Gavin and I have known each other since 2013 and know each other well, all the trauma we share and the joy we try to capture. He’s dear to me. The Netflix movie Baby Reindeer shows how predators work themselves into your life and your children’s lives. Many of you know what it’s like to have a predator in your life, I sure do. I’m not clear on the age range targeted, not sure it’s appropriate for young children but this information will help not only you but also your children. Watch together and discuss afterward, maybe a breakthrough conversation will come from seeing the movie.
Thanks, Gavin.
Melinda
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Thanks for the reblog. It was a very difficult watch for me but I wanted to push through my discomfort. I think it’s similar to horror movies in that I choose to watch them. I have the power to face death while safe on my couch. Also victimhood as an identify is no longer a part of who I am, and part of that process is watching Baby Reindeer. Gavin.
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You’re absolutely right and I had not looked at it that way.
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I started watching this but had to stop !
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I didn’t think I could watch it but it’s a very important topic and it hits harder when you see it than when some tells you. It sinks in better and that is what we all need to recognize the red flags. :)
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I shall give it another go 💜💜
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It is a very confronting watch for anyone with trauma. Even the families are targeted here. Go well.
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The movie must be more know in other countries, the reason I say that is it’s still a top read and it looks like the majority come from outside of America. I understand your feels better now after looking at what I watch. Weekly shows like FBI Special Victims Unit which focuses on crimes of a sexual nature. It doesn’t trigger me, or the other crime shows I watch, but I have to turn my head when someone is committing suicide or getting shot in the head.
I now get it except the part about being groomed, I haven’t experienced that. Hugs.
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Here are some stats from people outside of WordPress. Baby Reindeer (2024) By Good Friend Noir
240 opens
7 clicks
I still don’t exactly what that means but it great traffic beyond my community. :)
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