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5 Mood-Boosting Fall and Winter Foods for Depression

A consistently healthy diet may ease symptoms of depression. Here are experts’ in-season picks for your plate.

Fall and winter can be brutal for people with depression. It gets dark early, resulting in far less exposure to mood-brightening sunlight, plus colder temperatures can make you just want to stay in bed.

In addition, it’s a time of year filled with the sugar-laden, high-fat holiday foods that are often least likely to benefit our mental health. “It’s a challenging time for eaters,” says Drew Ramsey, MD, a nutritional psychiatrist based in Jackson, Wyoming. “There’s lots of delicious stuff that oftentimes isn’t so great for our mood.”

Atlanta-based Jerlyn Jones, RDN, agrees, pointing out that the relationship between an unhealthy diet and depression is often a vicious cycle. “If you have a poor diet, then you’re going to feel more depressed. And when you feel more depressed, you’re probably going to eat more of those types of foods,” says Jones.

The good news: Diet is a modifiable risk factor for depression. In other words, simply loading up on whole foods like fruits and vegetables, fish, nuts, legumes, and the like can improve symptoms of this mood disorder in some people, according to research.

The problem is that when people feel stressed and depressed, they tend to crave comforting foods that are higher in sugar, salt, and fat, Jones says. Unfortunately, the instant relief you experience from those foods — especially the sugar-laden ones — dissolves quickly, which then can cause your mood to crash.

Not to mention that filling up on so-called “junk food” can make it hard to receive enough of the essential nutrients that the brain needs to function at its best, including B vitamins, folate, and magnesium.

“These vitamins and minerals have been inversely associated with depressive disorders,” Jones says. “Foods that are high in different nutrients can make you feel so much better.”

Wondering which healthy cold-weather foods can improve your mood? Experts advise increasing your intake of these five.

Brussels Sprouts Are High in Folate

These cruciferous vegetables are rich in folate — a B vitamin that helps with mood regulation in the brain, Jones says. Studies have shown that B vitamins like folic acid — a form of folate — may benefit people with depression, according to a review article

“This nutrient is linked to brain activity and increasing our moods,” says Jones. “Eating foods on a daily basis that are high in folate will help significantly improve the way you feel.”

Try adding raw, shredded Brussels sprouts to salads, or cut them in half, toss them with olive oil and spices, and roast them until brown.

Pomegranates Are Rich in Antioxidants

Another great fall food to eat regularly is pomegranate, a fruit high in antioxidants, Jones says. And it’s especially easy to reap this benefit because drinking pomegranate juice can significantly increase the number of antioxidants you take in, Jones notes.

In addition to their antioxidant content, pomegranates contain polyphenols, which have anti-inflammatory and antidepressant-like properties, according to a review article. “Inflammation is one of the root causes of depression, anxiety, and other mental health problems,” Dr. Ramsey says.

Pumpkins Boast a High Magnesium Content

These perennially popular fall fruits contain magnesium, which was linked to a lower risk of depressive symptoms and disorders in one systematic review.

Fitting this squash into your diet is easier than you may think — pumpkins are incredibly versatile. Try adding pureed pumpkin to soups, smoothies, and pasta sauces. Or simply snack on pumpkin seeds or toss them in a fall salad. “Pumpkin seeds are really one of our top [food] recommendations,” Ramsey says.

Sweet Potatoes Are Chock-Full of Vitamins

Usually harvested in September and October, sweet potatoes pack several essential nutrients — in particular, vitamin C. A meta-analysis concluded that higher levels of vitamin C are associated with reduced depressive symptoms, while lower levels of this vitamin are linked to increased symptoms, though more research is needed to confirm this association.

Winter Squash Is High in Vitamin B6

Winter squash comes in many forms — acorn squash, butternut squash, and spaghetti squash, to name a few. And each of them contain high amounts of vitamin B6, a nutrient shown to positively affect mood. One study found that a lower intake of vitamin B6 was associated with an increased risk of depression among more than 3,300 women.

More Tips for Healthy Seasonal Fare

Colder weather is a good time to consume more soup, especially clam chowders and seafood stews, says Ramsey. Dishes that contain mussels, clams, and oysters are dense with nutrients like magnesium, as well as omega-3 fatty acids, another nutrient that research suggests benefits people with depression. 

If you’re in the mood for something sweet, Ramsey advises swapping sugary holiday desserts for dark chocolate, which is packed with antioxidants and fiber.

