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January Writing Prompts

The Chronic Illness Writing Prompts are hosted each month by Sheryl at A Chronic Voice, please check out her awesome website and helpful archives.

This month prompts are:

RECUPERATING

REVERSING

DAWNING

MAPPING

DEFINING

I’ve chosen Recuperating, Mapping, and Defining as my three this month.

 

I’m recuperating and dealing with lingering issues with swollen salivary glands. I don’t have symptoms of a blockage or stone so I skipped the scan. There are other illnesses that can cause swelling of the glands and I hope to know more when I see a new Rheumatologist in march. I don’t want to be a hypochondriac or self diagnose but do know that Lupus can cause this problem. I’ve been tested for Lupus twice before and came back negative. This time I have many more symptoms and we’ll see how her test turns out. There are other illnesses besides Lupus so the test may surprise me. 

This new doctor is promising! She takes 1-4 hours on your initial appointment, who does that? It could take a year or more to get that much face time with a doctor. I’m hopeful this is a sign of how thorough and knowledgeable they are. 

I’ll let you know in March. In the meantime, I’m dealing with tender glands and lots of fatigue. 

2022 is all about coming to terms with the fact that this is the new normal and how to navigate life with a chronic illness thru an ongoing Pandemic. I went two years without going to the dentist for teeth cleaning, I can’t do that moving forward. I have to keep my appointments in order to stay as healthy as possible. I won’t be going out to eat or socializing with a group of people but do plan to get out more. 

I’m getting braces this year, Invsilines and I’m so excited. I had braces as a teen and thank goodness they are very different today. My teeth have changed over the past ten years and though I don’t have to get them I’m doing it for self-love. 

Me and My Pony

A moment of true joy as a child on my birthday. 

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Ways to Get More Self Care into Your Life

Ensuring that you are getting the right level of self-care is essential to your overall sense of happiness and well-being. By doing this, not only will you enhance your quality of life, but you will enhance the quality of life for the apple who are closest to you. No one needs you to be on top form more than your partner and family. The truth is you should not feel guilty about devoting some time to your care. This is because your health, both mental and physical, should be your top priority. 

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Minimalism

Minimalism is about adopting a new approach to life that will enable you to cut out all the things that are no longer of any value. A lot of people keep things around, objects, people, activities, etc., when they are well past their sell-by date. You may feel that this is positive, but actually, it is extremely negative. Not only does it fill up your time with things that no longer serve you, but it can actually bring you down too. If you are ready to embrace a minimalist lifestyle, start with decluttering. Decluttering is such a great way to physically remove objects from your life that are no longer relevant, cause you stress, and keep you tied to a point in the past. After you have got rid of all the useless objects in your life, then you can begin to remove the mental, emotional, and other ties. Freeing yourself from these stresses is essential for your well-being and helps you focus on your self-care.

Exercise

If you don’t already have an exercise regime, then it really is time you started one. Most people know that exercising is good for our bodies. It can help prevent illness and disease and keep the pounds off. It is also essential for your mental health too. Exercise can actually make your brain happier. It does this by naturally increasing the levels of dopamine and serotonin in the brain. Main antidepressants actually work but help the brain hold on to serotonin. But natural is a far better approach as it has other benefits too which are much more reaching. Exercise can also reduce the amount of stress you feel by targeting the cortisol in the body and getting rid of it. Cortisol is known as the stress hormone. Not only that but exercise makes you look physically more attractive by reducing fat and making your skin shine. 

Don’t Deny Yourself

A lot of people may feel that they have to neglect themselves and go last in everything, especially if they have a family. Although this is clearly true n some cases, it is not always true. You need to show yourself that you care. One way to do this is to treat yourself. A new handbag or pretty top every once in a while isn’t going to hurt anyone. Or maybe you need something more intensive like dental implants. Whatever it is that will enhance your well-being as long as it is within reason, go for it., 

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda

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#Weekend Music Share *Aerosmith – Sweet Emotion (Live)

 

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Preparing To Travel: What Do You Need To Think About

There are a number of things you need to know before embarking on a travel adventure. For many people, going on a trip is something they’ve always wanted to do, but it’s not something you can simply just start without any preparation. You need to do a lot of planning and research, and you also need to learn how to control your expectations. Because every location and journey is unique, it’s important to brush up on the essentials before you go; read on to find out more. 

