I’ve been writing my thoughts and the impact on my life from Fibromyalgia for some time now and it’s time for an update.
I have been blessed to not have a full-blown flair in several months, but when I did it caused all the pain in my body to worsen.
I have bursitis in both hips and is painful long before I can get my steroid shots. I also have an injured shoulder which is painful when I sleep. When I’m not having a flair I can function except for my hips. It’s hard to sleep on one side for very long and then I have to turn over, and so and so on.
When I have a flair I can barely walk, it hurts to put any weight on my hip and my knee wants to give out. The doctor says nothing is wrong with my knee, it’s a replacement so the low-grade pain I feel is amped up.
I can’t walk without pain all over my body, sometimes in places I don’t even expect. I spent most of the winter in a terrible flair and am so grateful it has passed. But I know it will be back again and after the winter struggles my husband has a much better idea of what a flair looks like.
Even the pain I don’t feel gets amplified, and I stay in bed for many days. I’ve missed so much of my life to Fibromyalgia and several other chronic illnesses. I fell into a deep depression and wanted to kill myself, I didn’t see a future. That’s when I call my Psychiatrist and say I’m falling and can’t get up.
People might not tell you how debilitating Fibromyalgia can be but it can put your life on halt. The most important message I can share is to have a team of doctors and a therapist that supports your journey.
It takes a toll on your mental health especially if you have other chronic illnesses. Be gentle with yourself, and have self-care time set aside every day. You have to take care of mind and body.
I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder but did not take it seriously until my father committed suicide at 52 years old. He put a gun in his mouth and it was a terrible scene. After he died I started reading about Bipolar Disorder, it said that 75% of children whose parents kill themselves will do the same. At that point, I decided I need some professional help.
Bipolar Disorder can present itself in many ways and it’s important to know so you can contact your doctor when in trouble. I’m on the depressive side and rarely go into a hypo state and have never been manic. I had a problem in the late 90s where I was switching, so one day depressed, and one day I would be fine, and then boom, I’m depressed. You need to have a Psychiatrist who can keep working on the right mix of medication to keep you stable. When looking for a Psychiatrist, the key thing to ask is do they treat Bipolar Disorder.
Now that you know a little about me, I want to share how I stay healthy:
The most important task every day is to take your medication. I get tired of taking so many pills but I know that’s what it takes to keep me going.
Get rid of your stigmas and shut out all the people in your life who don’t care to understand or have their own stigma. You need to cut all the negatives out of you’re life as possible. I’ve quit watching the Nightly News because politics get me worked up. It’s been a big relief.
There is nothing to be ashamed of, you have an illness just like others have an illness.
Take time out every day for self-care, it could be enjoying the fresh air and listening to the birds, taking a hot bath with essential oils to calm you down, or anything you can take time out to pamper yourself is good for your mental health.
Keep all appts. with your doctor. I would also recommend seeing a therapist too. I’ve been seeing my team for over 30 years.
Take the time to learn about your illness but don’t over-focus on it. You need to know what you’re dealing with but don’t second guess your doctor. Not everything you read on the Internet is correct. Go to reliable sites for information.
If you swing to the manic state, it may feel good but as my doctor says, what comes up must come down and you won’t like the coming down part. Being manic can cause you to think differently and you can get yourself in trouble very fast.
Stay on top of your refills, you don’t want to miss any days of your medication.
Share you’re story with someone you trust, you may have to explain your illness to them but you need someone on your side. You also need someone who can tell when you’re not yourself and alert you before you slide one way or another.
You have to understand when you are at your limit. If you are thinking about suicide, now is the time to raise your hand. Call your friend for support. Worst case scenario go to the local Emergency Room.
It can seem overwhelming at first, but with good information, a great Psychiatrist and Therapist, and a friend you can trust, you have a good safety net.
I want to send a special thank you to Vital Field’s Communications Director Nassia Bitha for sending me the Pineal Gland Cell’s. If you’ve read my blog long enough you know that my relationship with Vital Field started over two years ago and I’ve reviewed many of their products. I don’t completely understand the science behind each Cell but all of the reviews I’ve done have been positive.
