What is vaping? This is a question that many people are asking, especially since it seems to be becoming more and more popular. Vaping is the act of inhaling and exhaling the vapors from an electronic cigarette or vape pen. People started vaping as a way to quit smoking, and it has turned into a huge trend over the past few years. There are many different reasons why vaping is so popular, but we will discuss some of the most common reasons in this post.
Smoking cigarettes is extremely harmful to your health, and it is one of the leading causes of death in the world. If you are looking for a way to quit smoking, vaping can be a great option. There are many different types of electronic cigarettes and vape pens on the market, so you can find one that suits your needs. Vaping is much less harmful than smoking cigarettes, and it can help you kick your nicotine addiction.
Vaping is Cheaper Than Smoking Cigarettes
Cigarettes are expensive, and they are only getting more expensive as time goes on. If you are looking for a cheaper alternative to smoking cigarettes, vaping is definitely the way to go. You can save a lot of money by switching to vaping, and you will be able to enjoy your habit without breaking the bank.
Vaping is More Convenient Than Smoking Cigarettes
Smoking cigarettes can be a hassle, especially if you are trying to quit. Vaping is much more convenient than smoking, and you can do it almost anywhere. There are no rules against vaping in most public places, so you can vape wherever you want. You also don’t have to worry about carrying around lighters or ashtrays.
Vaping is Safer Than Smoking Cigarettes
As we mentioned before, smoking cigarettes is extremely harmful to your health. If you are looking for a safer alternative to smoking, vaping is the way to go. Vaping is much less harmful than smoking, and there is no risk of secondhand smoke.
Vaping is More Social Than Smoking Cigarettes
Smoking cigarettes can be a very isolating experience, especially if you are trying to quit. Vaping is much more social than smoking, and you can share your vape pen with your friends. Vaping is also a great way to meet new people, and you can find like-minded people in vape shops and online forums.
Vaping Can Help You Relax
If you are looking for a way to relax, vaping can be a great option. There are many different types of e-liquid on the market, and you can find one that suits your needs. You can also customize your vaping experience with different types of e-liquid and cartridges. For example, Delta 8 THC Vape Carts are a great way to relax and enjoy the benefits of THC without smoking cannabis. If you are feeling stressed out, vaping can help you relax and unwind.
These are just some of the reasons why vaping is so popular. If you are looking for an alternative to smoking cigarettes, vaping is definitely the way to go. There are many different types of electronic cigarettes and vape pens on the market, so you can find one that suits your needs. Vaping is much less harmful than smoking cigarettes, and it can help you kick your nicotine addiction.
National Bullying Awareness Month is something I can relate to. In my day bullying was just that bullying, calling people names, playing pranks, hazing, and fist fighting. The norm, but today it’s a whole new ballgame because of the Internet, and social media.
When you are abused as a child and live in a domestic violence home you don’t trust anyone, I didn’t want anyone to know, not even my grandparents. My mother was good at keeping the bruises hidden so no one would know. For this reason, I didn’t make many friends and was not very social.
When I was in 6th grade I was bullied to the extreme. The girls, about 4-6 people would follow me walking home. They normally stay a short distance behind me calling me names of all sorts. If the bullying wasn’t damaging to a 6th grader’s ego, one day two of the girls came up close behind me and hit me over the head with a coke bottle then started kicking me. It left a huge bump and it hurt but I didn’t cry until I got home.
The worst was the girl I lived next to when younger said to meet in her backyard for a fight. When I arrived there were at least 25 people there to watch me get my ass kicked. They all joined in calling me names and then out of nowhere she hit me upside the head, that was only the first blow. I knew if I got into a physical fight I would pay for it at home so I barely defended myself. After what seemed like forever it was over.
I knew better than to say something but I needed something for my head, it was bleeding. I told my mother and stepfather. Boy what a mistake, my alcoholic stepfather was tanked and went to kick the father’s ass. Oh boy, would I get more beatings for that at school? Luckily, he was too drunk to drive and that was the end of that. No compassion, no advice, nothing.
That was bullying then, today the landscape has changed and bullying hits you from any direction from faceless people. They are cowards, hiding behind the wall of the internet they troll you. From the news stories, I hear it can be relenting. I’ve known friends from WordPress who were hassled so bad they shut their site down and started over. I understand because someone started stalking me for seven months, even hacking my computer, it was frightening not only because of the fallout but were they nearby and watching me? That seven months took a toll on my health and I couldn’t go anywhere by myself for fear of being followed.
