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My First Baking Experiment in Phuket By Guest Blogger Popsicle Society

Ribana’s mango desert sounds so yummy, and I love mangos. Be sure to see all her other delicious recipes and recent photos of Phuket.

Melinda
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Wordless Wednesday-Colorful Floral Arragement

I’m glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday and I hope to see you soon.

 

My husband went to Costco on Saturday and bought a nice floral arrangement, Costco floral arrangements are fresher and larger than you can get at Kroger. I always look forward to the monthly Costco trip.

Melinda

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Sending a special thanks to Lithuania, Netherlands, Georgia, Taiwan and Saudi Arabia

Thank you for visiting my blog, I appreciate you stopping by. I have not been to any of the countries but they are very interesting to me.

Photo by Artem Beliaikin on Pexels.com

Melinda

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Just Pondering

Hi, I’m glad you stopped by, and I look forward to seeing you soon. 

Some of the best conversations happen while we’re on a walk with someone we care about.
Who would you like to chat with while walking down the winding road? What would you talk about?

Melinda

 

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#Weekend Music Share-When In Rome – The Promise (Official Music Video)

This request came from Willie Torres Jr. from the blog Being Crazy For Christ.

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

I’m glad you joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Art · Celebrate Life · Fun · Travel

I Love Art, Here’s One Of My Favorites From Jim Stallings

I had an appreciation of art long before I bought my first piece and later while traveling, I would buy a piece to remind me of the trip. I only have five expensive pieces and the rest from my travels are street art or maps. Maps are another thing I collect and love picking them up while traveling. I bought this Jim Stallings while in Maui at an outdoor showing. He thanked me and we talked for a while, he was so down to earth and I didn’t even know who he was, just that I loved this piece. I think it was $800 and I display it in my bedroom without a frame on a decorative easel. His father owned a restaurant chain that I ate at regularly, on the menu was the first plant-based patty I had. It was so good it was hard to believe it wasn’t beef.

Here’s More About Jim Stallings

Stallings is considered an artists’ artist. Fascinated with art and artists from a very early age, private painting classes at age eight started the course of Stallings’ destiny. He earned a degree from the University of Central Oklahoma and then spent as much time as possible in the museums of London and Paris while earning a diploma from City University, London. Stallings then embarked on a backpacking odyssey for over two years that included more than five hundred miles in the Grand Canyon and the surrounding states ending in Denali National Park, Alaska. After four months in Alaska Stallings flew to Maui with only a backpack and a duffle bag where he began his artistic career.
Stallings hung his first early paintings in Maui restaurants which sold quickly leading to a number of gallery shows. He then opened his own gallery in Lahaina, Maui enjoying the friendships he made with collectors from every state in the United States and all over the world.
Stallings has explored the relationship of music and pure color for his entire artistic career. Deciding early on to pursue canvases of whimsy and purity, questions about the relationship of music, vibrations and visual art led Stallings to paint live on stage with symphony orchestras including the Long Beach, San Diego, Honolulu and the Russian National. Painting music as visual art was a defining moment in Stallings’ career. He enjoys exploring the harmony of music and color and their positive effects on the human spirit. He has worked with world renowned scientist, physicist, conductors and musician regarding the physics and energy of music.
After creating and selling more than two thousand original works of art, Stallings still pursues his love of painting classical and jazz music. He has also painted jazz music live at the Museum of Contemporary Art in Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Palm Springs, Napa and New York. Never complacent, Stallings continues to stretch his creative limits while sharing his passion for the arts.

Here are a few I like from his collection.

Floral On Blue by Jim Stallings

Floral on Blue

Floral Study by Jim Stallings

Floral Study

Bistro Five by Jim Stallings

Bistro Five

Interestingly, he has signed his paintings on the left and right. I have not seen that before.

Melinda

Reference:

https://fineartamerica.com/profiles/jim-stallings

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Wordless Wednesday-Orange Gladiolas

I’m glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday and hope to see you soon.

My husband buy me flowers every Sunday and I’m so glad because I love cut flowers. This week he surprised my with the most beautiful orange Gladiolas. I have several photos included in this post.

 

What is you favorite cut flowers?