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I have tested most of the Vital Fields products and they have never let me down. It’s hard to explain how these two work but they did have a positive impact.
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I want to thank Trigger Publishing Editor Andrea Marchiano for sharing Sometimes by Joann Howeth. I have enjoyed and learned so much from children’s books. Parents today have a choice of what tools they use to raise their children. There are no children’s books like the ones from Trigger, you must check out their complete selection of children’s and teen’s books.
These are great books for Grandparents to have around so they can reinforce the way you’re trying to help your child.
Blurb
Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming. Sometimes, we cling to things that we should let go of. And sometimes, those who are closest to us are the ones who hurt us the most. Despite what others may tell us, during these times, the best thing we can do is talk.
In this honest and poignant story, Joann Howeth reminds us of what can happen behind closed doors and, in doing so, encourages kids to tell their own stories to ensure they get the support they need. A must-have for every library, classroom, and therapist’s office, this book will reassure struggling children that they are not alone and help them find a safe and healthy outlet for their troubles.
My Thoughts
This is the most serious children’s book I’ve read and think all children need to read this book because it shows them that sometimes you have to tell your secrets to someone you can trust. This book will help children struggling with divorce, lack of money, or other struggles that go on behind closed doors. One very important piece of information is missing, it’s her name. This goes along with her secret.
She has many secrets that she keeps to herself and the pressure it puts on her is heavy. Her Dad is gone and her mother is in a bad place, it could be from mental health issues or she just can’t make ends meet. Often times when she goes to the refrigerator there is no milk, or when she wants to wash her hair there is no shampoo and the house is stacked full and running over including the moldy dishes.
She is not allowed to participate in school activities or go to barbecues and is isolated from friends because she doesn’t want anyone to know her secrets.
She feels so alone and embarrassed and her mother has said no one can come into their house. She has no friends except the neighbor who is kind to her. Her room is filled with items her mother has collected and it crowds out her sleeping space, sometimes she sleeps in a chair or will sit on the stoop.
Her neighbor has a good idea of what is going on and she offers her a string cheese, an apple, and a hug on the way home from school. One day she realized her neighbor knew what was going on and asked her not to tell. Her trusted friend, Mrs. McGeorger said sometimes you have to share with someone.
This is happening today much more than we know it and we can’t judge or blame the children. I had many secrets growing up, I was abused and my step-father was an alcoholic. I didn’t want any friends to come to my house for fear of getting a glimpse of what was truly happening. I didn’t trust anyone, that was a heavy burden for a child to carry around every day.
This book is for parents, grandparents, therapists, and schools, all children need exposure to what can happen behind closed doors, it may help a child come forward or at least make them less judgemental. I love this book, it was hard to swallow but I could relate so clearly and know there are plenty of children that have secrets.
Trigger Publishing
TriggerHub.org is the first mental health organization of its kind. We are bringing mental health recovery and balance to millions of people worldwide through the power of our books.
We have built a first-class resource of curated books produced and published in-house to create a unique collection of mental health recovery titles unrivaled in quality and selection. We work with experts, psychologists, doctors, and coaches to produce our books, but we also work with real people looking to share their stories to reach out to others and provide hope, understanding, and compassion. These brave authors also aim to raise awareness of mental health’s “human” face and its impact on everyday lives.
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight the blog of Stella Reddy’s Blog.
My site is about how I have healed and what I did to achieve that. I am open about my mistakes, share all I have experienced and learned, and share my innermost thoughts over it all. I made a site about me, to be found with theirs, in case anyone is interested if not, that’s okay too. I do it for my own peace of mind, knowing my truth is there, to drown out their nastiness in my name.
Always, upwards and onwards!!
You will love her blog and she’s great to talk to.
In this fast-paced social media world, it can be difficult to find the time to look within or back in time. I hope you find these quotes and questions interesting. So glad you stopped by today!
I’m so glad you’ve joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.
Have a great weekend!