That is one way people bully you today. Don’t even get me started on social media. I have a very strong feeling about the role parents play in a child/teen’s life. I’m not going to get on my bandwagon but will say if parents aren’t monitoring their children’s Internet and phone activity, they are making a big mistake and doing their children no favors.
Here are some facts
Prevent Bullying Every Day
As reported on the 2019 Indicators of School Crime and Safety report, about 20% of students ages 12-18 reported being bullied in 2017. Among students ages 12-18 who reported being bullied during the school year, 15% were bullied online or by text. National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month is a month-long observance to educate and raise awareness about bullying and cyberbullying prevention. Addressing and preventing bullying is something that everyone can do, every day.
Address Bullying At School
Educators and teachers can create a safe, supportive learning environment and a classroom culture of positivity, inclusiveness and respect. They can reward students for positive social behavior. Schools can communicate bullying policies at their school to parents, students, teachers and staff and follow through on them. Monitoring bullying ‘hot spots’ around the school campus can also help prevent bullying.
Talk About Bullying At Home
Parents and caregivers can talk with their children about their school and digital life, and the many roles children can play in bullying. By asking open-ended questions, they can talk about their children’s experience and communicate expectations about appropriate behavior – in person and in their digital world. Parents are the primary role models for their children, and when they model the behavior they expect from their children, they teach through actions.
Get Help
Youth who experience bullying can reach out to a trusted adult to talk about it and get support. If they’re being cyberbullied, they can capture screenshots. They can block the people who are bullying. If they witness bullying, they can change the conversation and deflect it. If they feel they can do it, they can stand up for the person being bullied, either on their own or with friends as a group. If they don’t feel safe doing that, they can reach out to the person being bullied to let them know that they don’t agree with it. If youth witness cyberbullying, they shouldn’t participate or share the posts or texts. They can learn more about how bystanders are essential to bullying prevention. They can also talk to a trusted adult for advice.
Check out these videos on how to handle different bullying situations.
The holidays are here — a time for family, friends and festivities. But it’s also a season of consumerism, which is costing our planet a hefty price.
This year, the world has seen the biggest increase in ship emissions in over a decade (along with endangered whales getting struck by congested cargo ships.) In the US alone, returned packages will generate around 15 million tons of carbon pollution (equivalent to 3.2 million cars driven on the road for one year). And then there are the environmental harms caused by the gifts themselves, which could include polluting fast fashion items, plastic toys made from fossil fuels, or sweet treats that are driving deforestation.
But it is possible to show your loved ones you care while also caring for our collective home. We asked TED speakers to share planet-friendly gift recommendations, and here are 16 ideas for a merry — and more sustainable — holiday season.
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1. Digital subscriptions for the mind, body and soul
I love the ritual of presents, and I’ve found that digital subscriptions are great gifts. Here are three:
1) An annual gift subscription to Duolingo (Plus or Family), because learning another language is a beautiful gift to ourselves and to the world. It creates stronger bonds and connects with other cultures.
2) An annual subscription to Body Groove. During the pandemic, I learned that dancing at home does wonders, physically and mentally. We need to keep strong!