Melinda

Celebrate Life · Fun · Mental Health · Travel

Sending a Special Thanks to Uganda, Thailand, Yemen, Turkey and Kazakhstan

Thank you for visiting my blog and allowing me into your life. You’re what makes blogging so special. I have not been to any of the countries but have wanted to go to Uganda for as long as I can remember to see the Silver Back Gorillas. They are amazing animals and I can see their human behaviors. Diane Fosset spent years in Uganda researching the Gorillas and is famous for her research and the relationship she built with them. Now new researchers are picking up where her research left off, I’m so glad there is a new generation dedicated to the survival of the Gorillas and sharing their knowledge.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

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#Weekend Music Share-ZZ Top – Gimme All Your Lovin’ (Official Music Video) 

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

I’m glad you joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

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Sending A Special Thanks To Mali, Russia, Brazil, Spain And Greece For Visiting

I love to see what countries visit my blog, it actually hits my travel desire. Each week I look further into countries I’m not familiar with and this week I took a closer look at Mali. Mali, is a landlocked country of western Africa, mostly in the Saharan and Sahelian regions. Mali is largely flat and arid. The Niger River flows through its interior, functioning as the main trading and transport artery in the country. Sections of the river flood periodically, providing much-needed fertile agricultural soil along its banks as well as creating pasture for livestock. Although Mali is one of the largest countries in Africa, it has a relatively small population, which is largely centered along the Niger River. Agriculture is the dominant economic sector in the country, with cotton production, cattle and camel herding, and fishing among the major activities.

St Petersburg, Russia will always have a special place in my heart, I loved the city’s deep history, the Cathedrals, the architecture, and above all the kindness of the people. I knew three words in Russian and the people who didn’t speak English, many of them, tried so hard to help me, taking extra time when I was lost or not able to find a museum I really wanted to see. The history of St. Petersburg is fascinating and at one time it served as the capital of Russia. The Hermitage Palace and museum is something everyone needs to see, it is mind-blowing and houses not only fine art but the greatest collection of Faberge Eggs

I visited Madrid, Spain in 1988 and it was my first international trip. I keep a photo of a couple performing with string puppets in the square on my bookcase. We made the trip to Toledo, A UNESCO World Heritage Site, which includes the Cathedral of Toledo and the Alcázar fortress. The Cathedral was reportedly built in the Middle Ages and is one of Spain’s most important Gothic structures. At the same time, the Alcázar fortress has played a significant role in Spanish history, serving as a royal palace, military fortification, and now a museum. The fort was a trip back in time, on the huge wooden doors you could see where it was hit with cannonballs. The architecture was undescribable and being on the river made it even more special. The locals were welcoming and tried to help me so hard when we were lost and I needed to go to the bathroom. Try to speak that in body language. The exquisite handmade Ladro porcelain pieces are made in Spain and I found a special one to bring my Granny. We also found a beautiful black plate with gold detailing, all made by hand.  

Greece is high on my bucket list, with its deep history, magnificent blue water, cathedrals capped in blue, crazy uphill walking, and white-covered buildings and houses and the mob. I’ve read that mob still runs parts of the country although I bet they would prefer I not mention. Greece is also known for gold, when traveling you can pick up gold jewelry for a fraction of the price in America. There a plenty of shops to choose from and the designs are creative and playful. That’s just the tip of the iceberg that the Greek Islands are.  

Brazil is on my travel bucket list, the country has so much to offer. 

Statue of Peter the Great in St. Petersburg Square

Thank you so much for stopping by. 

Melinda

References:

https://www.britannica.com/place/Mali

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Saint_Petersburg#1945–1970s

https://www.britannica.com/place/Madrid

https://www.britannica.com/place/Brazil

https://www.britannica.com/place/Greece

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WordPress 15th Anniversary

Has it been 15 years? My original blog on WordPress was Defining Memories which I opened in 2005 and closed when I started Looking for the Light in 2014, that date is in question now. My archives show posts for Looking for the Light starting in 2014 however there are a few extra archives from Defining Memories.

During 2012-2013 I contributed to a toxic collaborative blog until I came to my senses and got the out of Sesspool. The blog may have been toxic but I met several people who are still a part of my life. Gavin from Noir is a dear friend and we talk almost every week, Gavin is an amazing human being and an excellent photographer. Daniel from Hyperion Sky is the best storyteller I’ve ever met and maybe read. He is currently supporting a family member with dementia and doesn’t post often and Army of Angles, she is not blogging at the moment.

In 2014 I was a co-founder of Survivors Blog Here, it was a collaborative site with many talented bloggers from all walks of life. It was all-consuming but it changed my life. It was closed and deleted this year.

The math doesn’t add up but close enough for me.

15 Year Anniversary Achievement

Happy Anniversary with WordPress.com!

You registered on WordPress.com 15 years ago.

Thanks for flying with us. Keep up the good blogging.

Thanks to the support of many, I’m turning 61 years old and haven’t felt this good in years and I’m just getting started. Yes, I’ve slowed down for ongoing health issues and my mental health. Today I put my mental health at the top of the list, every day.

It’s been a wild ride filled with life’s journey, good and bad. Thank you for visiting my blog, following, and commenting, you’ve filled my life with joy.

