Just three?????? At 62, my peeves have changed as I age, thank goodness. Peeves are what I call my last nerve and there are more than three but the top ones are: being told what to do or think, abuse of any kind including animals, arrogance.
Outside of the three are: people who wallow in their problems, liars, are unkind and rude, and people who do not help others. Oh, I can’t forget, someone constantly reminding me of what I need to do and the ones who won’t take responsibly.
I’m far from perfect but no one is, my attitude has changed along with what I think is important. I shake the thoughts off after they happen but they pop-up the next time.
Have a great day.
Melinda
Looking for the Light 
Mine are abuse of any kind, rude people, and people who put others down!
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I still have a difficulty recognising when people complain to vent versus complain to get an advice or direct help.
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That can be a hard one, one we can get mixed results on depending how we act. :)
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I hear you, Melinda. And honestly, I agree with every one of these. As we get older, what truly matters becomes clearer, and what used to slide now hits that “last nerve” fast.
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There are a few that am working on resolving yet they are hard.
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