3) An annual subscription to a magazine that will introduce you to great writing and emerging voices. Because in an age marked by existential struggles — climate, COVID, inequality — we need fiction and non-fiction. We need the power of stories to help us expand our imaginations and transcend our everyday lives. — Monica Araya (TED Talk: How cities are detoxing transportation)
2. Sustainable alternatives to frequently purchased products
Some of the most impactful gifts are those that can replace “sleepwalk consumption” products — the things we buy repeatedly without much thought. Luckily, many of these products can be replaced with sustainable alternatives, and many companies have made delightful, whimsical and giftable versions of them. By giving a beautiful sleepwalking product as a gift, you could change one person’s — or one family’s — impact over the rest of their lives. Here are a few ideas: 100 percent Slave-Free Chocolate, “Give” Holiday Edition Toilet Paper, Oatly Chocolate Milk, Brew Dog Beer Advent Calendar, Bite Toothpaste or Dirty Labs Laundry. — Mariana Prieto (TED Talk: Why animals need design)
3. Tree saplings
If you live in the UK, why not give your loved one a pack of 105 tree saplings to plant, thereby helping save the planet by removing more carbon dioxide from the air and providing valuable new habitats? They can be obtained from The Woodland Trust — and the best thing is that they’re free. I helped plant 210 saplings last week! And if you don’t live in the UK, there may be a similar scheme where you are, but even if there isn’t, give someone some trees anyway. — Ian Firth (TED Talk: Bridges should be beautiful)
4. Outdoor gear
Being that change is certain but not predictable, I’ll suggest a gift from BioLite, which offers great products for outdoor adventures and off-the-grid and emergency energy. I love Biolite’s awesome commitment to serving both campers and people who still lack access to reliable power, and the company has also won the prestigious 2021 National Design Award from the Cooper Hewitt, Smithsonian Design Museum. I’m getting my pal who has frequent outages an Alpen Glow 500, so she can charge her devices with it too. — Wendy Brawer (TED Talk: How green is my city?)
5. A parks pass
My planet-friendly gift recommendation for any Americans on your list is an annual pass to the US National Parks. It’s a great gift, because what could be more fun than spending time outdoors with your loved ones learning about the beautiful planet we live on? The money also goes towards the National Parks Service, which has conservation as an essential part of its mission (and has since its founding in 1916). — Zoe Pierrat (TED-Ed Lesson: Earth’s mysterious red glow, explained)
6. Refurbished antiques
My favorite climate-friendly gifts are refurbished antiques. It’s a wonderful way to repurpose a once-functional item from the past into a beautiful gift. I am also an environmental science teacher, so every year I create a bulletin board that suggests other green holiday ideas to my students because there are so many ways to offset your carbon footprint. — Kim Preshoff (TED-Ed Lesson: What’s a smartphone made of?)
7. A mushroom garden
My sustainable holiday gift recommendation is a mushroom grow cube that allows you to easily grow a delicious, sustainable food source from your kitchen, basement, bathroom — wherever is convenient for you. It’s fun to watch them grow (quicker than you would expect!) with very little effort, and they come in several mushroom varieties. You can get them from a variety of sources online, but to make the gift more sustainable, you can look into a local mushroom grower online or get them in person at your local farmers’ markets. (For example, here is a local mushroom grower near me in Maryland.) — Noah Bressman (TED-Ed Lesson: The fish that walk on land)
8. A giant of a plant
Most of us have enough stuff, so this holiday season, why not give a gift that will create a legacy? While the Archangel Ancient Tree Archive won’t sell you their certified champion Giant Sequoia seedlings, they will plant one for you — or even an entire forest. What better gift can you give than one that will be around for thousands of years? — Camille Seaman (TED Talk: Connection and purpose: tales of polar photographer)
9. A vegan dessert
The Brave Robot cake mix uses a non-animal whey protein that replaces the equivalent of three eggs! It produces an animal-free yellow cake that doesn’t use aquafaba, flax seeds or other traditional egg replacements that can mess with flavor or texture. The protein is made by reprogramming microflora to produce the same whey found in cow milk — it’s cellular agriculture in action! — Isha Datar (TED Talk: How we could eat real meat without harming animals)
10. A map of your town or city
Who doesn’t love a good map? Humans have been using them ever since our ancestors started drawing on cave walls. My planet-friendly gift recommendation is a map of your city or town. If you want, circle your favorite places that are accessible on foot, bicycle, bus and metro, such as parks, vistas, buildings and shops. You could give it in either digital or paper form — and bonus points if you can find an old map at an auction site or local map store and get it framed. Maps can help people rediscover the amazing diversity of their natural and built environment, support local business and help keep everyone’s footprint local. — Robert Muggah (TED Talk: The biggest risks facing cities — and some solutions)
11. Support a local theater or bookstore
While we fight climate change, we can still do the things that are most important, like hugging grandmothers, meeting friends and celebrating holidays. A ticket to a local theater might be one of the most climate-friendly gifts, and it strengthens the community.
Here in Iceland, a book has been the most popular Christmas gift for the last century. We have what is called jólabókaflóð, or the Christmas book flood. Most books are published in November and December to become Christmas gifts, and for most people, there is no holiday without going to bed with a new book.