Melinda
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There are more Health Apps than a year ago and it’s getting crowded so you may be inclined to pick one. BEWARE! More research is needed before you ever sign up! One important thing to remember is these Apps are not regulated, as some Apps are unscrupulous including where your information is being shared, and more importantly are the Therapists and doctors who are providing support are licensed.
Let me tell you about an App that offered the services of a medical doctor. The App would refer people to the doctor and the doctor was a fraud! The medical doctor who would write pain medication was not a licensed doctor. The DEA got wind of this and started watching him. They busted the doctor for prescribing more pills than allowed, writing his own scripts when the patients didn’t have one and if I recall correctly he had prescribed over 15,000 scripts for pain meds, many patients were left addicted to pain meds and had to find help elsewhere. He is spending only 5 years in jail, that is the scary part.
When an App includes the service of a Therapist or Medical Doctor you have to make sure they have the proper license to do so. One way I would do it is look ask what doctor they use and then do a search on them. Find out they are legit. The same with a Therapist, the wrong Therapist can set you back not moving forward. I would check them out as well.
Then I would look closely at the Privacy Policy, and read carefully who they are sharing your information with. Some are sharing your information with hospitals doing research for which they are probably paid to share. If the Privacy Policy doesn’t spell it out, that would be a red flag for me. I would write them and ask where your information is being shared. You’re not signing up to help a research project, your signing up because you want help. If someone is sharing your information, my thought is there in it for money. Beware.
Ask around to see who has used the App in the past or what other App they use. You have to look at it like finding a new doctor. You don’t throw a dart to pick one, you check them out first. I would also do research on the App it’s self, see what you find on the Internet about them. You may be surprised. I’ve written about several Apps in the past and can tell you one is already out of business.
Take a step back before you join any App and make sure you’re getting what you expect, not that wako doctor with no license prescribing medicine of any type.
In America we have the FDA to approve all prescription medications, manufacturers have to prove their drug has all the data on clinical trials, and they even do down to approving what the label can have on it. If the FDA is not satisfied the FDA will tell the manufacturer to go get this information and reapply. That’s critical to know. In America, we have a system that all prescriptions go thru before being released to the public. They also have a section you can report adverse reactions or a medical device that failed. We have a system.
I know that people with chronic illnesses especially those with chronic pain have trouble getting the pain management they need and out of frustration turn to the Internet. BEWARE!
There are other countries that have a system in place but we have no idea if it matches our standards. There are also countries that have no system to verify the drugs are pure, they do what they say and they are monitored.
The FDA says this about online Pharmacies.
Warning Signs of an Unsafe Online Pharmacy
Beware of online pharmacies that:
Do not require a doctor’s prescription.
Are not licensed in the U.S. and by your state board of pharmacy.
Do not have a licensed pharmacist on staff to answer your questions.
Send medicine that looks different than what you receive at your usual pharmacy, or arrives in packaging that is broken, damaged, in a foreign language, has no expiration date, or is expired.
Offer deep discounts or prices that seem too good to be true.
Charge you for products you never ordered or received.
Do not provide clear written protections of your personal and financial information.
Sell your information to other websites.
These pharmacies often sell medicines that can be dangerous because they may:
Have too much or too little of the active ingredient you need to treat your disease or condition.
Not contain the right active ingredient.
Contain the wrong ingredients or other harmful substances.
If you buy from any online site from another country, you have no guarantee of what’s inside. It could cause more harm to your body, it could have nothing in there to help you, and the worst is it can be laced with different products and can kill you.
That’s strong words I know but I have read too many articles and heard of personal stories where buying online was the worst move to make.
Melinda
References:
Yes, there are ligament Pharmacies online, I would check them out before you buy. Do an Internet search on the Pharmacy. You may be surprised what you find or you see they are legit Pharmacies you can go to. The key is what country is your medication coming from.
Where you can protect yourself is to search, search, and search before buying. Your health and life are more important. Personally, I would not buy a drug online unless my insurance company offers an online Pharmacy.
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, Second Chances.
