A lot of everyday tasks benefit from a combination of relaxation and focus. Driving is possibly the most obvious example of this. At a minimum, getting this balance right can help to avoid negative consequences. For example, you won’t have to file a car accident claim. At best, it can really boost your performance. With that in mind, here are three tips to help.

Clear your mind before you begin

What this means in practice will depend on the situation. Ideally, you’ll resolve any troubling issues before you begin your task. In the real world, sadly, that’s not always going to be possible. What you can do, however, is offload them and commit to dealing with them later.

What this means in practice will depend on you. For example, you might get the most release from just speaking your thoughts into a voice recorder (most cellphones have one). Alternatively, you may prefer offloading your thoughts onto paper. This doesn’t have to mean writing. It can also mean drawing or doodling.

This may be enough to clear the mental/emotional block from your system. If it doesn’t, however, remember to commit to addressing it later.

Make sure you’ve taken care of your body

If you want to achieve and maintain relaxed focus, then your body needs to support that. For example, you want to be comfortably full and properly hydrated. Be aware that even milder chemicals may disrupt either your relaxation or concentration. Alcohol and caffeine are obvious culprits here.

Be aware that medication (or withdrawal from medication) can also cause issues. If it does, try speaking to your doctor. They may be able to switch your medication or give advice on how to minimize the effects of withdrawal from it.

Another important point to note is that temperature can play a huge role in your ability to achieve and maintain relaxed focus. Ideally, you should control the ambient temperature to keep it pleasant. You may, however, find it useful to have a way to add extra heating/cooling where and when you need it.

Get the right stimulation

The right stimulation keeps you relaxed but helps you to maintain alertness. Most tasks require you to use your eyes and hands. That leaves your ears, nose, and mouth potentially free. Audio stimulation can be massively helpful. You do, however, need to be slightly careful with it.

Firstly, spoken-word audio, including songs, can overload your brain. When you need to focus, it’s often better to stick to music without lyrics or even just ambient sounds. Secondly, you need to think about your hearing. If you listen to the audio a lot, invest in a quality pair of headphones. Ideally, use ones that go over the ear.

Stimulating your sense of smell can have a very powerful effect on your mind. One useful point to note, however, is that the effect of a scent becomes less powerful over time. This isn’t just the scent fading, it’s the brain tuning it out. You can, however, use different scents to keep your brain engaged.

Last but not least, remember the power of taste. Some foods can also help to get your brain moving. Citrus fruits and mints are often particularly good for this.

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Mental health includes your psychological and social well-being. It also encompasses your emotional health, which refers to your ability to name, address, and regulate your emotions.

You might notice discussions about mental health online, in conversation with family or friends, on your favorite show, or in any number of other places.

But what exactly is mental health?

“Mental health is about the functionality of your brain and all that impacts it,” said Oludara Adeeyo, a psychiatric social worker and author of “Self-Care for Black Women.”

Many factors play a part in mental health, some of which you can’t control, such as genetics, life experiences, and family history.

But you do have influence over other important aspects of your mental health, noted KC Davis, a licensed professional counselor and author of “How To Keep House While Drowning.”

Your ability to influence your mental health is key because the state of your mental health matters.

What makes mental health so important?

Mental health helps determine how you handle stress, relate to others, and make choices, explained Alison Seponara, a licensed professional counselor and author of the book “The Anxiety Healer’s Guide.”

Seponara goes on to say that caring for your mental health can lead to:

• improved mood
• reduced anxiety
• clearer thinking
• deeper relationships
• improved self-esteem, self-worth, and confidence

Nurturing your mental health can also help you manage health conditions that are worsened by stress, like heart disease, said Seponara.

Your mental health can impact everything about your life, Adeeyo said, including the ways you view and move through the world and your ability to handle the things life throws at you.

That’s why building habits for better mental health can make a big difference in your day-to-day life. 

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As you explore new behaviors and begin incorporating them into your routine, aim to frame these changes as self-kindness, not self-punishment. Maintaining a gentle, kind attitude toward yourself can do a lot more to improve your mental health and overall outlook than criticism and negative self-talk. 

“Work on your mental health from a place of care,” Davis recommended.

Not sure where to start? You’ll find 8 strategies to promote improved mental health below, along with some guidance on seeking professional support.

Get restful sleep

Sleep isn’t just a nonnegotiable for physical health. It also plays an essential role in mental health.

The American Psychological Association reported in 2023 that sleep deprivation makes people less happy and more anxious.

The quality of your sleep matters, too. Disrupted sleep can contribute to mental health symptoms.

To get enough high quality sleep, try starting with these habits:

• Avoid caffeine after 3 p.m.
• Try to wake up and go to sleep at the same time every day.
• Make your bedroom into a quiet, relaxing, clutter-free space.
• Aim to keep the temperature in your bedroom somewhere between 60°F and 65°F (16°C to 18°C).

Healthy sleep habits can be harder to build on your own if you have a sleep disorder. 

If you think your sleeping issues may relate to a sleep condition, a sleep specialist can offer more information about helpful evidence-based treatments, like cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia.

Mental health concerns can also lead to poor sleep, which means changes to your sleep environment and nighttime routine might not make a lasting difference. If you don’t notice much improvement after trying these strategies, connecting with a therapist may be a helpful next step.

Cut back on social media

“Constantly consuming information about other people’s lives may cause someone to compare themselves and promote feelings of low self-worth, which increases feelings of anxiety and depression,” said Adeeyo.

To spend less time on social media, try to:

• keep your phone in a drawer or outside your bedroom while you’re in bed
• make a list of other, more meaningful activities to replace your usual scrolling sessions
• turn off notifications or delete social apps from your phone

Strengthen your relationships

Humans are social creatures, and strong relationships can have a positive influence on your mental health in various ways. 