So I would recommend giving a book, perhaps by a local author from a local bookstore. The book can last decades, and it never becomes obsolete. You can pass it on; it is not run by evil algorithms; does not monitor your behavior; give you likes; or collect your data in energy-intensive data farms. A good book lets you dive into other people’s minds — and at best, it can change your life. — Andri Snær Magnason (TED Talk: On time and water)
12. Wildflower seeds
Native wildflower seeds make a wonderful gift. As they bloom, they become the foundation of local ecosystems for pollinators and birds, while improving soil health and preventing erosion. They won’t break your bank, and your recipient will smile every time they see them. — Jeff Kirschner (TED Talk: This app makes it fun to pick up litter)
13. Zero-carbon fashion
We know the fashion industry has disproportionately negative impacts on the environment — it is responsible for 20 percent of our water pollution, 10 percent of carbon emissions, and every time we wash synthetic fibers, we are contributing to microplastic pollution. That’s why I created a company that produces clothing made by hand with only three ingredients — sun, plants and mountain water — and without using any electricity, chemicals, plastics or fossil fuels. Another clothing and textile company that’s aiming to do things more sustainably is Rough Linen. They create beautiful linen products from natural fibers, including sumptuous bathrobes, PJs, aprons, tea towels and so much more, and all products are handmade in the US. With each gift, you can remind your cherished giftee that our consumer choices can impact industries. — Angel Chang (TED Talk: How ancient textiles can help the future)
14. A local experience
Personally, I try to move away from purchased items for my giftees, as consumerism results in significant carbon emissions and awe-worthy amounts of waste. Instead, I try to spend money on shared local experiences that bring joy and create shared memories. These can be regionally specific and vary considerably in price; however, the plentiful availability of virtual workshops does make this a highly accessible gift idea. In the past, my giftees and I have learned the art of falconry as well as how to scuba dive, race sled dogs, zip line, blow glass, metalsmith, cook pasta, taste whiskey, bead jewelry and sew. Last but not least, we’ve visited baby goats and learned to make cheese and garden! — Anne Madden (TED Talk: Meet the microscopic life in your home — and on your face)
15. A day out in nature
Give the gift of learning to reconnect with nature, which is at the heart of solving our environmental crisis. Create a homemade “nature experience gift card” to suit your loved ones’ interests — creating a personalized day out in nature that’s organized by you. Depending on where you live and what you enjoy doing with them, it could be a mountain hike, a walk on a quiet beach, a visit to a botanic garden, or a picnic in a local park. While you are there, invite them to sit quietly; observe the sounds, smells and feel of the surroundings and the visual beauty; and simply notice what happens. — Carol Farbotko (TED-Ed Lesson: Where will you be able to live in 20 years?)
16. A workshop or course
How about giving a gift that gives back? I’m thinking of a gift that can build someone’s skills to pursue a life of purpose and dignity. These resources already exist in us today, but we don’t utilize them enough. Why not gift someone a workshop or course that enhances their skills so they can be confident, empowered and encouraged? I like to gift a basic survival skills course that will teach them to deal better when in crisis. Your giftee will thank you for it! — Rumaitha Al Busaidi (TED Talk: Women and girls, you are part of the climate solution)
Can having less stuff, in less room, lead to more happiness? Writer and designer Graham Hill lays out three rules for editing your life:
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. Each week I highlight a new blogger, this week is Peace From Panic.
Embracing, Advocating & Discovering Happiness in Mental Health
Thank you for visiting my blog! My name is Jeni Driscoll. I’m a mom with a wonderful husband and two beautiful daughters, both in their 20s.
I’ve had panic attacks since I was ten years old. At that time, I had no idea what was wrong with me. I never told anyone because I didn’t know how to describe my scary and weird sensations. I thought there was something really wrong with me that could never be fixed.
Stigma prevented me from talking about my problem. I finally reached out for medical help when I was in my early 30s. My diagnosis: panic disorder with agoraphobia.
I’m now recovered. Anxiety no longer rules me.
I learned so much from her blog. Be sure to check Jeni’s blog.
I’ve lived in the hell of Domestic Violence. Instead of giving you statistics, I want to share some thoughts and experiences. In this post, I also share ideas on how to proactively prepare for the day you leave.
