Celebrate Life · Cooking · Fun · Men & Womens Health

Pumpkin Spice Latte

YUMMY!!!!!!

Ingredients

2 tablespoons pumpkin puree

1 tablespoon maple syrup

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice, plus more for sprinkling

1 1/2 cups whole milk

2 to 4 shots espresso or strong coffee (1 shot for normal strength, 2 for strong)

* Whipped cream, for serving

Directions

  1. Add the pumpkin puree, maple syrup, vanilla and pumpkin pie spice to a medium saucepan and whisk to combine. Put the saucepan over medium heat and slowly whisk in the milk to combine. Bring the pumpkin milk mixture just to a boil.
  2. Pour the mixture into a blender and whiz on low to medium for 30 seconds or until frothy.
  3. Pour 1 shot into each mug (2 shots if you want it stronger) and top with half of the pumpkin milk mixture.
  4. Top with whipped cream and a sprinkle of pumpkin pie spice.

Cook’s Note

To make the recipe vegan or dairy free you can use almond or other plant-based milk and top with coconut whipped cream.

Enjoy

Melinda

Reference:

https://www.foodnetwork.com/fnk/recipes/pumpkin-spice-latte-7936633

Celebrate Life · Fun · Mental Health · Music

#Weekend Music Share-Blues Brothers: Soul Man -SNL 1978

What a great classic tune. Their physical style of humor is still the best.

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

 I’m glad you joined me for another edition of Weekend Music Share this week.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Chronic Illness · Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health · Self-Care

Updated List of Fibromyalgia Resources

I have updated the resources for Fibromyalgia and as always continue to look for more. I created this page to add to Organizations That Can Help pull down menus but because I don’t do it often, it’s not showing up in the right place yet. I’m working on because these resources are critical. 

National Fibromyalgia Association: Offers resources, support group directories, and advocacy activities to help individuals manage fibromyalgia.

The Mighty: A platform for sharing stories, support, and information for people living with fibromyalgia.

Fibromyalgia Coalition International: Provides a listing of healthcare providers and support groups for those with fibromyalgia.

National Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain Association: Offers information about fibromyalgia, resources for legal issues, mental health, and a healthcare provider directory.

Fibromyalgia Information Foundation: Publishes the Fibromyalgia Frontiers Journal and provides information about the condition and resources for learning more.

Fibromyalgia Forum: A community forum for those affected by fibromyalgia and chronic pain to seek support. 

Living with Fibromyalgia Patients Support Community: An online community powered by BensFriends.org for patients and caregivers.

Support Fibromyalgia Network: Offers various initiatives, including support groups and health coaching. 

Patient Advocate Foundation

A pharmaceutical co-payment assistance program for insured patients suffering with chronic pain.

 (800) 532-5274
 www.copays.org

Together RX Access

Uninsured Americans gain access to immediate savings on prescription products right at their neighborhood pharmacies AND resources that help people take care of what’s most important—their health.

 800-444-4106
 www.togetherrxaccess.com

RxHope

RxHope is exactly what its name implies…a helping hand to people in need in obtaining critical medications that they would normally have trouble affording. We act as your advocate in making the patient assistance program journey easier and faster by supplying vital information and help.

 877-979-4673
 www.rxhope.com

Needy Meds

NeedyMeds is not a patient assistance program, but rather a source of information on thousands of programs that may be able to offer assistance to people in need. NeedyMeds does not have an application, nor can we answer questions about individual assistance programs. We strive to provide accurate and current information, but ask that you contact specific programs directly with questions.

 800-503-6897
 www.needymeds.com

Healthcare Bluebook

Helps consumers save money on medical expenses — everything from drugs to x-rays — by giving them access to a nationwide database that estimates a “fair price” for watever they’re paying for.

