they were not prepared for what the outcome was.
You can see how a Lobotomy took her life away. Thank goodness doctors learned how to do ECT. Yes, it was difficult initially but now it’s a piece of cake. Friday I get my 27th ECT treatments in 20 years. I have Bipolar Disorder and stay mostly on the depressed side. Two weeks ago I was ready to kill myself, I always tell my husband when I get suicidal. I went into a Psych Hospital for a week for treatment and observation then moved to outpatient. It’s hard to say out loud that I’ve had 27 treatments, that sounds like a lot. But when you start planning to kill yourself it’s a small price to pay for getting well.
Now it’s so easy and it’s over before you even know. Most times I wake up from Anesthesia and think I’m still waiting for treatment. Here’s what you can expect for ECT, first you have to remember everyone is different and so is their level of depression and those with more serious Mental Illnesses may require more or less treatment. For me, the number seems to be between 6 to 9 treatments to get me out of the dark hole I’m in.
Here is what to expect:
You will come into the ECT area and with your clothes on the nurse goes thru your medication, checks your blood pressure and you pee in a cup. Then you are moved to the operating room where you talk to the doctor and Anesthesiologist. I often get sick after so they add something to the mix that will take care of getting sick. The shoe on one foot will be exposed so they can tell when the seizure is over. You are hooked up to an EKG monitor and two stickies are put on your forehead. Then two stickies are put behind your ear to monitor the seizure. You start to feel the medicine take effect and an oxygen mask is put on. It takes less than 5-10 minutes and you are back in recovery. You won’t remember anything after you go off to sleep and the only lingering effects might be a headache and some jaw pain.
I take a baggie with two Tynenol and one Xanax to take as soon as I get back to the truck. My husband stops by the coffee shop and gets me a cold Latte and off to the house we go. The first day you may be tired. I often will go lie down after I eat and wake feeling well rested. Sometimes you have to go in very early and I need my sleep.
If you are so depressed it interferes with your life, your sleeping all the time, you don’t care to do the things you once did or you want to kill yourself, it’s time to raise your hand and ask for help. One tip I will give you from my own experience is don’t go to a Psych Hospital that is not connected to a hospital. I know that may be harder for you to find but believe me when I tell you that the stand-alone treatment centers are there to make money off of you. I spent three weeks in one and was outraged by how the patients were treated. They were zombies during the day and given medication to make them sleep. The only place to have any type of activity was the table we ate lunch on. I stood my ground and did not let them change my medication. I received no kindness, no support, no dignity really. I stayed in my room and read. That is not the type of place that is going to get you well.
If you have a Mental Illness that causes you to have big swings into depression start now looking for the nearest respected hospital that has a Psych Unit. The care you get is night and day and that is the only reason I can write today.
If you have any questions I would be happy to answer any and all questions you have. ECT has saved my life many times over the past 20 years and I can tell you it’s much better than death.
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