This chart is great to use for teaching tweens/teens and as a reminder for yourself. If children are taught early, you can help them see the warning signs, and help them gently with the words to break off the relationship before it goes any further. Teens can be a handful but early learning will help.
There are resources on the Internet on how to listen to your child if you are worried about them. Talking to a therapist about coping skills and how to teach your children about abusive relationships will help immensely.
Feelings you may encounter
Anger
Confusion
Fear
Explosions
Self-Hatred
Low Self Esteem
Chaos
Running Away
Suffocated
Followed
My world was walking on eggshells, listening to my mother get beat day after day. My stepfather hit her head against the wall as they went down the entire hallway and stopped at my bedroom door. I had to listen to my mother begging for him to stop, it traumatized me.
I was nine years old, my parents were going to bed, and I thought we had made it thru another day. A few minutes later I hear her screaming and them coming down the hall, wincing every time her head hits the wall. They landed in front of my door but across the hall, I could peek out my door and see everything. My stepfather dragged her by the hair, up against a wall, and had a knife to her throat. My mother saw me I could tell she was afraid for her life. I saw a trickle of blood and freaked out. I had fears of him hurting us four children.
Even though my mother and I had a very fractured relationship, you don’t want to see your mother killed. I was panicked, and could not get to the phone to call my grandparents. I gather up the little money I had hidden and took off on my bike. I rode across town to my boyfriend’s house. Long story short, my mother arrived acting nice until we got in the car. She slapped me all the way home. Everything was fine, it was my fault.
If you are in a Domestic Violence relationship and you are planning to leave, there are some steps you can take to make the move less stressful. If you have a family member or friend that would allow you to pack some items and leave them until the night you leave that would not cause alarm at home. If you don’t have anyone to help you directly, hiding essentials in the trunk of your car is possible. The key is to be prepared as possible because once you leave the house, it may take a while before you get your items returned or are able to move back in the house.
You have to get crafty when it comes to money. If you withdraw the money too quickly they will find out. He’s what comes to my mind. You have to plan your escape seriously and it has to be precise or it may escalate. If both of your names are on the credit card or bank try to get your name taken off and get a new account sent to a safe address. Run as fast as you can with what you can! Life will be insane for a while but living in those conditions is inhumane.
Save small amounts of money and hid it from your partner, after you have a small amount of money, take it to your friend’s house for safekeeping. You will need to save money for some time to help you once you leave. I’ve heard of many women being cut off from money, it’s probably one of the leading causes. Many times one partner will be left without money, for who knows how long.
If you have children you will need escape bags for them too. I’m talking like one small suitcase for all. If you have a job it’s easier, in that you can control your future. Once you settle into a shelter, family, or friends, new routines can form. Shop different stores, and do everything to avoid him even if that means driving out of way to pick items up. The last thing you want is a confrontation. This can escalate very quickly and turn into a bad ending.
I’ve talked to many women and men from Domestic Violence homes and leaving is always hard. There are so many fears. Have someone on your side to talk to if you can. The key is planning, where to go, and when to go, you have to plan a couple of days’ clothing if possible because it may be that long before an Officer can go with you and let you in the house. Tell as few people as possible and get a burner phone so he can’t track you.
It may sound far-fetched but many abusers don’t want to lose their partner, they say I love you and how sorry they are, and it will never happen again. LIE! They want to continue to control you and will stop at nothing. I’m not talking about killing you, even though in a worst-case scenario it could happen, what I’m talking about is the hassling, all the time, calling you or your employer, calling your family members, they will work hard to have you back in their life.
I will firmly say the first time you leave is the easiest, if you go back and many do, they will keep an eye on every move you make. Don’t let that stop you from leaving again you have to try a different technique. The saddest is the children involved in the turmoil. Years of therapy helped me deal with my traumatic background.
Please check out my page Organizations That Can Help, the number of resources I have for Domestic Violence is fairly short but there are other resources you may need along the way listed too. There are some great blogs that discuss Domestic Violence, seek them out to learn tips on how to diffuse situations to how to prepare to leave.
I’m proud of you wherever you are in life and pray you are happy and healthy. Please remember I’m talking about what happened in my life. I won’t say I know yours or that I’m an expert, I’m not. Just a 59-year-old recalling traumatic memories. Therapy has saved my life. One thing I know is the less you keep bottled up, the better your mental health will be.