 (888) 866-8159
 healthcarebluebook.com

Free Drug Card Program

Nationwide Prescription Assistance Program (PAP) sponsored by a non-profit organization to help all Americans lower their prescription drug costs. This program has LOWEST PRICE LOGIC to guarantee that you get the best deal on your prescriptions. – See more at: http://freedrugcard.us/#sthash.IbJo8Fdh.dpuf

 www.freedrugcard.us

Benefits and Checkup

A patient assistance program that provides certain GSK prescription medicines to qualified patients who need help paying for treatment.

 866-728-4368
 www.bridgestoaccess.com

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health

Verification Seals On Suppliments Are Critical To Ensure Quality

Here’s a clear comparison chart of the major third‑party supplement testing seals and what each one guarantees. This way, when you’re shopping, you’ll know exactly what to look for on the bottle to avoid “mystery pills” that may not dissolve or contain what they claim.

Supplement Quality Seals

Major Supplement Testing Labels & What They Mean

Seal / Program What It Tests What It Guarantees

USP Verified (U.S. Pharmacopeia) Identity, strength, purity, dissolution Contains listed ingredients in correct amounts, free of harmful contaminants, dissolves properly

NSF Certified Contents, contaminants, manufacturing Matches label claims, no unsafe contaminants, facility meets strict standards

NSF Certified for Sport Same as NSF + banned substances Safe for athletes, tested for doping‑related substances

ConsumerLab Approved Independent product testing Confirms ingredient amounts, screens for contaminants, tests dissolution when relevant

Informed Choice / Informed Sport Sports nutrition supplements Tested for banned substances, safe for athletes under anti‑doping rules

BSCG Certified Drug Free® Broad contaminant & banned substance testing Screens for >500 drugs, contaminants, and label accuracy

Labdoor Certification Independent lab analysis Ranks supplements for purity, label accuracy, and value

International Seals (Canada NPN, Australia TGA, Japan FOSHU) Country‑specific regulatory frameworks Confirms compliance with national supplement standards.

How to Use These Seals

Check the bottle: USP and NSF logos appear directly on packaging.

Verify online: ConsumerLab and Labdoor list approved products on their websites.

Athletes: Look for NSF Certified for Sport, Informed Sport, or BSCG seals to avoid banned substances.

Global shoppers: If buying international brands, check for NPN (Canada), TGA (Australia), or FOSHU (Japan).

Practical Takeaways

USP Verified is the most widely recognized for everyday vitamins and minerals

NSF Certified is especially important for protein powders, sports drinks, and supplements marketed to athletes.

ConsumerLab is great if you want independent reviews before buying, though you’ll need to check their website.

Informed Choice/Sport matters if you’re worried about banned substances in sports nutrition.

Choose the Right Form

Capsules and softgels often dissolve more reliably than hard tablets.

Powders and liquids can be easier to absorb if you’re worried about breakdown.

Buy from Trusted Retailers

Pharmacies, well‑known health stores, or established online platforms are safer than unknown sellers.

Ask Your Pharmacist or Doctor

They can recommend brands with proven absorption and safety.

Don’t waste your money on the hype of manufactures say about their products, they are not regulated by the FDA which means you do not know what the ingredients are and how they are tested.

Melinda

References:

Copilot

https://www.nsf.org/consumer-resources/articles/supplement-vitamin-certification

https://www.nanoscalenutrition.com/resources/what-to-look-for-in-third-party-certified-supplements

Celebrate Life · Daily Writing Prompt · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

Daily Writing Prompt

Daily writing prompt
What is one thing you would change about yourself?

Everything I’ve been through makes me who I am today, that’s not to say I don’t look for ways to improve my life. As far a physical self, I would not change anything. As Popeye said, “I am what I am”. Sure I could nit pick about my imperfections inside and out but I would rather look forward instead.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

How Financial Stress Affects Your Wellbeing

Are worries about tariffs, inflation, and the future of your 401(k) causing you to stress eat and lose sleep? Unfortunately, for most people, financial stress is nothing new. 