“There’s now some interesting data about how the nutrients in dark chocolate are stimulating but also good for the brain, in the sense that people who eat dark chocolatetend to have less depression,” Ramsey says. 

Data from a survey of more than 13,000 U.S. adults showed that chocolate, especially dark chocolate, may be tied to a reduced risk of depressive symptoms.

Along with avoiding excess sugar, Ramsey advises being mindful of how much alcohol you consume around the holiday season.

“There’s a lot of drinking during the holidays, and alcohol can be awful if you have depression,” Ramsey says. “It tends to make people feel better in the short term, and then worse the next day.”

If you need help planning good-mood-friendly meals, the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s online tool MyPlate offers quizzes and hundreds of recipes to get you started.

The Takeaway

Although diet isn’t a cure for depression, eating nutritious foods can help people with the condition feel better. This fall and winter, consider adding seasonal fruits and vegetables rich in mood-enhancing nutrients like folate, antioxidants, and magnesium to your plate (think Brussels sprouts, pomegranates, and sweet potatoes, for example).

“There’s a lot of drinking during the holidays, and alcohol can be awful if you have depression,” Ramsey says. “It tends to make people feel better in the short term, and then worse the next day.”

If you need help planning good-mood-friendly meals, the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s online tool MyPlate offers quizzes and hundreds of recipes to get you started.

Resources We Trust

Melinda

Reference:

By Leona Vaughn Medically Reviewed by Reyna Franco, RDN courtesy of American College of Lifestyle Medicine

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I’m Being Paranoid

A little backstory will help here. I was stalked in 2017-2018 by someone I knew on WordPress, I didn’t know it at the time. They stalked me for seven months and wreaked havoc on my life. It started the day my Twitter account was hacked and they made it look like two people I was close to were the ones stalking me. I was completely shocked and for some reason I contacted WordPress, and they told me that the DNS address was one of my close friends. I was even more confused now. Why would they stalk me?

Over the coming months, they hacked my phone and my computer, sending me text messages that didn’t make sense, and when I would be typing a post they would change the words. I started asking them questions like do you plan to hurt me, are you a mean person and similar questions. I received back jibberish but felt they didn’t want to hurt me. The texts were the worst, I had no idea what they were saying so I started asking who they were. I would get back an initial but it didn’t match anyone I knew.  

It ended badly but one day they sent me an initial I recognized, and as soon as I said her name, I never heard from her again. 

Fast forward all these years, and someone from the country she lived in is searching my archives, it’s not a bot just 20 or so posts a day but the hairs went up on my neck. This has been happening for a couple of weeks, and I’ve become paranoid. It doesn’t sound logical but the trauma from the experience came rushing back. I can’t tell who they are, only that they are on Facebook. 

Have you experienced this type of unfounded fear before?

Melinda

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Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Domestic violence not only traumatizes the woman but also their children. My mother married my stepfather when I was seven years old and I watched him beat her to a pulp almost daily until I moved out at 12 years old. She screamed out in pain, begged for her life, and cared for her wounds privately to not set him off again. He was an alcoholic but that is not what made him an abuser, that came from within for reasons no one will know.

I watched him drag her down the hall, beating her head from side to side so she would hit both walls, all the while she was begging and crying for him to stop. What’s crazy is that I hated my mother, she was my abuser but down deep she was my mother and it pained me to watch her be treated that way. She stayed married to him until he was beating her and my brother took out a shotgun and made him leave.

You might ask “Why didn’t she just leave?” There are so many reasons women don’t leave, one is their children. How do you prepare to leave when you are watched like a hawk? How do you squirrel away enough money to live, relocate, move your kids out of school, and pay rent? It’s nearly impossible. One attitude the abuser takes is that they own the woman and they will go to any lengths to keep her. To get her to come back, the most common is the sweet personality change and wooing her back only to beat her more.

At the same time, they are beating a woman, they are also degrading her and some women think they deserve it over time which causes them to stay. Some women stay out of fear and others know they will be hunted down, some will have a child kidnapped or the abuser will call the police claiming she left with the kids and make up a wild story that the police have to check out.

I’ve met many women while blogging who were in violent relationships and saw what they went through to leave, the heartbreak after, and all the horrific acts towards them and each one was so traumatic you ask yourself, “How did they make it?” Each one is a survivor!

It’s important to know that men also have violent relationships. There can be shame involved and that is why many men don’t come forward but they are not forgotten. They are survivors as well and often carry a big burden by not seeking help or telling anyone.