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Saving Money 

If you want to spend less money when traveling, you need to learn how to save money. There are a lot of things that might add up if you approach your adventure like a typical vacation, so it’s vital to spend some time thinking about what’s most important to you. To save money, you may have to give up staying in posh hotels and dining out every night.

Reducing the amount of luggage you bring, learning how to get inexpensive flights, and even traveling in the off-season can all help you save money when you travel. When you’re planning a trip, it’s a good idea to look for ways to save money and tailor your trip accordingly. 

Pack Carefully 

What you can and cannot do while you’re gone will be dictated by how you pack, so prepare accordingly. Of course, if you’re just going to stay in one hotel, it doesn’t hurt to bring a few extra things with you since you won’t be dragging them around from place to place. If, on the other hand, you want to travel, you’ll want to learn to pack light since you don’t want to be carrying heavy baggage from place to place and run the risk of losing things on the way.

It’s difficult to pack lightly if you’ve never done it before, but a general guideline is to bring just what you need, bearing in mind that you can purchase some items at your destination if you really need to. Check that you have adequate room for your crucial papers and gadgets that you will need while you are there. You’ll most likely need your phone, a power bank, a camera, and a travel adapter to charge all of your electronics. If you’re planning on camping or hiking, you’ll also need your specialist equipment from ECOGEAR FX

Important Documents 

Depending on where you’re going and the country you’re coming from, you’ll require a different set of paperwork. You may be required to travel with a certain passport and a visa in some cases. If you don’t do your homework in advance, your trip will be a disaster; you might not even get to go in the first place. You should always double-check your understanding of the requirements before proceeding so you aren’t disappointed and don’t lose a lot of money. 

Also, it’s a good idea to keep a copy of your papers in a separate location just in case. On top of this, always have all your passport information and additional passport photos with you on any trip. This could save you a lot of trouble if yours goes missing. Having a backup plan in case you lose your passport while traveling might make things a lot less stressful.

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda

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Happy Birthday Granny

You would be celebrating your 101st birthday today if God hadn’t called you home at 85 years old. Boy, what life you had. From being born very poor, to losing your father at nine years old, being a single parent with a newborn baby, raising my father single-handled until he was 10 years old and burying your son. 

One of the most important lessons life taught you at a young age is to appreciate what you have and to work hard for what you want. You passed those lessons on to me and they are my foundation. 

You were shy, not easy to get to know, and liked to be home. You didn’t need things or places to make you happy as long as you had Gramps. I’ve never seen someone love another so much as you two loved each other, every day until the end. 

You saved all the cards Gramps bought you over the years, he didn’t know and one day we were cleaning out a cabinet and there they were. He melted, his blue eyes were shining so bright. 

You were my backbone, you loved me when my mother didn’t. You raised me, worked hard to provide a better life than you had, and taught me lessons that helped me in life.

I’ve never known the unconditional love of another like yours.

I miss you every day and have so many great memories of our time together. Like when I was three years old and you were teaching me how to do laundry and I had my sunglasses on and dropped them in the washer. I just knew they were ruined. As I got a little older you put my little step stool by the sink next to you and I would rinse the dishes and put them to drain, as you cleaned the stove I would dry. 

As I grew older, you knew what I was doing on weekends, so you went behind Gramps back and would tell me not to take any medicine if it might interfere with alcohol.

You let me make my own decisions and let me deal with the consequences. When I said I wanted to get married at 18 years old, you approved. When I divorced at 19 years old you told me life was hard. 

Thank you for every lesson and every day we had together, I would not be the person I am today without your love and support. 