“Studies have shown for decades that financial concerns are one of the leading causes of stress in our country, and until it is no longer a taboo topic, that’s not likely to change,” says Ashley Agnew, director of financial wellness and certified financial therapist at Centerpoint Advisors in Needham, Massachusetts.

Chronically high levels of anxiety about money can take a toll on your well-being, and even increase the likelihood of chronic illnesses like high blood pressure and heart disease.

All of this points to the importance of learning coping strategies that can help you manage financial stress and protect your mental and physical health.

When Financial Stress Becomes Toxic

“Normal financial stress tends to be situational; it’s often based on a specific event like moving or the holidays,” says Megan McCoy, PhD, associate professor at Kansas State and certified financial therapist in Manhattan.

If financial stress isn’t based around a specific event, and lasts more than three months, this may be a sign that your stress is turning into financial anxiety that may negatively impact your health, says Dr. McCoy.

According to McCoy, signs that could indicate severe or chronic financial stress include:

  • Persistent worries, panic attacks, excessive rumination about bills or debts, and fear of checking bank balances — or going in the other direction, and compulsively checking bank or retirement balances
  • Physical symptoms like recurrent headaches, stomachaches, or sleeping difficulties due to financial woes
  • Avoiding looking at or paying bills
  • Overusing alcohol and drugs to cope
  • Overspending due to anxiety or hopelessness
  • Relationship issues such as frequent arguments, withholding financial information from a partner, and lying about spending

How Financial Stress Impacts Your Health

Financial stress that’s gotten out of control can have health consequences.

Mental Health Issues

“People who have higher financial stress are at greater risk for anxiety disorders and clinical depression,” says McCoy.

Research suggests that financial strain — basically, the inability to cover expenses with available resources — is significantly associated with depression.

A review of 40 studies concluded that financial stress was linked with a greater likelihood of experiencing depression across all income levels, although this link was stronger for people with low incomes.

An online survey of over 1,600 adults found that 42 percent reported financially related panic or anxiety attacks. Younger generations such as Gen Zers and Millennials were particularly affected, with nearly half reporting these attacks — nearly double the rate found among Baby Boomers.

Shame and guilt can creep in due to financial stress, says McCoy. “Clients in financial therapy often describe feelings of unworthiness or guilt around unpaid debts or perceived poor financial decisions, making mental distress even worse,” she says.

A report on how financial stress impacts work found that worries about money caused a 34 percent increase in absenteeism and tardiness, and that financially stressed employees miss about twice as many work days each year compared with their non-financially-stressed counterparts.

Financial stress can also lead to negative coping behaviors, says McCoy. “Alcohol or drugs may be used to numb stress, creating dual crises — financial and addictive — that require integrated therapy approaches,” she says.

Sleep Problems

“People often report difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep when debts or bill payments weigh heavily on the mind,” says McCoy.

Experiencing financial strain is linked with insomnia, poor sleep quality, and not sleeping the recommended amount.

While a restless night here and there isn’t cause for concern, sleep issues that persist and become chronic can increase the likelihood of many chronic conditions, including dementia, heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and even cancers of the breast, colon, ovaries, and prostate.

Heart Disease and Other Chronic Illness

Stress triggers a series of physical reactions — your heart rate quickens, muscles tense, and breathing quickens — thanks to increased levels of the stress hormonescortisol and adrenaline (which act like messengers, readying the body to cope with a perceived threat). 

If this response is chronic, as can be the case with financial stress, it can lead to problems like hypertension, high cholesterol, and muscle pain.

Research suggests that people who are frequently stressed about having enough money to pay their rent or mortgage have double the risk of heart disease compared with people who saw themselves as financially secure.

A review of five studies that looked at heart health outcomes found that people under financial stress had a 19 percent greater risk for heart disease or a major cardiac event like a stroke or heart attack.