How to Offer Support

  1. Get Resources – don’t be afraid to reach out and ask for help.
  2. Supporting Survivors – what to say and how to help
  3. Bystander Intervention – real-life examples to help prepare you to take action
Of course, if you see, hear, or suspect that someone is in immediate danger, call 911 immediately.
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This article by No More gives you examples of how to support someone who is in a domestic violence relationship.

Melinda

Reference:

https://www.nomore.org/know-the-facts/

 

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Blood Cancer Awareness Month 

My husband was diagnosed last year with Leukemia and it was a total shock to the system. He’s been healthy our entire 22-year marriage only having a cold a few times, this diagnosis rocked me hard. One blessing is that he has a team of doctors who he sees regularly and so far his cancer is growing very slowly. Skin Cancer can also pop up with Leukemia and he has been diagnosed with that as well. He goes every three months and usually has a new spot removed or scrapped and burned. Sunscreen is more important than ever but he hasn’t bought into that yet.

As scary as it was in the beginning, after educating ourselves and him seeing a doctor every three months we are more comfortable about where his health is at.

This Is Blood Cancer

Blood Cancer Awareness Month is a global event helping to raise awareness of one of the world’s most prevalent and dangerous cancers: blood cancer.

September turns red each year as the spotlight is put firmly on blood cancer and the impact it has on our communities and the urgent need for more action.

Raising awareness of blood cancer, its signs and symptoms, and its impact, will help to improve early diagnosis, encourage policymakers to prioritize the disease, as well as help everyone with blood cancer feel connected and heard.

 

Tricia Hernandez with the Leukemia Lymphoma Society says many blood cancers are treatable through chemotherapy, stem cell transplants, and surgery.

She says in Maine, nearly 900 people have been diagnosed with blood cancer this year.

“A person is diagnosed with a blood cancer approximately every three minutes. So, it’s quite a large number although a rare disease than other cancers. There are hundreds of thousands of people affected by this,” said Hernandez.

Major Types of Leukemia

The four major types of leukemia are:

CLL is one of the most common types of leukemia in adults. ALL is the most common type of leukemia in children.

Types of Lymphoma

Lymphomas begin in cells of the lymph system, which is a part of the immune system. Lymph tissue is found throughout the body. As a result, lymphoma can begin almost anywhere. The disease occurs in two types: Hodgkin and non-Hodgkin lymphomas.

Both types can occur in adults and children. An estimated 80,620 people in the United States will develop non-Hodgkin lymphoma in 2024, according to the NCI. Approximately 20,140 people will die from non-Hodgkin lymphoma. For Hodgkin lymphoma, 8,570 new cases and 910 deaths are estimated for 2024, according to the NCI.

FOR MORE INFORMATION

There are many different types of leukemia and lymphoma in adults and children. For more information on these different diseases, please see:

References:

https://bloodcancermonth.org

https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/other/nearly-2-million-americans-live-with-blood-cancer-september-marks-awareness-month/ar-AA1qPvUH?ocid=BingNewsSerp

September is Leukemia and Lymphoma Awareness Month

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Just Pondering

Hi, I’m glad you stopped by and I look forward to seeing you soon. 

If you had to make a decision in life that would change the quality of life in your future and potentially wipe out your savings, how would you approach it?

I’m praying and waiting for answers.

Melinda

 

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Fighting to save our lifeline of Glutathione, B12, and more

by Crystal A. Frost

AUG 23, 2024

The daily life of a Lyme warrior can be unpredictable and terrifying—whether it’s managing debilitating symptoms or navigating a healthcare system that rarely understands our needs.

So when my doctor told me in June, “Your Lyme treatments could be outlawed soon,” I knew another fight was on the horizon.

This time though, it wasn’t just about my health. It was about standing up for every patient in California who relies on glutathione therapy, NAD+, and methylcobalamin.

The California State Board of Pharmacy (BOP) is trying to take dozens of natural compounds away from us. But they’ve messed with the wrong Lyme patient, and I’m fighting back.

The master antioxidant

For those of us with neurological Lyme disease, treatments like glutathione and NAD+ aren’t just beneficial—they’re our lifeline. Glutathione, the master antioxidant, is depleted by many illnesses including Lyme, which is why replenishing it through infusions is effective for so many.

This compound protects immune cells and helps clear out harmful toxins, reducing oxidative stress. NAD+ supports cellular repair, giving us a fighting chance against relentless fatigue and brain fog. Methylcobalamin, the active form of vitamin B12, is crucial for nerve repair and cognitive function. These treatments are not luxuries. They’re essential.