HUGS

Melinda

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Introducing plant based foods — Guest Blogger Happy Healthy Me – a Journey

‘The most ethical diet just so happens to be the most environmentally sound diet and just so happens to be the healthiest’ – Dr Michael Gregor If you are thinking about introducing more plant based foods into your diet for health, ethical or environmental reasons, there are some really easy ways to start. Don’t be […]

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Let’s Celebrate Martin Luther King Day

On January 15, 1929, Martin Luther King Jr. is born in Atlanta, Georgia, the son of a Baptist minister. King received a doctorate degree in theology and in 1955 helped organize the first major protest of the African American civil rights movement: the successful Montgomery Bus Boycott. Influenced by Mohandas Gandhi, he advocated civil disobedience and nonviolent resistance to segregation in the South. The peaceful protests he led throughout the American South were often met with violence, but King and his followers persisted, and the movement gained momentum.

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Here are some of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther King Jr.

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”
“The time is always right to do what is right.”
“Be a bush if you can’t be a tree. If you can’t be a highway, just be a trail. If you can’t be a sun, be a star. For it isn’t by size that you win or fail. Be the best of whatever you are.”
“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’”

I like the last two the best, they really get down to the point of life.

Martin Luther King Jr. was a good man, a man of God who sought change without violence.

Melinda

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It’s My Fake Birthday

I always use a fake birthday when filling out forms on the Internet, just one less piece of info some stranger has on me. January 19th is my fake birthday, actually, it’s my granny’s birthday and I’ve set up a fundraiser. I’ve never done this before on Facebook and don’t know if anyone will donate but I’m putting it out there.

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I’ve chosen the ASPCA to receive all the funds directly and Facebook administers the process.

A little about the ASPCA

From rescue to recovery to adoption, the ASPCA is there for animals every step of the way. We pride ourselves in not just saving lives, but in changing them for the better—and none of it would be possible without the support of people like you. When you donate to the ASPCA today, you can help us continue to fight for animals on all fronts. Please make a gift right now. www.aspca.org

Based in New York, New York

Learn more at Guidestar.org

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Thank you from the bottom of my heart and the animals in need thank you. This time of year is especially hard on animals.

Melinda

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Some Facts about Trauma — Guest Blogger Don’t Lose Hope

Originally posted on Don’t Lose Hope : “You can be healing and feel broken at the same time. Healing isn’t a destination we reach where we’re perfect and at peace all the time. Healing is a journey which involves accepting and embracing ourselves as we break, as we heal, and as we reconstruct.” Najwa Zebian…

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Today in History January 16, 2022

Welcome to the Weekend Edition of Today in History. I’m so glad you’re enjoying the post. Have an awesome weekend.

1929

Martin Luther King Jr. born

On January 15, 1929, Martin Luther King Jr. is born in Atlanta, Georgia, the son of a Baptist minister. King received a doctorate degree in theology and in 1955 helped organize the first major protest of the African American civil rights movement: the successful Montgomery Bus Boycott. Influenced by Mohandas Gandhi, he advocated civil disobedience and nonviolent resistance to segregation in the South. The peaceful protests he led throughout the American South were often met with violence, but King and his followers persisted, and the movement gained momentum.

1919

Great Boston Molasses Flood

Fiery hot molasses floods the streets of Boston on January 15, 1919, killing 21 people and injuring scores of others. The molasses burst from a huge tank at the United States Industrial Alcohol C

2009

Pilot Sully Sullenberger performs “Miracle on the Hudson”

On January 15, 2009, a potential disaster turned into a heroic display of skill and composure when Captain Chesley Burnett Sullenberger III safely landed the plane he was piloting on New York City’s Hudson River after a bird strike caused its engines to fail. David Paterson, …read more

1559

Elizabeth I crowned Queen of England

Two months after the death of her half-sister, Queen Mary I of England, Elizabeth Tudor, the 25-year-old daughter of Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn, is crowned Queen Elizabeth I at Westminster Abbey in London. The two half-sisters, both daughters of Henry VIII, had a stormy …read more

1831

“The Hunchback of Notre Dame” is finished

On January 15, 1831, Victor Hugo finishes writing Notre Dame de Paris, also known as The Hunchback of Notre Dame. Distracted by other projects, Hugo had continually postponed his deadlines for delivering the book to his publishers, but once he sat down to write it, he completed …read more

 

Melinda

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National Bagel Day

National Bagel Day is January 15. Bagels have a history that is richer than your favorite cream cheese spread! These rounds of dough can be found just about anywhere: breakfast joints, coffee shops, supermarkets, or even your kitchen pantry. In fact, 2018 saw more than 354 million bagels sold.