CONTENT GUIDANCE: This blog has strong language, explores aspects of mental health, domestic violence ,drug abuse, alcohol abuse, and suicide. Please read with caution!
Hi all!!! I’m Rae,37 year old mom, blogger,AR analyst,addiction advocate/coach. My all time favorite time of year is fall 🍁🍁🍁.
Her blog covers many serious topics and I know you will find her post enjoyable.
How can I say that? We are emotional people, even those who try to be strong will have crises. When a spouse or child dies, a bad car wreck, you lose your job, your child is addicted to drugs, the list goes on. This is not a mental illness it’s an emotional crisis from what is happening in your life.
My crisis started with low-grade depression, being diagnosed with Kidney Disease, my husband being diagnosed with two types of cancer, and I had two repressed memories come back to me. With all that being down on me, I couldn’t handle it anymore.
We’ve all had or will have something traumatic happen that will affect us deeply and cause emotional distress. We are human beings and as such we do get emotional scars we have to work thru. Sometimes it’s as simple as talking to someone and having a good cry, other times you may need a Therapist to work thru the pain. They are trained to listen and talk about ways to help you cope. I’ve been seeing a Therapist for 30 years, she has helped me process the trauma of my childhood and is a good ear when a new issue comes up and I’m not sure how to handle it.
According to Vice Chair of Adult Psychology Elissa Epel, Ph.D., If you feel in crisis or overwhelmed, it may be helpful for you to make a list of what you can and cannot control right now. In this guide, we suggest radical acceptance of the situations we cannot control, and focus on what we can do.
I’ve experienced my share of trauma and have moved past the pain, it was holding me back in life. My Therapist was a big part of overcoming the trauma that ruled my life and I am stronger for it. I believe stress and trauma can turn your life upside down. I’ve already stopped watching the national news, too much politics that get me extremely worked up. I feel less stressed already.
Before you experience an emotional crisis, look at your habits, really examine your life and cut negative people out of your life, I don’t care if they are family, you don’t want negative influences around you. If your friends aren’t supportive of you, they are not your friends, if politics get you jacked up, don’t watch the news.
I think social media can have a negative effect on our health. The way I look at social media is it’s a place I share my post with. I follow very few people and I always assume the person on the other end is not who they say they are. That’s reality. You see news stories every day of stalking, raping, or trolling. If you have a mindset that people are not who they say they are, you won’t get pulled into a bad situation. That might sound harsh but it’s a reality. You do not know the person on the other end, and you don’t know their motive, instead look at them as Social Media friends, not the type of friends you have in your life outside of Social Media.
We can never prepare for when an emotional crisis will hit us, we can do everything right and we’re still going to face a crisis in our life. Talk to someone, don’t keep it inside for the pain and stress don’t go away on their own.
When my grandparents died I was devastated, how could I live without them, they were my rock and my parents because my parents were abusing me. Long before I went into therapy, my granny was the one I talked to about teenage trauma. She always said it would pass, I would say if your emotional crisis is interfering in your life in the least, go talk to a therapist.
I’ve worked thru most of my emotional crisis but still have two repressed memories to discuss, luckily they are not interfering in my life and I will see my Therapist soon.
An emotional crisis is NOT a mental illness, I will say as a person with Bipolar Disorder that an emotional crisis can bring on depression but being depressed about losing someone you love is natural and from our heart. It’s when our heart is breaking that an emotional crisis can happen.
I’m so glad you’ve joined me this week for another edition of Weekend Music Share.
Have a great weekend!
Melinda
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The National Alliance on Mental Illness is highly respected not only for its advocacy work but for the resources that are available for free. They have an extensive library of previous posts in English and Spanish and they update often. They work with our Government to advocate for more services and better treatment for mentally ill patients.
NAMI envisions a world where all people affected by mental illness live healthy, fulfilling lives supported by a community that cares.
Our Mission
NAMI provides advocacy, education, support and public awareness so that all individuals and families affected by mental illness can build better lives.
Our Values
Hope: We believe in the possibility of recovery, wellness and the potential in all of us.