The BOP’s proposed regulations would severely limit—and, in many cases, end—access to legal Category 1 sterile compounds on the FDA 503A bulks list. If these regulations pass, Lyme patients across California could lose access to treatments that make life bearable. The worst part? The BOP has not provided a single legal, scientific, or safety-based reason why California patients should be treated differently than those in the rest of the United States.

The moment that sparked the fight

When I first heard the news from my doctor, it knocked the wind out of me. I’m no stranger to fighting, but this is different; this is a fight with no explanation. The compounds on Category 1 have an excellent safety track record, which is why they have the green light from the FDA.

In fact, patients like me often turn to these alternative medicines when standard drug therapy fails. Why does California want to supersede the FDA and deprive sick patients of treatments that work? This regulatory board exists to protect us but is instead threatening our access to the very treatments that keep us alive.

Teaming up: the birth of “Stop The BOP”

I’m not alone in this fight. At the June 18 public hearing, I learned that Jacqui Jorgeson, founder of the Volunteer Fire Foundation in Sonoma, is facing a similar battle. Jacqui’s foundation co-administers a detoxification pilot program for firefighters who face severe toxic exposure in the line of duty.

Like many of us with Lyme, California firefighters under major oxidative stress have found incredible relief in nebulized and intravenous glutathione therapy. In fact, the results from Round 2 of the pilot study showed an 85.1% reduction in environmental toxins—a true testament to the effectiveness of glutathione therapy.

When Jacqui and I connected after hearing each other’s testimonies, it was clear we were fighting the same enemy: Board of Pharmacy overreach.

Together, we launched Stop The BOP, a movement to protect patient access to these vital treatments. We started with a petition in July, and it quickly gained traction, reaching 2,000 signatures in the first month.

As of August 22, our petition has over 2,600 signatures, and our movement is publicly backed by organizations like LymeDisease.org, the Center for Lyme Action and the California Naturopathic Doctors Association.

Why this fight is personal

Before falling ill in 2020, I was a recent PhD graduate, composing music and writing articles for the GRAMMYs. I was happily engaged to my now-husband, Bram.

But when Lyme disease took over my body, it sent us off course onto an unexpectedly dark path. My brain inflammation became so severe that I was paralyzed in my left leg and arm, barely able to walk for months. The brain fog was so thick I would forget my own phone number and my friends’ names. I experienced daily anaphylaxis and constant vertigo, and for a while, I thought this was the end.

But through it all, treatments with glutathione therapy, NAD+, and B12 have been my lifeline, allowing me to reclaim pieces of my life.

If these treatments are taken away, what happens to the thousands of patients just like me? What happens if the BOP succeeds in making California the only state where these compounds are inaccessible?

For many of us, losing access to these treatments would mean a return to those darkest days—days when hope felt like a distant memory.

The broader impact: beyond Lyme disease

It’s not just Lyme patients and firefighters who will be affected. Imagine you suffer from ME/CFS and that NAD+ has finally given you the energy required to return to work. Imagine you have pernicious anemia and methylcobalamin therapy has finally restored you to healthy B12 levels. Now imagine that relief being snatched away by a regulatory board that doesn’t seem to understand—or care—about the consequences.

That’s the reality we face. It’s why Jacqui and I are so determined to fight back. It’s why we’re asking the Lyme community to stand with us. This isn’t just about a few compounds—it’s about our right to access the treatments we need to live our lives.

What you can do

We’re not giving up, and we need your help. Here’s how you can join the fight:

Sign and share the petition: If you haven’t already, please add your name to our petition. Every signature counts.

Contact Your Representatives: We’ve made it easy with templates on our website. Your voice can make a difference.

Spread the Word: Share this blog post, tell your friends and family, and help us get the word out. The more people who know about this, the stronger our movement becomes.

Voice your opposition at the 9/12 board meeting: Anyone is welcome to join the September 12 meeting online via webex or in person in Sacramento. Information and access links will be available on stopthebop.com/actnow.

Join the movement: Sign up, learn more, or donate to the cause at stopthebop.com.

Stay Informed: Follow @stop.thebop and @volunteerfirefoundation on Instagram for updates on our progress and ways you can get involved.

The strength to fight

You don’t know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. For those of us with Lyme disease, that strength is something we’ve had to find over and over again. The California Board of Pharmacy might think they can push these regulations through without a fight, but they underestimate us. They underestimate the power of a community that knows what it means to fight for every ounce of health.

Together, we’re going to stop the BOP.

Follow us on Instagram @stop.thebop and @volunteerfirefoundation.