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Bagels have a long and highly documented history that travels from the Jewish families of Poland in the 1600s to wrapped up in parchment paper in your hands today. And, unlike many things created nearly five-hundred years ago, bagels are remarkably unchanged. Sure, cream cheeses and butters and flavors and toppings may have evolved over time but bagel is a beigel is a beygal. 

Bagels made the jump to America with a massive Polish-Jewish immigration in the 1800s that firmly entrenched itself in New York City where it thrived. In fact, an entire union was created in the early 1900s called Bagel Bakers Local 338 to support the growing, immigrant-led industry. That also begat the “bagel brunch,” that we still enjoy to this day with little to no changes: lox, cream cheese, capers, tomatoes, and red onions. 

While bagels were hugely popular in New York City almost immediately, they didn’t make their way to the national scale until the mid 20th-century where automation and bread slicing (the coolest thing!) made mass manufacturing much more efficient. Since then, bagels have taken off to include a variety of flours, toppings, dips and smears but still remain – by and large – exactly as they were in the 1600s. 

Who knew bagels had been around so long?

I love bagels by themselves in blueberrry, chocolate and cinnamon rasin flavors. I also love bagel samwiches.

I hope you celebrate the day with your choice of bagel.

Melinda

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Fun Facts That Will Amaze You

I’m so glad you are enjoying Fun Facts. I learn something new each week, even if it’s weird. I love hearing your comments! 

Flamingoes are only pink because of chemicals called carotenoids in the algae and fish (which also eat the algae) they eat; their feathers are grayish white when they’re born.

 Mosquitoes are the deadliest animal in the world: They kill more people than any other creature, due to the diseases they carry. (cdc.gov)

What do Miss Piggy and Yoda have in common? They were both voiced by the same person, puppeteer Frank Oz.

 Psycho was the first movie to show a toilet flushing. (npr.com)

One of the most famous movie lines in history was never said. We often quote, “Play it again, Sam,” from Casablanca; but the real line is, “Play it, Sam. Play ‘As Time Goes By.’” 

Enjoy! 

Melinda

 

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#Weekend Music Share *Edie Brickell & New Bohemians – What I Am 

 

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Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Melinda

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Everyday Magic

 

Bella and Grace by Stampington

Everyone needs a home team, a group of people who cheer you on and always have your back. 

Who’s on your home team?

 

Enjoy your day! 

 Melinda

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How To Grow Older But Feel Younger

Imagine if the older you got, the younger you felt. 

It sounds like an impossibility. In the West, we believe that as the body ages, so too does the mind. 

But is that true? Of course, not. In this post, we take a look at some of the ways that you can keep yourself young on the inside. Check them out below. 

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Keep Your Romance Alive

Human beings without love generally go mad. If it’s not in our lives, we can’t cope. That’s why it is so important to keep the love alive in your relationships, whether romantic or otherwise. If you can keep the spark going between you and others, you’ll feel younger – perhaps like you did when you were a teenager. 

Get Traveling

Another way to stay young is to start traveling. Going overseas and seeing new things reminds you that life is an adventure and that there are always new things to see and do. 

When you go to new places, it makes you feel like you’re young again because it introduces you to a new experience. When you visit a new place, you get all the smells, sights, and sounds that come with it. And these affect you both consciously and unconsciously. 

Have you noticed how much better you feel after you get back from a vacation? It’s all to do with how it rewires your brain. 

Join A Community

Being part of a community is essential for feeling younger. You’re less isolated and can share your thoughts and ideas with other people. 

The best retirement community organizations facilitate interactions between members. They make sure that there are always group activities to enjoy, no matter what your physical condition or medical needs. 