Inclusion: We embrace diverse backgrounds, cultures and perspectives.
Empowerment: We promote confidence, self-efficacy and service to our mission.
Compassion: We practice respect, kindness and empathy.
Fairness: We fight for equity and justice.
Who We Are
The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.
What started as a small group of families gathered around a kitchen table in 1979 has blossomed into the nation’s leading voice on mental health. Today, we are an alliance of more than 600 local Affiliates and 49 State Organizations who work in your community to raise awareness and provide support and education that was not previously available to those in need.
Diversity, Equity And Inclusion
At NAMI, we believe a diverse, inclusive and equitable organization (or Alliance) is one where all employees, volunteers and members — regardless of gender, race, gender identity, ethnicity, national origin, age, sexual orientation, education, disability, veteran status or other dimension of diversity — feel valued and respected.
We are committed to a nondiscriminatory approach and to providing equal opportunity for employment, participation and advancement in all programs and worksites.
NAMI not only has a site full of resources but they also have locations across the United States. Look to find an office near you. I support their work 100% and believe in their work so much they are one of the charities I give to each year.
If you need any help with your Mental Illness turn to NAMI’s resources to help you thru the issue you are struggling with. I love how they have a section on how to talk with family and friends about your illness.
Are you a fan of rock concerts, lively city streets, or perhaps adrenaline-fueled activities? While these experiences can be thrilling, have you considered the possible impact they have on your delicate ears? In this revealing blog post, we delve into the realm of high-decibel noise exposure and its harmful effects on our hearing abilities. From understanding the science of ear damage to exploring practical preventive measures, join us on this exploratory journey as we reveal how something as trivial as a few extra decibels can have lasting consequences. Get ready to prioritize your auditory health like never before.
Understanding the Perils of High-Decibel Noise Exposure
High-decibel noise exposure ranks amongst the leading causes of hearing loss. It can occur gradually over time or instantaneously due to a one-off exposure to loud noise. Unfortunately, hearing loss from noise exposure is irreversible. If you’ve suffered hearing damage due to an accident that wasn’t your fault, contact the likes of Schuerger Shunnarah trial attorneys as soon as possible.
Numerous sources of loud noise can potentially harm your hearing, including:
firearms
fireworks
power tools
music concerts and events
car stereos
engines
Loud noise exposure is also prevalent in the workplace, for instance:
factories
construction sites
agricultural machinery
The Types of Ear Damage from High-Decibel Noise Exposure
Four types of ear damage can result from high-decibel noise exposure:
Temporary threshold shift: Here, your hearing is temporarily impacted by loud noise but typically recovers within a few hours or days.
Permanent threshold shift: This refers to when your hearing is permanently damaged by loud noise, an irreversible condition.
Noise-induced hearing loss: This type of permanent threshold shift leads to a gradual deterioration in hearing over time.
Tinnitus: This is characterized by a ringing, buzzing, or other noise you perceive in your ears or head without any external source. Both temporary and permanent threshold shifts can trigger tinnitus.
Preventing Ear Damage from High-Decibel Noise
High-decibel noise exposure is a frequent cause of ear damage, leading to permanent hearing loss over time. It can also result in tinnitus (ringing in the ears) and vertigo (dizziness). There are several strategies to prevent ear damage due to loud noise:
Use earplugs or earmuffs when you’re exposed to loud noise, such as when operating power tools, lawnmowers, or firearms.
Adjust the volume on music players and other personal audio devices. If you can’t hear someone speaking from three feet away, the music is excessively loud.
Avoid attending noisy events, like concerts and sports matches, without ear protection.
Maintain a distance of at least 25 feet from fireworks displays.
The Long-Term Consequences of Hearing Loss Due to High-Decibel Noise Exposure
There are numerous long-term effects of hearing loss resulting from high-decibel noise exposure. Some of these effects include:
Hyperacusis: A condition in which sounds are perceived as being far louder than they are. This can make everyday activities such as phone conversations or movie outings challenging.