Crystal A. Frost is Southern California leader of Stop The BOP.

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This is indicative of what Lyme patients deal with on an ongoing basis. If a doctor can enhance your chances of recovery they don’t need an association board standing in their way. In this case, the add-ons aren’t expensive in the big scheme of things and can make all the difference for patients.

This happens because of the bias against Chronic Lyme Disease. The more doctors who deny that Chronic Lyme exists the government and insurance companies will refuse to pay for treatment. I don’t see this changing shortly because it’s all about money.

Melinda

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The Email Open Statistic Is Incorrect, Another Failure From WordPress

I have known for some time that the statistics provided by WordPress are not accurate and today it was cemented in my mind. When you publish a post it goes to each follower including those who subscribe to receive the post via email. The catch is that WordPress counts all of your posts as email which is the opposite of what the explanation of what the statistics are.

I have around 20-25 followers who receive my posts via email yet today I looked at a post from a few days ago and it showed 917 received my posts along with the number of email opens and unique opens, whatever that means. If you take the numbers at face value that means that out of close to 4K followers only 917 received the posts and that even fewer read the posts and fewer are commenting.

Commenting I understand, I don’t comment on every post I read but I have a hard time swallowing that the community has turned off receiving my posts. Maybe this is naive of me but when I see the level of long-time followers, new followers, comments, and the level of conversations I’m having with many people the number isn’t consistent.

This is no surprise, I have a long-time follower friend whose husband is a Statistical Engineer and he stated that the statistics on WordPress are inaccurate. This is not a rant, just an explanation for others who are perplexed with their statistics.

I’ve been blogging on WordPress for 24 years and have spent countless hours frustrated working with the Happiness Engineers to understand the issue I was having. Many, many years ago asking for help became futile and I gave up on contacting them. I did recently contact WordPress to let them know about the Bots that were enjoying my archives but as usual, I received no response. When I have a question now, I ask the community or go to Copilot for an explanation. Copilot has helped me understand what the statistics mean at a high level however the answers don’t apply to WordPress.

I hope this information helps others make sense out of what doesn’t make sense. :)

Melinda

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89% Of Blind Riders Are Being Denied A Ride By Lyft And Uber

I could not believe it when I heard on the national news that 89% of blind riders were being denied a ride by Lift and Uber. This looks like a driver issue with the service dogs and not wanting them in the vehicle. This behavior is against the law not to mention the company’s policies. The riders have a way to report a driver but those interviewed said nothing happened. One woman even recorded a driver refusing her a ride after she had already reported this behavior to Lyft. Rideshare companies are condoning this behavior and are accountable for the driver’s decisions. I’m sure there is a loophole in there that needs closing.

This type of behavior and failure to accommodate the blind is a Class Action lawsuit that is way overdue. I’m shocked no one has sued the companies for breaking the law and doing nothing when its customers report a driver. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not one to say jump on a lawsuit, quite the opposite but this is not a frivolous issue. If the ride-share companies refuse blind riders they need to lose any government contracts they may have and if cities have a choice to allow the rideshare company to do business in the city, they need to reverse the approval.

I know a few people who are blind and life is challenging enough and for their transportation to refuse them a ride is shameful. Apparently, it’s been happening for years but it’s not been in the media which is typical for the media, just feed us the same day after day instead of pressing the important issues.

I feel so strongly about the issue that I created a Change.org petition that I hope you will support by going to https://www.change.org/p/require-rideshare-services-to-accept-blind-riders-with-guide-dogs/share_for_starters?just_created=true and signing.

Copy of Petition

This petition is deeply personal because it strikes at the heart of disability discrimination, a struggle that blind individuals face daily. It’s both shocking and disheartening when a company that provides a critical service like transportation discriminates against individuals with disabilities, specifically those who rely on guide dogs. According to the American Foundation for the Blind, millions of people in the US are experiencing vision loss. And many of them, depend on guide dogs to navigate and live independently.

However, troubling instances have surfaced where these individuals are refused service by rideshare companies simply because of their guide dogs. This is not only inconvenient but also unlawful – the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) prohibits discrimination against individuals with disabilities in all areas of public life, and that includes transportation.

Apart from being illegal, such practices are inhumane and show a complete disregard for the rights and dignity of people living with disabilities. Furthermore, it contradicts the spirit of rideshare services which aim to provide convenient and accessible transportation for everyone. All this considered, it’s high time for all rideshare companies to commit to full accommodation for blind riders with guide dogs.

