Staring at the ground with no thoughts on my mind is one way my husband knows I have Brain Fog. He saw me staring out the window yesterday and checked to see if I was okay. He knows enough about Fibromyalgia and what the symptoms can feel like. Now that several more symptoms have joined the party, I have to work harder to keep each illness in line. Fibromyalgia can wreck many parties and unfortunately more cancelled events.
Yesterday I woke up and my back was one big spasm, this symptom, if it is one didn’t last long but left pain in the area. It could also be caused by my anemia but one in my back was a surprise to me.
I’ve been lucky, last year I had one big flare in the summer, and it felt like it lasted forever. The other flares were light which is great because I also spent a week in the hospital.
There are times when I don’t listen to myself and create much bigger issues. Here’s a bad example, I tried to manage my Urinary Tract Symptoms, severe fatigue, and eventually not able to walk. I got stubborn and resisted the hospital but when you can’t walk you know something is wrong.
PLEASE DON’T FOLLOW MY BAD IDEAS!
While taking care of myself for two months, the UTI infection turned into a Kidney Infection, I had a Bacterial Infection it took two days to identify the exact bacteria before they prescribed any antibiotic medications. My Potassium was very low which is what caused the inability to work.
I’m still dealing with the side effects of Anemia and the medication for it. And what comes along!!!!!! A flare started a couple of days ago and I have to see where it takes me.
I spend hours in bed daily, mostly not able to write and go back for a nap. I have a bad Brain Fog, which prevents my desire to do anything. I no longer feel guilt when my body needs a rest, even if it’s all day. The laundry is in the hamper, about three loads. I do a load and if it’s the next morning when I dry them, that’s fine with me.
If anyone with Fibromyalgia has had spasms in the back as part of a flare, please leave a comment. It would be nice to know if it’s Fibro or my anemia. I would really appreciate your help.
We can become very educated about our illnesses and symptoms but we can’t forget, that we are not a doctor, and no amount of reading will make you a doctor. We need to put our pride in the back seat to get the right diagnosis and treatment.
Have you found an upside to Fibro? Please let me know!
I wrote this post while having Brain Fog, it’s been a couple of days now.
Melinda
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Sending you strength! Your openness helps others understand and empathize.
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You’re a very strong and resilient lady M. I pray for your well-being. May 2024 be very kind to you; may it bring you happier days.😊Sending you lots of love, and many warm hugs.❤️
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I am expecting a much better year, have to think positive. Thank you for the kind words. Are you and your sister living together? That came to mind, who knows why. What type of law are you practicing, I hope it’s still exciting to you. Hugs back to you. Hugs. :)
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In God’s holy name you’ll have a better year. It’s faith that keeps us going, right?😊
Yeah, we’re living together.😊 I’m doing human rights and family law and so far it’s pretty exciting.
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Great type of law, you learn something every day. I look forward not back, even on bad days or year. The only thing that’s on my mind is my first appointment with Neurologist. While in the hospital last month, they found four illnesses on my CT scan.I’m ready to know what treatment if any and how each progresses. I have faith and some days that’s all I have. We all have periods in life that is harder than others. If I get down, I remember what Jesus indured and he died for us. Have a great day. :)
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It’s true, I’m learning new things every day, and learning how to deal/interact with different types of clients. The best part is that human rights apply to every facet of life, so it’s a very relatable area of law. That’s what makes it relatively fun.
All shall be well M, I have you in my prayers.
Thank you, and have a great day too.😊
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Light a candle for me and keep me in your prayers. :)
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You’re always in my prayers M.❤️
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You are on my prayer list. Take good care of yourself. :)
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Awe Melinda, I hear you! I’ve been dealing with Fibro for almost 20 years myself and have been dealing with my own flare up this week…I have an idea how you feel.
I’ve never had spasms in my back as part of Fibro but my Mom did from time to time. I have back spasms anyway because of the stenosis I have so I know how they feel.
I wish you all the best for a better weekend. Sending soft hugs your way.
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Thank you for the kind words. So far today no brain fog. The spasms in back could be my anemia. It is causing mostly legs spasms.I’m getting stronger which is a good thing. Have a great day. Take it easy! Are you taking pain meeds? If not, have you tried Delta 8 gummies? I’ve taken them for a long time. They don’t get you high in anyway but it relaxes you and maybe helps you sleep if you take at bedtime. Delta 9 gummies are made from a different plant, and if you eat the entire gummy you will feel a buzz. I’m not looking for that so just Delta 8’s for me. If you try any, check out Kind Oasis, they have some info that might help to read. I buy from them, after trying 6-8 brands I found Kind Oasis.Have a great day. :)
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Thank you for your suggestions… I’ll check out the gummies you suggested!
I am on meds, gabapentin, which also helps with the nerve pain I have. I haven’t found anything yet that would take it away completely but the pills take the edge off so I can move. This pill also helps with Fibro pain… but not on the brain fog…
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Stay current with all the headlines about Gabapentin, people have had some bad reviews. I took it for a long time for my neuropathy but quit when my doctor said quit, I was taking so many other meds and it wasn’t really helping. I read many Chronic Illness blogs who take it with no issues. Have a great day, it’s been nice talking to you today. :)
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They will also answer your questions with no rush. That’s unusual these days. Another drug is Methocarbinal, it’s not a foundation medication but great for spasms. Another drug I take doesn’t stop all the pain but it’s something, it’s Meloxicam. Your general can write a script since it’s not on the addictive medication list. Tramadol is the lowest dose on the DEA categories and you don’t have to have a pain doctor for this. Good luck. :)
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Thanks Melinda for your time today, I greatly enjoy speaking with you! I’ll check into your suggestions and talk to my doctor.
Have a fantastic weekend!
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I wouldn’t tell your doctor about Delta 8’s many doctor haven’t except it’s a real help to people. Take good care. :)
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I also have fibromyalgia, and you are correct. It’s difficult to know how to help ourselves once in a flare up. Hugs to you.
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I haven’t found a way except for sleeping. Thanks for the kind words. Have a great day. :)
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