Dizziness: People with hearing loss often report dizziness and balance issues. This is because the inner ear plays a pivotal role in maintaining balance.
If you’ve been exposed to high-decibel noise and are experiencing any of these symptoms, it’s crucial to consult a doctor for a thorough hearing evaluation. Neglected hearing loss can lead to social isolation, depression, and even dementia. So, don’t delay – have your hearing assessed today!
Managing and Treating Ear Damage from High-Decibel Noise Exposure
If you’ve been exposed to high-decibel noise, either through work or recreational activities, it’s vital to be aware of the potential ear damage. Here are some tips on managing and treating ear damage from such exposure:
Consult a doctor if you experience pain or hearing loss after exposure to high-decibel noise.
Avoid further exposure to loud noise. If unavoidable, always wear ear protection.
Rest your ears as much as possible and limit your time in noisy environments.
Clean your ears gently with a soft, dry cloth after exposure to loud noise.
Avoid using cotton swabs or other objects in your ear canal, as it can exacerbate the damage.
In Conclusion
Exposure to high-decibel noise can severely impact your hearing and should never be underestimated. Understanding the ramifications of prolonged exposure is crucial as it can cause permanent ear damage over time. Proactive measures such as wearing protective headphones, limiting exposure to loud noises, and steering clear from areas with high sound levels are all effective ways to reduce your risk of hearing loss or other adverse effects caused by long-term exposure to loud noise.
I remember the blistering days of summer spent playing with the Slippery Slide and the Wiggle Worm. All you could hear is us laughing so hard and having a blast.
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, She the bald blogger.
Hello my fellow readers!!..I’m Anshika from India.I’m 18 and currently pursuing Bachelor’s of science. I love writing, listening to music, art and styling up!!..and my main hobby is to take a lot of stress and crack bad jokes..rofl 🙂
I’ve had struggled with alopecia for 3 years of my life.When i went through extreme hair thinning,dandruff ,oily scalp issues and literally nothing sort of treatment worked for me that’s when i lost my patience and decided to shave my head off. It literally took hell lot of courage and wasn’t as easy as it sounds 😦 .After crying for all day long, finally gathered some strength and decided to open my blog on WordPress. So here I’m to motivate,share my feelings and to change the definition of beauty. There are many people out there who don’t beautiful or confident enough just because of their looks. I want to empower them and help them with their insecurities.
Last week my depression drug me into a hole I could not get out and I signed into my favorite Psych Hospital on Friday for Electro Convulsive Therapy (ECT). Many still have the images of One Flew Over The CoKoos Nest. That movie was dramatized although ECT was more difficult until doctors learned that by using a muscle relaxer along with the drugs the anesthesiologist uses it’s really a piece of cake. I usually have a headache and Friday I felt jaw pain but it didn’t last long.
It takes longer to prepare you than the treatment itself. ECT makes you have a convulsion to get your brain to change channels. The number of treatments you need will vary, I’m hoping 5 is my magic number because I don’t want to have to roll into the following week. My husband has taken off so much time coming to see me every day but next week he will get really backed up at work. As he says, we do what we have to.
Trama
After meeting with the doctor for 10-15 minutes the doctor had the nerve to tell me:
I wasn’t Bipolar
Was overmedicated
My doctor had not taken care of me over the last 32 years
He said I did not have Dementia and should not take any of the meds I’m taking. In 2017 I saw a Neurologist about my Dementia, I scored a 17, very bad, on Thursday when I did the test I’m up to 21. Not great but it tells me the meds are slowing the progression.
*He had no right to say that to me, I’m in a Psych Hospital, the last thing you tell a person indistress is that type of information. He is an ass and I didn’t believe one word. My Psych doctor was surprised, he thought this doctor was a good one. I’ve already sent emails to the Chair of Psychiatry, Psych doctor, my therapist, and cc my husband. KARMA IS A BITCH!
Don’t let any doctor shake your confidence in the team you have. I would tell your doctor what was said but do not take anyone’s ideas except for your own doctor. I got mad as hell and wanted too much of him but knew better.
