Every single day of our lives, we are making choices about our future. Whether we like it or not, there is no getting away from the choices we have to make and so the best thing that we can do is be smart about those decisions. You don’t have to be a decisive person to know what you want in life, but have you thought ahead? Not just for your career, but for your distant retirement? Have you considered where you’d like to travel and where you want to live? These are the biggest decisions that you’ll make in life, but you need to make those decisions with great thought. Every single time you choose something to do in life, it’s got to align with your life goals, but that’ll only work if you know what your life goals are.
There will be moments that you think that you are making the wrong choices, but the honest truth is that there is no such thing as a wrong choice. Everything you choose to do will eventually lead you in the right direction, whether it’s about your future senior care options or your job prospects. The key is in weaving away from the impulsive decisions and thinking better about each decision. Let’s take a look at six tips that will help you to choose better things in your life.
Always Be Aware Of Your Own Goals
It’s so hard to make choices for yourself when you are busy thinking about everyone else around you. You should always be aware of the decisions that you want to make for yourself based on what YOU want. The best way to make any decisions is to keep your goals at the forefront of your mind at all times. If you know you want a comfortable retirement one day, base your choices on how you can have that comfort. If you know you want a house of your own one day, start saving some of your income now.
Get Advice, Choose Your Own Path
You can ask everyone you know what you should do about XYZ, but that doesn’t mean that you have to ever take anyone else’s advice. You should always go with your gut. No one but you knows what you feel day to day and no one else is living your life. If you’re going to ask for advice, be prepared to hear different opinions but when it comes down to it, the only opinion that counts? It’s yours.
Listen To Your Instinct
Every decision that you make needs to match your instincts. If you want to know that you have money set aside for in-home senior care one day, saving it up is a must. If you want to make sure that you don’t have to sell your home for your future, start being smart about your investments. Life is a big deal as it is, and you should always listen to what your instincts are telling you to do. Going with your gut isn’t a bad thing. In fact, it could lead you to some amazing experiences in life.
Mind Your Frame Of Mind
It’s so much easier to make destructive decisions when you are in a bad mood or a poor frame of mind. If you want to make good decisions, you need to know that you are in the right mood for it. Never make any decisions about changing your life if you are currently angry with your boss or dealing with rubbish from your landlord. There are so many ways that you can make a bad decision, so wait until you know you are thinking straight before you make a choice.
Believe In Yourself
You really have to make a choice and not question it. Trusting yourself can be the hardest part of making a decision and the person that you need to trust before anyone else is yourself. Trust that you know what you want and you can make the best decisions for yourself.
Practice Making Those Decisions
The only way to be better at making the right choices for you is to practice doing it. You should make this a part of your daily routine and be more confident in your actions as a result. Over time, you’ll feel way more in control of the choices that you make for your future. You deserve to know what you want and you deserve to grab it all with both hands. Don’t be afraid!
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
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The emphasis on self-belief and self-trust is very inspiring. Thanks for sharing .
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Thank you for stopping by and commenting. Have a great day.
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There’s lots of helpful discussion around this as rational decision making is very hard for us humans. Very good this…
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I believe it!
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It’s scary how much of what we decide isn’t actually down to us.
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way to much for my comfort!
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It makes you wonder if we really have free will
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Not right now and I hope a miracle happens and Trump loses.
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I don’t really know what’s going on there – the way I was looking at the situation he’s going down or is there something I’m missing?
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It’s true, he is running for office. He is in trial now, he’s been on trial one after day. I had the nerve yesterday he yelled cat the judge for several minutes. By our Constitution he not eligible. In book the 3 & 14th, it explains who can run for President a or Congress. Trump fits the disqualifies but our Repulicans government is so crooked they’ll look the other way or fake an issue to get him back in office. I’m ashamed to live here with him at the helm. Maybe other countries have these same problem like the NHS! That’s fucked up so bad and nobody is fixing the problem. Enough politics for the day, my blood pressure goes up over politics. We can both say our government is not run by Hamas. When I feel down, I think of all the people in the in Gaza, or Ukraine. both wars are going to get worse before it gets better. It’s a mess. :)
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I know how you feel these things ruin our peace… like you say we need to find the gratitude in every moment of our lives. :-)
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That’s why I will stop watching politics on TV after it heats up. I value my sanity.
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That’s always a good plan.
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:)
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I don’t know what’s up with WP but a reply sent didn’t go thru. :)
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Yeah I saw something went wrong
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Somethings always brewing. :)
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Isn’t that the truth?
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Hopefully this one goes, I just sent a reply not long ago and it keeps telling me to reply to comment when I already have. Take good care.
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awesome tips Melinda! Loved them! <3
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I really like this list. It’s all good. And, I especially resonate with the notion of making decisions when you are in a good frame of mind. Having enough sleep helps with my stability. Thank you!
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Me too.
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