My Wild Journey
I always wanted everything my Gramps had, so when I was still in the bottle, he put a small amount of coffee in it. I slurped with joy and still do.
In high school, I was not interested in being popular or joining a sorority but somehow, I got talked into rushing for a sorority. During rush week we had to go a week without washing our hair. It nearly killed me, but one night we all spent the night at the so-called leader’s house and it was the last straw for me. They spent the night talking about their boyfriends, drinking, sex, and how they were popular at school. I couldn’t care less and left and turned the page on that experience.
I was naive in high school, thinking the cheerleaders were all goody-two-shoes and virgins. Not so much! One night while hanging out at the library, our hang spot, a cheerleader I only knew from class asked me if I would drive her around to smoke a joint. SURE! I hadn’t smoked a joint in years. We parked not far from the library and stoked away, the whole time she talked about how all her boyfriend wanted was sex. Sex and smoking a joint, wow my eyes were opened.
The high school football quarterback wouldn’t even speak to me, I was friends with almost everyone but not him. He was above mere mortals. At the 20-year high school reunion, I looked very different than in high school and all he wanted to do was dance and get me to leave with him. It was funny. I was there with my future husband. Men tend to think with the wrong head.
I’m keeping this post short since the other topics were too heavy for this one. You can look forward to topics like agoraphobia, dementia, driving my husband’s truck the size of an aircraft carrier, and forgetting how to drive.
Melinda
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Interesting Melinda, I enjoyed reading about your high school days! <3
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Thank you. Have a great day.
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I love the fact that you never cared about being popular. It says a lot about you in many good ways. These days – that’s all these kids try to be and it’s sad. Great post!
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Hi, I’m so glad you stopped by. My grandparents kept me gounded in what was important. They were both from poor families so thing about being populat would never have crossed their mind. I’ve had times as an adult where I was popular probably because of my personality and lack of censoring but it has never been a goal. My intrest if making genuine connections for however long they lasts. I hope to see you again soon. I’m headed over to check out your blog. :)
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Love this! You’re such a great writer and your grandparents raised you well it sounds like. <3
Have a beautiful day!
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I enjoyed reading a bit about you and I’m now following you.
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Thank you so much! :) I just read up on some of your blog and loved it as well. Keep writing. I truly enjoyed your posts.
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Thank you, they can be raw but their honest and no shallow words from my blog.
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Raw and honest is the best kind of blog. :)
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‘Sex and smoking a joint, wow my eyes were opened.’
OMG
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It’s not like either were new to me, I just didn’t expect a cheerleader to be involved. I was naive in some ways in high school. It’s funny because I was a drug addict at 12 years old.
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I hear you. I was an addict by about age 9. Addicted to lust.
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Yep. Still the same email. G
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Good for you for walking out on the sorority rush. I never had any interest in those groups. It’s interesting how people who were so popular in high school become more ordinary over the years.
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I believe it’s because they were superficial and that only goes so far. I have no idea why I rushed, it might have been my friends daring me. When I was younger, I couldn’t pass up a dare.
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It gave you a chance to affirm who you are – the opposite of superficial. :)
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True. I might have not known who I was but I wasn’t going to play the fool. How wants to carry that load.
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looks like some good reading ahead :)
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I’ve been down many roads!
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We all go through that period where we search for our true meaning and purpose.
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As a teen I was searching everywhere while I tried to figure out who I was.
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