Friendships, for example, can:

• ease feelings of loneliness
• make it easier to get emotional support 
• add meaning to your life

You have plenty of options for cultivating positive connections and nurturing your friendships: 

• Keep in touch by checking in regularly, even with just a quick text or funny meme.
• Meet up for a morning walk or breakfast.
• Call for a short chat during your lunch break. 
• Schedule biweekly or monthly dinner dates. 

Move your body on your own terms

Exercise offers a range of mental health benefits, including:

• relieving stress
• lifting mood
• helping you fall asleep faster and sleep longer
• helping you manage symptoms of depression and anxiety conditions

Movement can involve something different for every person, and it doesn’t have to mean going to the gym if that’s not your thing. Instead, make movement enjoyable for you by opting for physical activities that work best for your body, health, and preferences.

To get started, experiment with a range of physical activities, and keep doing the ones that resonate with you.

Enjoyable movement could include: 

• joining a running or walking club
• taking a slower-paced restorative yoga class
• trying seated exercises
• throwing a dance party
• taking stretching breaks every hour
• gardening or doing other work in your backyard
• going on a weekend family hike or walk along the beach

In other words, you don’t have to do a vigorous workout to support mental wellness.

“Taking a few minutes to stretch can make a huge difference for your overall mental health. Stretching will help with blood flow and get more oxygen through your body, which can help you feel more relaxed and happy,” said Christopher S. Taylor, PhD, LPC-S, founder of Taylor Counseling Group, author of “My Digital Practice,” and host of the “For Self-Examination” podcast.

Savor nutrient-rich foods

Certain foods can also affect your mental health. To support improved mental health, try expanding your current diet to include foods packed with mood-boosting nutrients like: 

• berries
• bananas
• beans
• whole grains
• fatty fish, like salmon

It can also help to simply make sure you fuel your body every day — eating something is better than eating nothing.

Drinking plenty of water throughout the day is also beneficial. 

“When you’re dehydrated, you’re denying your brain and body the nutrients needed to survive and operate at a more optimal level,” Adeeyo noted.

Certain foods, namely alcohol, caffeine, refined carbs, and added sugars, may worsen anxiety symptoms. Limiting these foods could help ease some of your symptoms.

Know when to take it easy

On difficult days, you might find it tough to do any of the above, which might make you feel even worse. 

At times like these, Davis encouraged turning to compassionate, more accessible strategies, like:

• giving yourself permission to stay in and rest
• engaging in breath work even if it’s just for a few minutes
• taking a bath or a long, hot shower
• buying a nutritious prepackaged meal when cooking anything feels close to impossible

A similar approach you can try? Commit to taking one small step every day. 

“Whether it’s making your bed, drinking one glass of water in the morning, or writing in a journal, making this daily promise to yourself will help to eventually become a habit, and you will begin to feel empowered,” Seponara explained.

Make time for rest

While what constitutes “rest” may vary from person to person, it generally means giving your mind and body the opportunity to unwind and restore. 

Rosie Acosta, meditation and yoga teacher and author of the book “You Are Radically Loved,” suggested trying yoga Nidra, a sleep-based meditation.

She recommended the following steps:

1. Lie on your back with your hands by your sides. Spread your feet apart — the distance of your hips, or a bit wider.
2. Think of being relaxed, yet present. You feel calm, but still aware. 
3. Bring your attention to your physical body and then to your breath.
4. On an inhale, imagine a slow-moving wave entering from the soles of your feet and traveling to the crown of your head. 
5. On the exhale, visualize a slow-moving wave traveling from the crown of your head back down to the soles of your feet.
6. Feel your body become heavy, and stay with this relaxed present awareness for 10 to 30 minutes.

If you only have a few minutes to relax, Acosta suggested these quick restorative practices:

1. Put both hands over your heart, close your eyes, and take several deep breaths, feeling the warmth and comfort of your touch.
2. Breathe in for 2 counts and breathe out for 4 counts for 12 cycles.

Get some sunshine

“The sun is a great source of vitamin D, and studiesTrusted Source show it can improve attitude and mood,” said Taylor.

Your outdoor time doesn’t have to be long, either. As Taylor noted, “Five minutes of blue skies can do your mind and your heart some real good.”

If you have several minutes, Taylor recommended:

• taking a quick walk
• sitting in your backyard, on your balcony, or at a local green space
• standing outside breathing in the fresh air
• opening a window near your desk, if possible
• taking a work meeting outside, if you can 
• eating lunch at a nearby park
• exercising outdoors or engaging in another physical activity outside, like gardening or stretching

When to reach out

The strategies above can help improve mental well-being, but they can’t “cure” any mental health conditions. 

To put it another way, making changes in your habits may not always relieve persistent mental distress. Working with a therapist, however, can be a particularly powerful way to improve mental health. 

You can consider professional support at any time. You don’t need to have depression, anxiety, or any specific mental health symptoms to benefit from therapy.

That said, reaching out becomes particularly important if you:

• have experienced a stressful or traumatic event
• feel more upset, anxious, or sad than usual
• frequently feel agitated, irritable, or angry
• have had a decrease in motivation
• have noticed changes in your appetite and sleep patterns
• often find it difficult to get through the day
• feel stuck or overwhelmed
• rely on alcohol or other substances more than usual or turn to harmful coping behaviors

The takeaway

Your mental health plays a key role in your quality of life. Many of the factors that can affect mental health remain beyond your control, but adding beneficial habits to your days can promote greater wellness.

Just know that when it comes to adopting new habits, it’s generally more helpful to start with only one or two at a time, instead of a complete overhaul. Then, check in with yourself to take stock of how those changes helped.

Melinda

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