Financial stress has also been linked to worse biological health as measured by inflammatory biomarkers. Researchers found that financial strain was “the most detrimental to biological health,” compared with other kinds of stress, including death of a loved one or divorce, although the study authors said that more research was needed to confirm this finding. They theorized financial stress was the hardest on the body because it can affect so many areas of life, “leading to family conflict, social exclusion, and even hunger or homelessness.”

And for people who already have chronic conditions or health issues, financial stress may exacerbate the problems. “When money is scarce, people are more likely to skip doctor visits, ignore recommended treatments, or fail to fill prescriptions,” says McCoy.

How to Cope With Financial Stress

There are ways to manage financial stress that don’t involve winning the lottery. Remember, financial wellness is about feeling secure about your money matters (even if funds are low) and not feeling overwhelmed to the point where it takes a toll on your health.

“Acknowledging the problem is essential — avoidance only heightens fear,” says McCoy.

With her clients, McCoy normalizes stress around money and finances by reminding clients that many people struggle with the same issues and that help is available. “This helps them move past shame to tangible action,” she says.

From a financial therapy standpoint, improvement usually takes both practical financial steps and attention to emotional/behavioral patterns. McCoy suggests a potential plan of attacking your financial fears:

Create a realistic budget or spending plan. Track income and expenses, prioritize needs, and set attainable goals, like saving to create a small emergency savings target.

“A values-based approach can help you align spending with personal or family values, making the process more meaningful and less punitive,” McCoy says.

Engage professional support. Work with a financial counselor or planner to help with debt management, savings strategies, and long-term planning.

These financial wellness specialists include certified credit counselors, accredited financial counselors (AFC), or financial therapists who are trained to integrate financial knowledge with mental health.

Leverage workplace or community resources. Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) often provide free short-term counseling and financial education. Additionally, community nonprofits like cooperative extension offices or local credit unions may host free classes on budgeting or debt management.

Incorporate stress-management techniques. Consistent exercise, mindfulness, or journaling about money anxieties can help reduce the emotional intensity of financial worries. 

Build an emergency savings fund a little at a time. Even $50 a month can accumulate into a basic safety net. Small, steady progress fosters a sense of accomplishment, which is key to reducing stress.

The Takeaway

  • A certain amount of stress is normal, particularly when it is situational and related to a specific event.
  • Chronic financial stress, however, can harm both mental and physical health, increasing the risk of anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and heart disease.
  • While you can’t control all your financial stressors, you may be able to manage your response through realistic budgeting, professional support, and stress-reducing habits.

Resources We Trust

Melinda

Reference:

EveryDay Health

Celebrate Life · Daily Writing Prompt · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health · Self-Care

Daily Writing Prompt

Daily writing prompt
Are you more of a night or morning person?

Good question for which I have mixed answers for. I naturally tend towards being a night person because I love to sleep in a bit however during my working years, being a morning person was not an option and in fact towards the end of my career, I enjoyed waking up early to have a cup of coffee at home instead of on the way to work, to me coffee doesn’t taste the same while driving.

Now, I’m a bit of both because many nights I can’t sleep or sleep only a couple of hours which means I tend to take a nap mid-morning.

I’ve not been one to jump out of bed at 5:00 am to greet the day, what am I going to do at that hour?

Photo by Moon Bhuyan on Pexels.com

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health

Do you benefit from Mega dosing vitamins over the recommended daily requirement?

I did the search on Copilot using my age however the same is true for everyone, mega dosing does not give you extra benefits and can be harmful.

No — a 62‑year‑old woman who is not very active does not need vitamin or mineral intakes above the recommended daily amounts. In fact, exceeding them can be harmful. What matters most is meeting the recommended levels, especially for nutrients like calcium, vitamin D, and vitamin B12, which become more important with age.