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Get Active

Being active reminds your body that the game isn’t over yet. There’s still plenty to do. It sends a signal to all your cells that they need to keep on fighting and make themselves stronger. 

When you get more active, you soon discover a new sense of wellbeing and energy. Remember, the amount of energy that you have isn’t a finite stock. Instead, you create more energy, the more you do. 

Exercise is also a great way to fight many of the diseases of aging that can make you feel older. It helps to stave off heart disease, diabetes, stroke, and even cancer. What’s more, it can be an important part of pain management, helping you deal with many of the challenges that you face. 

Spend Time Appreciating Nature

As you get older, you should strive to spend as much time in nature as you can. Sunlight encourages the production of the feel-good factor, serotonin, which helps the body to relax and may even keep you young. 

The sights, sounds, and smells of nature are also intrinsically relaxing. Basking in them can help reduce stress and fatigue, particularly if you’ve had a long week. 

Conclusion

In summary, it is possible to grow older on the outside, but feel younger on the inside. It’s all about reconnecting with the playfulness of your child’s self.

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda

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Today in History January 9, 2022

Welcome to the Weekend Edition of Today in History. I’m so glad you’re enjoying the post. Have an awesome weekend.

2001

Apple launches iTunes, revolutionizing how people consume music

On January 9, 2001, Apple launches iTunes, a media player that revolutionized the way people consumed digital media. Bill Kincaid and Jeff Robbin, two former Apple employees, developed an MP3 player called SoundJam MP in the late 1990s. In 2000, Apple re-hired them and their …read more

2007

Steve Jobs debuts the iPhone

On January 9, 2007, Apple Inc. CEO Steve Jobs unveils the iPhone—a touchscreen mobile phone with an iPod, camera and Web-browsing capabilities, among other features—at the Macworld convention in San Francisco. Jobs, dressed in his customary jeans and black mock turtleneck, called …read more

1768

First modern circus is staged

Englishman Philip Astley stages the first modern circus in London. Trick riders, acrobats, clowns, trained animals, and other familiar components of the circus have existed throughout recorded history, but it was not until the late 18th century that the modern spectacle of the …read more

1972

Los Angeles Lakers’ record winning streak ends

On January, 9, 1972, the longest winning streak in major professional sports is snapped at 33 games when the Milwaukee Bucks beat the Los Angeles Lakers, 120-104. A 39-point performance by the Bucks’ Kareem Abdul-Jabbar hands the Lakers their first loss since October 31. …read more

1976

Sylvester Stallone starts filming “Rocky”

The classic rags-to-riches story got a macho spin in the Oscar-winning Rocky, which was written by its star, Sylvester Stallone, and began filming on January 9, 1976. Stallone had his own rags-to-riches tale: Born in the gritty Hell’s Kitchen neighborhood of New York City, he was …read more

Melinda

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Fun Facts That Will Amaze You

I’m so glad you are enjoying Fun Facts. I learn something new each week, even if it’s weird. I love hearing your comments! 

Cows don’t actually have four stomachs; they have one stomach with four compartments. (fda.gov)

The platypus doesn’t have a stomach at all: Their esophagus goes straight to their intestines. (nationalgeographic.com)

This is one animal myth that’s true: Eating parts of a pufferfish can kill you because, in a defense mechanism to ward off predators, it contains a deadly chemical called tetrodotoxin. There’s enough in one pufferfish to kill 30 people—and there’s no antidote. Still, pufferfish, called fugu, is a highly-prized delicacy in Japan, but can only be prepared by well-trained chefs. (nationalgeographic.com)

Polar bears have black skin. And actually, their fur isn’t white—it’s see-through, so it appears white as it reflects light.

Tigers’ skin is actually striped, just like their fur. Also, no two fur patterns are alike.

Enjoy! 

Melinda

 

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#Weekend Music Share *Next Year by Macklemore

I am considering discontinuing Weekend Music Share due to concerns that people aren’t clicking on the links to go to YouTube out of concern for clicking on a link. YouTube no longer includes a photo of the video on most songs anymore and so what you get is a link or a big black box with a go-to YouTube to watch graphic.