One thing you need is a couple of people to follow and learn from those who have been where you are. You’ll get ideas from following others, not only for learning but also for building your confidence. A blog I read a long time ago went as far as how to protect yourself inside the home if you are trying to get in.
I’m thrilled to introduce Lynda Faye Schmidt author of The Holding and The Healing along with a companion Journal. She is kicking off her blog tour, on October 21-25th and I’m supporting her with my interview. Lynda Faye Schmidt is a storyteller who writes from the heart. Her novels are emotionally impacting and character-driven.
Before becoming a writer, Lynda earned a Bachelor of Education. She taught in a variety of settings, sharing her love of reading, writing and creating. After her move to the Middle East in 2015, Lynda kicked off her writing career with her blog, Musings of an emotional creature. She was also a contributor for DQ Living magazine. <img id="
Here’s a blurb about The Holding
The Holding is a prequel to The Healing. Based on true events, the story takes us back to the beginning, where Cate Henderson is born in a small prairie town in Canada. Six weeks premature, baby Cate is tiny, but feisty. Even as an infant, Cate’s radiant smile lights up a room. But the heart of this novel is the relationship that unfolds between Cate and her father, William. An emotional read, The Holding delves into both harsh realities and healing journeys. From childhood abuse and bullying to the power of love to transform; it is a story of resilience, a father’s devotion, and an unbreakable bond between father and daughter that will have the reader engaged right up to the last scene.
Look for a couple of reviews at the end of our interview.
Thank you Lynda for taking the time to talk with me today. Why don’t we jump right in?
Can you give us a snapshot of your background beyond the brief description?
Absolutely! I was born in a small prairie town in western Canada in the mid-sixties. I lived with my parents and older brother in a succession of small towns until a traumatic event had us move to Calgary, Alberta in 1980. Uprooted, uncertain, and rebellious, I got pregnant at the age of sixteen and my life took off on a whole new direction. With the support of my parents, as well as a stack of student loans and grants, I earned my Bachelor of Education at the university of Calgary in 1988. I married in 1989 and had two more children. I wasn’t into the marriage long before I realized my husband had serious mental health challenges. I did my best to support him and to follow through with my commitment, but things continued to break down. I finally found the courage to leave after all three of my children were done high school, more than twenty-five years later. I packed up everything I could fit into my car and embarked on a new life adventure on Vancouver Island. I delved into healing, and not long after, I met my soulmate, David. We married in 2014 and together we adopted his step-daughter. In 2015, David found work in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, and we moved to the Middle East. We lived there for seven years before choosing to become expats once again, and moved to Panama in August, 2022.
How did your time in the Middle East impact your writing?
The move was huge in creating space and opportunity for my writing career to manifest. My husband’s work schedule didn’t work well with the school calendar, so continuing my career as a teacher didn’t feel like a good option. I’d always dreamed of being a writer and besides keeping a daily journal, had written many poems and short stories as a hobby throughout the busy years of working as a teacher and raising a family. Not long after the move I decided to start a blog, and created Musings of an Emotional Creature. A chance acquaintance led to an opportunity for me to write articles for the local Diplomatic Quarter magazine. I uncovered the five pages of inspiration for a novel I’d scribbled out back in 2012, and decided it was time to write the story. A chance discussion on the local shopping bus had me reaching out to Anne O’Connell of OC Publishing, and my first novel was launched in partnership with her in April 2021.
How does the time spent in the Middle East impact your writing?
The move was huge in creating space and opportunity for my writing career to manifest. My husband’s work schedule didn’t work well with the school calendar, so continuing my career as a teacher didn’t feel like a good option. I’d always dreamed of being a writer and besides keeping a daily journal, had written many poems and short stories as a hobby throughout the busy years of working as a teacher and raising a family. Not long after the move I decided to start a blog, and created Musings of an Emotional Creature. A chance acquaintance led to an opportunity for me to write articles for the local Diplomatic Quarter magazine. I uncovered the five pages of inspiration for a novel I’d scribbled out back in 2012, and decided it was time to write the story. A chance discussion on the local shopping bus had me reaching out to Anne O’Connell of OC Publishing, and my first novel was launched in partnership with her in April 2021.
How did you take the leap from Teacher to Author?