Key Points for a 62‑Year‑Old Woman

  • Recommended Daily Allowances (RDAs):
    • Vitamin A: 700 mcg
    • Vitamin B6: 1.5 mg
    • Vitamin B12: 2.4 mcg
    • Vitamin C: 75 mg
    • Vitamin D: 15 mcg (600 IU) until age 70, then 20 mcg (800 IU)
    • Calcium: 1,200 mg
    • Vitamin E: 15 mg
    • Folate: 400 mcg
    • Vitamin K: 90 mcg

Inactive lifestyle:

  • Energy needs are lower (about 1,600–1,800 calories/day for women 60+ who are sedentary).
  • Because fewer calories are consumed, it’s important to choose nutrient‑dense foods so that vitamin and mineral needs are met without excess calories.

No need for “megadoses”:

  • High percentages above the RDA don’t provide extra benefit for most vitamins.
  • Too much can be harmful — e.g., excess vitamin A can cause liver damage, excess calcium can increase kidney stone risk, and high vitamin E can raise bleeding risk.

Special considerations for older adults:

  • Vitamin D & Calcium: Needed for bone health; many older adults fall short.
  • Vitamin B12: Absorption decreases with age, so fortified foods or supplements may be necessary.
  • Fiber, potassium, magnesium: Often under‑consumed and important for heart and digestive health.

Practical Guidance

  • Stick to the recommended daily amounts — not higher.
  • Focus on a balanced diet: fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean protein, and low‑fat dairy.
  • Supplements should only be used if a doctor identifies a deficiency or absorption issue.
  • Avoid “high‑percentage” or “megadose” supplements unless medically prescribed

Melinda

References:

Copilot

https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/vitamins-and-supplements/vitamins-and-minerals-older-adults

https://www.fda.gov/food/nutrition-facts-label/using-nutrition-facts-label-older-adults

Celebrate Life · Cooking · Family · Fun · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

Apricot-Glazed Chicken with Spring Vegetables

  • Level: Easy
  • Total: 35 min
  • Active: 35 min
  • Yield: 4 servings
  • Nutrition Info

Ingredients


1 1/2 pounds skinless, boneless chicken breasts (about 4)

Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper

1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil

2 tablespoons unsalted butter

4 carrots, cut into 1/2-inch pieces

1 bunch asparagus (about 1 pound), ends trimmed, cut into 2-inch pieces

12 ounces snow peas, trimmed (about 2 1/2 cups)

3 tablespoons apricot preserves

4 teaspoons dijon mustard

4 scallions, chopped

1 tablespoon chopped fresh tarragon

1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest

Directions

  • Cut each chicken breast into 4 or 5 large chunks; season with salt and pepper. Heat a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Add the olive oil. Add the chicken and cook, turning, until browned on all sides and almost cooked through, 4 to 6 minutes. Remove to a plate.

  • Add 1 tablespoon butter to the skillet and reduce the heat to medium. Add the carrots and 1/2 cup water. Cover and simmer until the carrots are crisp-tender, 3 to 4 minutes. Uncover and increase the heat to medium high. Cook until the water evaporates, 1 minute.

  • Reduce the heat to medium and melt the remaining 1 tablespoon butter in the skillet. Add the asparagus, snow peas and 1/4 teaspoon salt. Cover and cook until the vegetables are crisp-tender, about 3 minutes. Return the chicken to the skillet along with the apricot preserves, mustard, scallions, tarragon and lemon zest. Simmer, tossing, until the preserves are melted and the chicken and vegetables are glazed; season with salt and pepper.

Yummy!

Melinda

Reference:

Food Network

Celebrate Life · Cooking · Daily Writing Prompt · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health

Daily Writing Prompt

Daily writing prompt
What are your feelings about eating meat?

All animals big and small are important to our existence and since the beginning of mankind we have eaten meat for nourishment. The treatment of the animals and what they are feed came to my mind many years ago and I do still eat meat a couple of days a week.

When meat is on the menu including eggs, we buy organic, free-range, grass feed, non-GMO and anything else to make sure our food is clean and the animals were treated with care before death. Chickens are treated horribly, they live in crowded dirty cages and let’s not get started on what they are feed.