 

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Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

Melinda

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Simple Ways To Live A Healthier Life

There are mornings where you may be waking up feeling sluggish, or there are instances where you’ve prioritized taking caffeinated beverages because they are helping you power through the day. If the two sound familiar, you should consider ditching some of the quick fixes you rely on and start developing some energy management plans. You may have a hard time getting started, but when on it, you will get energized so you can keep going, especially when you reap the benefits of having a happier, productive, and healthier lifestyle.

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Have Good Thought For Others

When you maintain a compassionate mindset, it can be one of the ways of conserving energy. Having kind attention can help practice good thoughts for other people. For example, when talking with your friends, try wishing them well and avoid being too harsh on them. Showing a positive act can keep you from being judgemental. When you start judging other people, it may make you judge yourself, and having negative dialogues can be exhausting.

Take Care Of Your Teeth

It’s vital to take proper care of your teeth because you only get one set of adult teeth. There are things you need to do daily, like brushing your teeth and seeing your local dentist at regular intervals throughout the year. When you do this, you will not only protect yourself against losing teeth and wearing dentures. Since gum diseases are linked to strokes and diabetes, they can prevent serious illnesses.

Try Yoga

Some poses may help increase flexibility and strength and improve balance when doing Yoga. These can be regarded as critical areas, especially for older people, as everyone can benefit from them.

Quit Smoking

If you’re finding a hard time quitting smoking, then you can start by setting a date for quitting. If possible, plan with your friends so that you can have a friend quit smoking and pick the appropriate day within the next month. Picking a date too far off in the future may make you postpone, and choosing a nearby date will make your plan for medication and look for a support system.

Also, try asking yourself why and when you smoke and replace the time with doing other things like taking a cup of coffee. You can also change your smoking routine, start thinking about how you feel the moment you’re smoking, and look for ways to avoid it.

Drink More Water

You may be in a position where you don’t like drinking water, or you’re not drinking enough water daily despite being essential. Water is necessary since it helps carry out bodily functions, removes body waste, and transports oxygen and nutrients throughout the body. Since you may expel water daily through urination or bowel movements, it’s vital to constantly replenish the amount of water in your body.

Conclusion

In summary, when you want to create a healthy lifestyle, it doesn’t have to mean you will go through drastic changes. Just start by picking one thing at a time and work on it daily while letting some of your life habits stay the same. You may be surprised how the small changes have had a positive impact.

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda

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What To Consider When Choosing A Pet for Emotional Support

Seeking an Emotional Support Animal (ESA)’s companionship and friendship can be liberating and therapeutic. However, choosing the right one to suit your specific needs could be challenging. Since the year 2016, the number of ESAs in the US shot up from 500,000 to over a million. Furthermore, deciding on particular character traits of the ESA you intend to choose is extremely important. If you’re in need of a perfect ESA pet, then this article throws light on important things you should consider beforehand.

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Are you looking for a young or fully matured pet? This is a crucial question you need to answer before getting an emotional support pet. The average life expectancy of household pets ranges from twelve to fifteen years. Furthermore, animals of varied ages require specific needs, which should be a factor when deciding. Ideally, younger pets are easier to handle and train, but they tend to be very energetic, noisy, and overly curious. As they are still young, you may have your work cut out for you. To ease the burden, particularly with regards to their waste disposal, consider using a professional service. For example, if you have puppies that are not yet fully potty trained, you could hire a dog pooper scooper service to handle your pup’s waste. If your objective is to enjoy a calm and peaceful life with an ESA, a young pet may not be ideal for you. An older or mature pet may be more suitable, but they are harder to train.

Two significant laws protect emotional support pets in the United States; the Fair Housing Act (FHA) and the Air Carriers Access Act (ACAA). FHA provides the freedom to live with an emotional support pet in a rented home or in places where pets, in general, are prohibited. That includes the retirement home, campus accommodation, and hotels. The ACAA allows the ESA and its owner to board commercial flights without problems. The law also applies to flights that strictly forbid the presence of animals during a trip. For both laws, it is of utmost importance that your emotional support pet is sufficiently trained to avoid pooping in public. 