We cannot allow this blatant discrimination to continue. Together, we can change this. Please sign this petition to send a strong message across: Require Rideshare Services to Accept Blind Riders with Guide Dogs.

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My husband told me that once he signed the petition Change.org asked for a donation, a donation is not required. Change.org is a global organization that is free and as such they solicit donations. This is common but you are never required to donate or I would not work with them.

Melinda

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Things I’ve Learned In 61 Years Part Five

If your boss beats you down in front of others in a meeting, makes you the scapegoat, and never stands up for you, look for another job immediately. If you have the cash to float, give them the finger, you’re getting fired anyway.

If your department has been cut to the quick and you are forced over and over to cut, run like hell. You’re next.

If the President of your company beats you down in a meeting with your peers and gives a directive to your boss regarding your department, give them the finger and run like hell.

Even if you are on a salary that doesn’t mean you’re available 24/7 to take calls. If they are a top-level executive, they made the decision to marry their job, other employees are not paid the same, and should not be expected to be available you your beck and call.

If you schedule time off work and are expected to work, cancel the PTO day. Why lose pay when you’re working.

When you actually get to take a day off, don’t answer your phone, period. Nothing is so important that your boss can’t take care of, if so then let them fall on their face.

If you walk and push your baby stroller in my grass instead of the sidewalk, you might find a few big surprises next time.

If you let your shrubs grow in my yard, I will trim them myself. Tall trees are different, I will let you know when it’s time to call the tree company for a trim. I have one clueless neighbor. One year the city wrote them fines for their trees growing too far into the street. He had let them grow for years and when the tree guy came out, they cut a ton off and butchered the trees. That’s what you get when you use the lawn guy to cut trees.

The way to trim a tree if you are getting too much shade is not to cut the top of the tree off. You might as well chop it down. And don’t forget to have the stumps removed, they are unsightly and if you can’t afford to remove the stump, how can you afford to buy the house. It brings down the value of your neighbor’s houses.

If you have trees in your yard, learn how to take care of them and have them trimmed by professionals. The money spent will come back when you sell the house.

If you are treated unacceptably write the corporate headquarters, send the letter to the CEO and any other executives you think are responsible for the department which you received the treatment from. Don’t send an email, write an actual letter on the computer or by hand and mail it to each one. They will be shocked to receive a letter and you will already have their attention. That doesn’t guarantee a response back but no doubt the issue will get looked into. The first thing to remember is to cool your temper first, spend a few days drafting the letter, and take a look inside, ask yourself, are you the problem or is it the companies? Don’t write the letter in a negative tone, instead write to inform them of an issue or issues that you believe need their attention.

If your pharmacy fills a prescription you didn’t need or fills it incorrectly, don’t accept it and make them put it back on the shelf or correct it. It doesn’t matter if the prescription is free or not, they still make money if you accept it.

If your pharmacy regularly tells you the wrong answer, get in the habit of writing down the name of the person you are talking to. My pharmacy is famous for this behavior. Pharmacists have too much power and at least at my location they interpret the law and rules differently.

It’s important to know how your pharmacy fills prescriptions. Do they refill on the date it was filed or the date it was picked up? They are very different and if they don’t use a solid process, you may have to run to the pharmacy today because you’re out.

If your partner or friends interrupt you before saying the second sentence or make a comment that isn’t relative it is frustrating but not worth fighting over because they will not change. 

If you work for a Japanese company that has a facility in America, they expect you to have a Japanese work ethic which is work long after your boss calls it a day, work when you are off work, and have late-night meetings to accommodate the time frame difference every week, they will distrust you and will always believe whatever a Japanese employee says before you. You also have to be available 24/7 and it’s a tick against you if you’re not. If you far exceed the American work ethic but your work ethic isn’t up to Japanese standards you’re considered a slacker. 

Using a company’s reward perks can pay off if they have a good program. Amazon where I shop for almost everything has a Subscribe & Save program. If you know you buy an item at the same time every month, subscribe and save money. Sometimes it’s 5% and others it’s 15%. I’m learning to take advantage of these savings and it’s reassuring to know you can change or cancel anytime.

Melinda

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Has The Reader Button Disappeared From Your Page

Yesterday I noticed the button to reach Reader was missing, this morning I looked everywhere including places I knew it would not be. Has this happened to you as well? I know WordPress is a a mess to work with and this is probably another one of their issues that will correct itself at some point. If nothing else I want to make sure it’s not just me or a possible issue with my browser software.

I appreciate all relies. :)

Melinda