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CÔTÉ LUMIÈRE, LIGHT SIDE Is On My Bad Side, Why?

There was a time when I would have liked to have my post reblogged over and over. Today however I feel quite differently. I reblog as you know but I do it based on posts that hit the mark, have information I know you will enjoy and ones that move me deeply, and of course great photography but it’s not to build my blog. Building a community is more important than building a number, which frankly means nothing without engagement. I’ve encountered several bloggers in the past 4 months who build their blogs simply by reblogging other’s posts. To some that is cool but for me it’s not

I want people to connect with my post and reblog when it hits them, not every damn post. 

WordPress doesn’t allow you to approve reblogs, you will get a comment showing it was reblogged and asking you to approve but it doesn’t mean anything because the post is already live on the other site. BIG FLAW, but let’s not go down the rabbit hole.

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This is where Cote Lumiere, Light Side blog comes in, they have been reblogging all of my Blogger Highlight posts for a couple of months, they have never spoken to me and you can’t send them a message. When you try as I did yesterday, the message comes back to me. Below is a comment I sent them, of course, it came to me. 

“I don’t think that building a blog on others’ work even when credit is given is cool. Please don’t reblog my post any longer or I will write a post and call you, especially for what you are doing with people’s content. The other blogs you repost from will not appreciate it and your followers if any will leave or they deserve you. Stop now!”

You may think my comment is harsh, and it is. While I am glad the bloggers from the Blogger Highlight series are getting exposure, they may not like this tactic either. People need to have a choice and that is not being given. Several months ago I thought about turning my reblog button off but that isn’t the way to tackle this issue. I love it when people connect with a post and want to share it and I love being able to do the same. 

I’m not into numbers, only connections, great content. and learning. 

They don’t follow me and won’t see this post but I wanted you to know this is happening and maybe happening to you. if you don’t mind, that’s cool, if you do, take action. At the moment I don’t feel WordPress offers any solution, just problems but I may come up with something so they will get my message. Nothing nasty or illegal, many something, maybe not. 

Please share your thoughts, you may see an upside here. 

Melinda

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#TMI tag

 

Tag, your it! 

Ashleyleia from MentalHealth@Home.wordpress tagged me for the TMI tag.  So, here we go:

Q: What is your favorite show?

Blind Spot

Q: What is your favorite band?

Bad Company

Q: Something you really miss.

Peace

Q: Where do you go when you are sad?

Bed

Q: Have you ever been in a physical fight?

Yes, winning most.

Q: What is your favorite color?

Green

Q: Loud music or soft?

Always loud, Rock & Roll deserves loud music.

Q: Favorite actor.

Harrison Ford

Q: Do you have any fears? What are they?

Snakes & Spiders

Q: Meaning behind your blog name.

I have Treatment Resistant Bipolar Disorder. In dark times I looked for the light.

Q: Last time you said you loved someone.

Yesterday

Q: Last book you read.

The Panic Switch

Q: The book you are currently reading.

The Agoraphobia Workbook

Q: Last sport you played.

As a teen played softball & basketball. I sucked at both.

Q: Last song you sang.

Shooting Star by Bad Company

Q: Favorite food.

Spanish, Mexican, down home country cooking

Q: Place you want to visit.

Morocco, Jordan, Pennsylvania

Q: Favorite flavor of sweet.

Chocolate

Q: What instruments do you play?

None

Q: Favorite piece of jewelry.

Wedding band

Rather than calling out specific people to tag, I’m going to leave it up to my readers.  If you’re interested in playing along, well then tag, you’re it!

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The Sunshine Award from Michelle of Putting my Feet in the Dirt

 

 

My friend Michele from Putting My Feet in the Dirt nominated me for the beautiful Sunshine Award. Michelle’s Blog is a Christian-based Blog with a wide variety of posts on travel, children, and short stories. She is funny and serious when needed. Michelle is a great supporter of the WordPress community. Do yourself a favor and stop by to see what she’s up to.

Rules for participating. Have fun.

Thank the person who nominated you.
Answer the questions from the person who nominated you.
Nominate a few other bloggers.
Write the same amount of questions for the bloggers you nominated.
Notify the bloggers on their blogs.
Put the award button on your blog.

1. If a zombie apocalypse would happen right this very minute, are you going to tweet about it? But seriously, are you going to fight or run? Why?

I’m running. I don’t know what Zombie’s can do so I’ll get out of there.

2. How would you spend a million dollars?

Make a contribution to charities I support. Then get on an airplane and see the world.

3. What thing would you want to change yourself?

I cuss too much, it’s a bad habit I’ve had since childhood.

4. What’s your Chinese birth year sign? I’m best suited for breeding.

 

5. If you could invent something, what is that? why?

This is hard, there so many. Clean drinking water to prevent children from dying of preventable diseases. I have to add a far-fetched invention. Magic fairy dust to have all wars stopped and peace around the world. I can always wish.

6. A gift that you would love to receive on your birthday?

A ticket around the world first class by myself and a guide. Traveling alone is the best way  To top the dream birthday, a new professional camera and gear. We can’t forget bug spray, tall very thick boots for snakes, and a gun to kill anything trying to take me down.

7. What is WordPress effect in your life and your message to me as your fellow blogger?

My life with WP is shaped by the people I meet. It’s great to meet people with similar interests to BS, and great writers to admire. I can reach out to people who are struggling and offer someone to talk to. My heart is filled with sunshine in many ways being in the WP family.

A message to fellow bloggers: Being rude to followers or responding to comments isn’t worth it. If you have a desire to grow your followers, thank each person for stopping by your site. Write for yourself, not for the number of followers.

The nominations have opened my mind and touched my soul. Congrats!

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cindyknoke.com

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XO Melinda