I think I answer that in the previous question, but I’ll add that it was, and still is, a huge leap of courage and faith. It isn’t an easy industry and I’ve had to learn all kinds of things I never anticipated in the fields of marketing and social media, but I love learning new things and I love writing so all it’s all good.
What led you to write two books and a companion Journal?
After I published my first novel, The Healing, I had a few readers interested in the back story that was only hinted at. They wanted to know about what kept Cate in an unhealthy relationship for so long as well as details about what created her resilience. I had a dusty old manuscript I’d written after my father passed away in 2000 and it became the bones that transformed into my second novel as prequel to the first, The Holding. I received feedback from many reviewers and interviewers who were intrigued by Cate’s journaling practice, which is conveyed in-depth in both novels, and that became my inspiration for the Companion Journal.
How are readers to approach the Journal?
I invite readers to approach the journal in whatever method works for them as unique individuals. My hope is that it will ignite their curiosity and that will in turn expand their self- awareness. I would be delighted if, after working through the journal, readers embraced the idea of some form of regular journaling practice, to continue their journey of self-reflection and growth and expand their consciousness as human beings.
How long did the writing process take?
For me, the writing process is so dynamic, it’s difficult to contain with a timeline. I’m forever jotting down ideas in my journals and on random scraps of paper. With each new book manifested into reality, my own writing practice evolves. When writing The Healing, I wasn’t as committed to a daily writing schedule, so it took the longest. I would estimate each project took around a year to get the raw manuscript to light and then another year for editing and design.
Writers are often avid readers. What type of books do you read for pleasure?
Yes, absolutely, I’m an avid reader, although these days I seem to have less time for the pleasure of leisure reading, I do consider reading an important part of developing my skill as a writer. I read from many genres and my choices have varied greatly over the years. Currently, I’m drawn to novels based on real life, historical fiction, and memoirs. I also appreciate both novels and non-fiction on themes of spirituality, purpose, creativity, and living with intention.
What are some leisure activities you enjoy?
I’m a devout yogi and you can find me on my mat most days of the week. Sometimes I only manage to squeeze in a fifteen-minute meditation and breath-work session. On others, I go for it and move my body through an hour and half of postures that integrate balance, strength, and flexibility. Besides reading, I enjoy watching movies and hosting dinner parties. I love to experiment with ingredients to prepare savory dishes and sweet desserts. Recently I’ve been adding in my love of wine to explore food and wine pairings. Travel is fascinating for me, as I value learning about other cultures and experiences. My husband is an avid gym-enthusiast, so I tie up my trainers to join him in our home gym for solid work-outs on the treadmill and lifting weights too. Now that we’ve moved to Panama, I’m relishing the myriad of natural spaces to explore, including beaches, jungle-forests, and mountain ranges, but I’m not a hard-core hiker by any means. Animated conversations with friends, live music at local establishments, and connecting with people I love brings me a sense of belonging and joy.
How do you want fans to contact you?
I would love to hear from fans in whatever format resonates best with them. On my website, www.lyndafayeschmidt.com, I have a stay in touch form to sign up for emails and submit questions.I also have an author page on Face Book and LinkedIn which I check daily for notifications. I have a YouTube channel where viewers can leave comments. I’m on Goodreads, and fans can follow, review and comment on that platform as well.
It was such a pleasure to talk with Lynda today and to support her Blog Tour. Check out the great reviews.
Here are three reviews, a snippet of those available.
“The Holding took me on an emotional journey. I could relate to Cate’s challenges and rallied with her as she found the inner strength to endure life’s tribulations.”
— Michelle Jones
“Had me captured from the first page to the last.”
— Linda Smith
“Plot-wise, The Healing is an immensely entertaining, feel-good novel…the storyline truly waxes in emotions… If you are charmed by stories like Eat, Pray, Love, The Healing is the book for you.”
— Vincent Dublado, reviewer for Readers’ Favorite <img id="” class=”Apple-web-attachment Singleton” style=”font-style:normal;font-variant-caps:normal;font-weight:400;letter-spacing:normal;orphans:auto;text-align:start;text-indent:0;text-transform:none;white-space:normal;widows:auto;word-spacing:0;-webkit-text-size-adjust:auto;text-decoration:none;color:#000000;font-family:Optima-Regular;font-size:18px;opacity:1;”>Thank you Linda for sharing your time with me, you have had such an interesting life.
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