I choose to eat meat and care about the animals welfare at the same time. That will make sense to some and not others. To each his own.

Melinda

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Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

Eating Disorders Often Undiagnosed In Boys And Men

It may surprise you that more boys and men are diagnosed with Eating Disorders than girls and women? Part of the reason for not reaching out is the stigma around Mental Health support and the lack of education about the disorder.

Eating Disorders are complex and treatment directed toward males can be limited. Helping someone overcome an Eating Disorder requires patience, therapy, or a stay at an in-house treatment center. I’ve only read a couple of books on Eating Disorders and will say it’s a very long road of relapses to reach recovery.

Due to their own stigma parents and family often overlook the early warning signs and do not reach out for help until it’s a crisis.

EATING DISORDERS IN MEN & BOYS

In the United States alone, eating disorders will affect 10 million males at some point in their lives. But due in large part to cultural bias, they are much less likely to seek treatment for their eating disorder. The good news is that once a man finds help, they show similar responses to treatment as women. Several factors lead to men and boys being under- and undiagnosed for an eating disorder. Men can face a double stigma, for having a disorder characterized as feminine or gay and for seeking psychological help. Additionally, assessment tests with language geared to women and girls have led to misconceptions about the nature of disordered eating in men according to the National Eating Disorder Association.

COMMON SYMPTOMS OF AN EATING DISORDER

Emotional and Behavioral Symptoms

  • In general, behaviors and attitudes that indicate that weight loss, dieting, and control of food are becoming primary concerns
  • Preoccupation with weight, food, calories, carbohydrates, fat grams, and dieting
  • Refusal to eat certain foods, progressing to restrictions against whole categories of food (e.g., no carbohydrates, etc.)
  • Appears uncomfortable eating around others
  • Food rituals (e.g. eats only a particular food or food group [e.g. condiments], excessive chewing, doesn’t allow foods to touch)
  • Skipping meals or taking small portions of food at regular meals
  • Any new practices with food or fad diets, including cutting out entire food groups (no sugar, no carbs, no dairy, vegetarianism/veganism)
  • Withdrawal from usual friends and activities
  • Frequent dieting
  • Extreme concern with body size and shape
  • Frequent checking in the mirror for perceived flaws in appearance
  • Extreme mood swings

Physical Symptoms

  • Noticeable fluctuations in weight, both up and down
  • Stomach cramps, other non-specific gastrointestinal complaints (constipation, acid reflux, etc.)
  • Menstrual irregularities — missing periods or only having a period while on hormonal contraceptives (this is not considered a “true” period)
  • Difficulties concentrating
  • Abnormal laboratory findings (anemia, low thyroid and hormone levels, low potassium, low white and red blood cell counts)
  • Dizziness, especially upon standing
  • Fainting/syncope
  • Feeling cold all the time
  • Sleep problems
  • Cuts and calluses across the top of finger joints (a result of inducing vomiting)
  • Dental problems, such as enamel erosion, cavities, and tooth sensitivity
  • Dry skin and hair, and brittle nails
  • Swelling around area of salivary glands
  • Fine hair on body (lanugo)
  • Cavities, or discoloration of teeth, from vomiting
  • Muscle weakness
  • Yellow skin (in context of eating large amounts of carrots)
  • Cold, mottled hands and feet or swelling of feet
  • Poor wound healing
  • Impaired immune functioning

The list of symptoms is long because it’s all-encompassing.

I encourage you to visit National Eating Disorder Association for a breakdown of the seven types of Eating Disorders and other behavioral and food concerns. Finding the underlying causes requires a trained professional in the right setting, an individual plan, and most importantly support from family and friends.

When looking for the right professional, talk with them about their approach and experience before introducing them to the patient. Finding the right approach may require research and time. It’s important to do this on the front end if possible. An approved method and training will make all the difference on the road to recovery. Disruptions during treatment can interfere with the recovery process making the patient resistant to continued treatment.

Melinda

References

National Eating Disorder Org.