To the special bloggers in my life, there are no words only gratitude. You’ve helped me grow, soften, and express myself, you’ve mentored me and best of all is the connection with you. :)

Melinda

 

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Shrimp Salad with Blackberries, Prosciutto and Mixed Greens with Homemade Apricot Vinegar

I hope the excerpt shows up, I’m new to the tool. In fact, I use very few tools on WordPress, but I’m learning. :) This recipe is perfect, the shrimp and prosciutto mixed with berries, greens, and her homemade Apricot Vinegar. Yummy! Can I have a special delivery? Be sure to pull up a chair and read her delicious recipes and great food photography. 
 
 
 
Melinda
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I’m Celebrating The Countries That Have Visited My Blog To Date-You’re The Fabric Of My Life

Thank you for letting me travel with you. As a child, I read the National Geographic magazines my friend’s father collected and have wanted to travel the world since. I have the chance through you and your blogs.

I have changed the settings for commenting on my posts. You no longer have to sign in or be a member of WordPress. I hope this opens more communication between us. I love all the comments and feedback. There’s always something to learn and another side to every story.

 

                       The countries that have visited my blog and views to date

These numbers are up to June 19th, 2024.
Melinda
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#Weekend Music Share-LL COOL J – Saturday Night Special ft. Rick Ross, Fat Joe

This is the rap I like! The lyrics are real, not trash, not raunchy, with no half-dressed woman being demeaned and you can understand the words. LL Cool J is the greatest, he is multi-talented, an awesome actor, respectful, has a heart of gold, and sets a great example for all. Always keep your word!

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

I’m glad you joined me for another edition of Weekend Music Share this week.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Art · Celebrate Life · Fun · Health and Wellbeing · Photography · Travel

I’ve Made A Few Updates To My Blog

Hello, so glad you stopped by today. 

To allow more comments and my ability to communicate with others, I’ve changed the settings so that you don’t have to log in or be a WordPress member.

I’ve updated my About Me page slightly and continue to work on making Organizations That Can Help a drop-down menu. I’ve done it in the past but currently, it’s not correct.

One area I want to expand is Organization that Can Help, please provide any you know of so I can create a much better resource. Thanks. :)

Look for more changes as I work to improve my blog.

Thank you for reading and visiting my blog.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Celebrate Life · Fun · Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health · Mental Illness · Moving Forward

I’m Slowing Down, Way Down

I’ve been slowing down the past 6 months by working hard to stop multi-tasking and be in the moment, listen, and communicate clearly. My new medication is at full power, I’m feeling better than I have in over 5 years, and taking in every minute. I’ve kickstarted my indoor and outdoor plants, and have been repotting those who are long overdue. I’m a plant and flower person and treasure my outdoor standbys that come back every year. I am testing my skills to revive a Gardenia plant.

I had the same amount of time before but it was spent aimlessly on health crises, new diagnoses, unstable mood, and Infusion Treatments. I was not able to mentally or physically do it.

                                                                                                                                                     My favorite Rose

This idea started when I looked at the number of posts I’ve written since 2014. The numbers show I am slowing down, and it feels great.                                                                                                                                                     

Here’s a quick look at the numbers

2014 25

2015 1,031

2016 4,812

2017 5,984

2018 7,041

2019 21,414

2020 52,466

2021 45,619

2022 42,787

2023 23,814

2024 as of June 18th 14,312

I’m proud of the post I’ve written and at 61 years old next month, I’m glad I got in touch with what is important to me, and slowing down is important for my ongoing health issues, Bipolar Disorder, Cognitive Impairment, and Immune Disorders. Above all my Mental Health.

Thank you to all who have visited my blog over the years, it’s been a wild ride, you’ve seen me grow as a person, shared my health struggles and all that life has brought my way for 10 years. Your posts and connections have opened my mind, warmed my heart, reinforced what is important and you have filled my life with joy. I don’t plan on stopping, just writing at my own pace, not my uber-driven mind. You can look for more posts on travel, art, and photography.

                                                                                                                                  Peter the Great in St Petersburg Square

Hoofs up means they lost their life in battle, my friend Gavin taught me.

Melinda

 

 

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Wordless Wednesday-Purple Bluish Flower

I’m glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday and hope to see you soon.

 

The first doesn’t reflect the exact color but I wanted to highlight all the veins.

 

Does anyone know what the flower’s name is?

Melinda

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Push Back On Blogs Who Are Trying To Sell Or Scam You! Keep Your Comments In Moderation

The blogosphere has changed dramatically since I started in 2005, in many ways for the better, of course, there’s always the other side, the haters who love to rant away about who knows what and the ones who use blogs as a marketplace to sell their goods and it’s rampant with scammers. The way I protect myself is by putting all comments in moderation and choosing 100 days to keep them in moderation.