Cherry on Top
I almost laughed my ass off when he said that when I don’t get my way I act out. That has never been my personality and people that know me would say the opposite.
ECT
I had a treatment on Friday and will go back outpatient next week, going M, W & F. The worst thing about ECT to me is they have lower some of my medication right away and hold the others the night and morning of treatment. By the time they came to get me for ECT, it was going on at 11:00, and I was in full-blown withdrawal. Crying, wailing, asking for God’s help, my entire body was shaking, I could barely walk, and was starting to hyperventilate. Missing two Xanax sends me over the edge. I will be in withdrawal there days next week. It’s going to be a very rough week but we have to do what we have to do.
If you have a serious Mental Illness including Bipolar Disorder PLEASE don’t pass on ECT because it works miracles and it’s nothing like the movie which was overly dramatic, which sells movie tickets. Not the whole truth.
I’m still sore in a few places like my jaw but it’s much better than yesterday.
I have written a post on ECT before and will write another post on the history of treatments available for Mental Illness, you’ll be how barbaric it was before ECT.
I’m glad to be home, resting, and about to tackle some laundry.
I won’t be posting much since I only have two days without ECT. Then I hope to get back on my regular schedule. I’ve thought of many topics while in the hospital.
If you have any questions about ECT, leave me a comment and I’ll answer the best I can.
Creating a healthy romantic relationship can be hard for anyone, whether you have any kind of medical condition or not. But, sometimes it’s the people who are struggling the most with other aspects of their lives that find it the most difficult to have a romantic relationship. There are many reasons why this would be the case, but it’s important to understand that no matter what, it is possible if you want it to happen. In this article, we’re going to be taking a look at three things that you are going to need if you want to achieve this goal, so keep reading if you would like to find out more.
The first step to creating a healthy relationship is to communicate. Communication is the key to pretty much everything in life, including this. You are never going to get anywhere if you are unable to communicate with the people in your life that you are interested in, and this is especially the case if you are trying to have a romantic relationship. You have got to be able to talk about everything, knowing that you are safe and secure and that you feel heard.
Communication is a two-way street. You need to be listening to understand, not to respond, and you need to be willing to lay your feelings out as they are. Sometimes it gets messy, but as long as you are able to work through everything, that’s the main goal.
Trust
In order for there to be a healthy romantic relationship, you have got to trust the other person. There is no relationship if there is not a solid foundation of trust, and that’s what you need to understand. We know that it can be tough to believe someone when they say that they love you, or that they are never going to leave no matter what, but unless they give you a reason to believe otherwise, you have to trust their word.
You cannot live in a relationship where you are constantly second-guessing what is being said to you, or you don’t feel comfortable.
Understand
The final thing that we are going to say is that you have got to be understanding in a relationship. You have got to be willing to work through the hard times as well as the good times, even when it feels like there is nothing left there. But, at the same time, if there is nothing left and you need to look at a divorce attorney, do this before it gets nasty, and try to remain amicable. A relationship can still be healthy, even if it’s ending.
We hope that you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the things that you are going to need to do if you want to create a healthy romantic relationship. For people with chronic illness, it can be really hard to have these because in some cases the self-sabotage is real, but you can get there if you are willing to put the effort in. We wish you the very best of luck and hope that you manage to have a healthy and happy relationship going forward.
I’m doing better by taking my anger out on politicians by writing to them and the local news in Austin. It’s made a small dent.
My Therapist doesn’t return from surgery for a week or two. Once she’s back I can start to process why two repressed memories came back, I’m hoping we can talk thru them in a couple of sessions, who knows.
I see my Nephrologist on the 19th, wow my birthday, and will know after labs if I’ve progressed to Stage 4 Kidney Disease. If I have progressed to Stage 4, I will start to close down all my sites as the time I have to live will be greatly reduced. I spend most of the day in bed because of symptoms from Kidney disease, I’m having trouble catching my breath and Fibro is raising its ugly head.
I have written several posts in my head and maybe tomorrow I’ll be able to publish at least one.
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