Just as humans have individual character traits, so do pets. For example, a Labrador that works well with a teenager is not full proof that the same species will do well with another person. Animals exhibit a wide character variety in areas such as calmness and reaction to a strange item. For this reason, a skittish animal may not be ideal for an injured soldier looking for emotional support in a pet. It is necessary to consider the tolerance level of the animal you choose for emotional support. For example, if you already have a cat and are considering bringing in a dog as your emotional support, both should be able to live in harmony.

Naturally, some pets or breeds are more expensive to keep than others, and this should be considered when deciding on getting an ESA. For example, can your lifestyle accommodate monthly visits to the veterinary? Can you handle the bills that come with pet medications and care? In addition to these, some pets require regular grooming to improve their overall well-being. This will require a professional with years of experience in animal grooming, and they certainly do not come cheap. Suppose your ESA is a bird or a rabbit; keeping them healthy and active requires more money. These animals are easily prone to infections and over time, may begin to burn a hole in your wallet. Besides the initial financial value of your pet, you must consider other additional costs like pet food. 

Perhaps, this is the most critical consideration of all. After all, the purpose of an emotional support pet is indicated in its general description. You may be lucky to establish an instant bond with the pet you choose, whereas it takes time and effort for others. Indeed, without an ESA, the animal you choose may turn out to be an ordinary pet.

ESA’s make life bearable for their owners who need them to go through life. Each ESA provides comfort, companionship, and a bond that lasts for as long as they are with their owners. Therefore, before you decide on choosing one, remember the considerations listed here. 

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Melinda

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How To Manage Retirement Planning In 5 Easy Steps

Managing one’s own retirement can be a daunting prospect. It is even more difficult for those who are new to the workforce or are still decades away from saving enough for their golden years. Luckily, managing one’s retirement is not as hard as it sounds if you follow these five easy steps.

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Find the right plan that is right for you

In order to save money for your retirement, you need to have a way to put those funds aside. Before choosing a plan that fits your needs and budget, do some research on the various plans available. Many companies offer retirement plans; however, if you work for yourself, you may find other plans better for your needs. Those who plan to travel a lot or live in a state with high taxes may find it more beneficial to purchase a variable annuity. Once you have chosen the right plan for you, make sure that your employer offers any company match, and start contributing as soon as possible.

Start early but not too early

There are many benefits to starting your retirement savings as early as possible; however, if you start too early (when you are still in school or unemployed), then you cannot take advantage of compound interest. Instead of choosing an arbitrary age at which to start saving, use the rule of 72 instead. Divide 72 by the percentage of your income that you would like to save per year. If you want to save 5% of your income, then start saving at age 36-72.

Be mindful of where and how you spend

In order to make sure that your savings last throughout retirement, it is important to be mindful of where and how you spend. Try not to live above your means, purchase items that lose value over time (like cars), or spend money you don’t have. You should also fully utilize tax-advantaged accounts.

Invest wisely

Investing can seem like a daunting task for those new to the workforce; however, there are many online calculators and tools to make it easy. You should also consider consulting with an investment professional if you find yourself confused by all of the options and jargon. There are different types of investments that cater to different personalities and risk tolerances, so make sure to do your research before making any investments.

Stay the course and diversify

Whatever plan you choose, don’t let it change as your life circumstances change. If you start saving for retirement in your early 20s, then continue putting aside that same percentage of income; no matter how much you make, your savings should last. However, if you start saving for retirement in your mid-30s and suddenly lose your job and income, do not panic and withdraw money from those accounts (or take on more risky investments). Instead, find a way to continue saving as much as possible. Your golden years will be better if you manage your retirement well. Even with Trilogy Care available, you’d still feel more prepared if you start saving early.

In Conclusion

Managing your own retirement can be a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. Follow these five simple steps, and you will be well on your way to a financially secure future.

This is a collaborative post.

Melinda