WordPress has a section that states it will block certain blogs, but it doesn’t work. There is no blocking people from visiting or commenting on your blog. There are some settings you can pick from, I chose to have people signed into WordPress, does this work, I’m not sure but it appears to. If a comment comes in and it’s spam I mark it as such, eventually it may get recognized as spam when it comes in. I check spam every day or so because good comments get sent to spam as well. I delete all spam permanently, that doesn’t really make a difference that I can see but it’s deleted anyway.

Only open a link in a comment if you have conversed with the person and feel a high level of confidence in the person. 

 

We are on the internet, the vast space where everything published is there forever, once posted there’s no going back. That is why you don’t see a photo of me in my Gravatar. Any image posted can be manipulated and used in the most violating way you can imagine. I’m even more cognizant after having all of my personal information released in a data breach in January of this year. The information is on the dark web, whatever that is and I don’t want to know and it’s there waiting for people to take and try to steal my identity. It’s frightening and I have to look over my shoulder for the rest of my life.

You can find anyone’s email very easily but it takes more savvy to find all the pieces of your life to do harm, and there are many ways to harm. Don’t obsess, it will only drive you down the rabbit hole, be vigilant and ask yourself, “Do I want to publish this?” I don’t go about life worried about anything, including my identity, it’s on me to be vigilant and work with the bank and any creditor in a hypervigilant way with their tools, keep an eye on my credit report, and double-check all my charges. I set my bank and credit card to $50, any charge over that sends me an email that a purchase was made. I’m not the breadwinner so I know exactly what charges are made. My husband has his own way of protecting our information.

Don’t let others control your life and cause you great frustration and fear. You control your own life to a point, what people do with your information is on them but you have to stay on top of it. It takes very little time after you set up systems to protect you.

Don’t engage with scammers, that’s a game to them. Don’t feed it, if you do you’re shooting yourself in the foot. Breathe, and let it go. When they get no response they will leave alone unless they are a stalker. In that case, it’s the same, don’t engage, and eventually the game will end. I’ve been stalked three times and I see my role in making the situation worse. I can only say that by looking back, in the moment our emotions get the best of us. that’s what we have control over. Be smart!

This is just a heads up, take what works for you.

Melinda

Family Cookbook · Fun · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

Top 30 Basic Spices to Keep in Your Spice Cabinet by Guest Blogger A Homemaker’s Workmanship

She has such a wealth of knowledge including great cooking skills. This post is great for those who like to experiment with spices or maybe are not as familiar with all the spices available. Be sure to stop by and say hello. 
 
Melinda
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#Weekend Music Share-Prince & The Revolution – Raspberry Beret & Link To Superbowl Performance In The Rain

Prince was one of a kind, he helped his hometown by donating, his clothes made there and now doubt he left money for the city as well. His talent was overwhelming at times, he’s the only Superbowl half-time artist I’ve seen play through the rain with his electric guitar and high-heeled boots. Check out the video, he is nothing but pure heart and determination. Let’s dance.

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

I’m glad you joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Celebrate Life · Fun · Travel

Sending A Special Thanks To The Philippines, Egypt, France And The United Kingdom For Visiting

Thank you for letting me into your lives, I appreciate you and look forward to seeing you again.

Melinda

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Blogger Highlight-Unique Times with Cindy

Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight the blog Unique Times with Cindy.

Unique Times with Cindy

Cindy has 35+ years of experience in health and wellness. She studied Occupational and Recreational Therapy with an emphasis in Psychology at San Jose State University. She started her career in wellness offering personal training, leading health facilities, and teaching workshops. She opened her own aerobics studio and has continued to expand.

Her new book Re-Create and Celebrate: 7 Steps To Live The Life Of Your Dreams is available on Amazon and is 5-star rated. Cindy is also the Author Of The Year on Spillwords Press New York 2023.

“It is not always easy to trust ourselves, to venture out of our comfort zones, and go for our dreams, however, Cindy Georgakas has successfully done this in an eloquent way.”—Dr. Chérie Carter-Scott, New York Times Bestselling Author of If Life is a Game, These are the Rules.

Cindy’s book is undoubtedly worth a peak, a read, and a permanent place on your bookshelves.  

I have only followed her for a short time but we clicked right away. She is wickedly smart, gracious, very funny, and has a loving heart. She’s a brilliant writer who truly writes from the heart and shares her experiences with those who are searching. Aren’t we all searching? 

Be sure to stop by her blog and say hello, no doubt you will pull up a chair and immerse yourself in her words. 

Just a note from a blogging perspective, she blogs for the right reasons, her own. She has replied to all of my comments and is part of the community I love. 

Melinda

Looking for the Light

 

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Just Pondering

Hi, I’m glad you stopped by and I look forward to seeing you soon. 

“Learn to light a candle in the darkest moments of someone’s life. Be the light that helps others see; it is what gives joy its deepest significance.”

Melinda