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Daily Writing Prompt

Daily writing prompt
What topics do you like to discuss?

Boy, do topics change at every stage in life. A few topics that get me engaged are art, travel, and gardening.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Chronic Illness · Infectious Diease · Medical · Men & Womens Health · Tick Borne Illnesses

A mother’s story: When “just anxiety” was really Lyme disease

By Whitney Goetsch

I was a young mother living my dream life when everything changed. At a wedding, I absentmindedly pulled a tick off the back of my leg, crushed it into the pavement, and moved on.

I never realized that tiny creature would alter the course of my life.

Not long after, my health began to unravel. Crippling symptoms emerged, yet every doctor I saw dismissed them as anxiety. But deep down, I knew something was terribly wrong.

What followed was a terrifying descent into medical uncertainty, a relentless fight to uncover the truth while my body continued to deteriorate.

For five years, I battled through a system that refused to listen, all while my family suffered alongside me. I suspected Lyme disease early on, but each time I voiced my concerns, I was brushed aside. “It’s just anxiety.” “You’re overreacting.” “Maybe it’s depression.” The gaslighting was endless.

Finally, after years of searching, I received the diagnoses that changed everything: Lyme disease, multiple co-infections, and alpha-gal syndrome. By then, the damage had already been done.

Documenting every struggle

Throughout this journey, I kept a journal, documenting every struggle, every setback, and every moment of resilience. In 2023, newly diagnosed and still fighting for my life, I turned those pages into a book—because this cannot not keep happening. Not to young mothers. Not to fathers, children, or anyone else. The cycle of medical dismissal and gaslighting must end.

I wrote my book while still in the fight, in the trenches of this disease, so it would be raw, real, and relatable. So others would know they are not alone.

You are not Lyme. You are not a burden. Lyme is the burden placed upon you.

Today, my battle continues. In the summer of 2024, I began SOT therapy for Lyme disease. This winter, I started SOT therapy for Babesia and Bartonella, alongside herbals and methylene blue.

Recent tests have revealed demyelination and autoimmune markers resembling those seen in multiple sclerosis and Alzheimer’s — the result of years of untreated infections.

To help heal my brain and reduce inflammation, I will soon begin peptide therapy. My medical team is also exploring stem cell therapy in Europe. The road ahead remains steep, but I refuse to give up.

Because this fight is not just for me. It’s for every person who has been dismissed, misdiagnosed, and left to suffer in silence.

For more information about Whitney Goetsch’s book, click here: Waves: A Memoir of Perseverance in Battling Chronic Lyme Disease


Melinda

Reference:

https://www.lymedisease.org/just-anxiety-lyme/

Celebrate Life · Fun · Mental Health · Music

#Weekend Music Share-The Corrs “Breathless”

It’s the weekend!!!!!!

 I’m glad you joined me for another edition of Weekend Music Share this week.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

Welcome back to Weekend Music Share, the place where everyone can share their favorite music.

Feel free to use the Weekend Music Share banner in your post, and use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.

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Daily Writing Prompt

Daily writing prompt
Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.

At 40 years old and divorced, I took a chance on getting married again. I felt strongly that he was the one who would stay until the end. 22 years later, we’re going strong and closer than ever. No regrets for me.

Melinda

Aging · Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Mental Health

A Healthy Aging Guide to Strength Training and Stretching at Home

Weight lifting and stretching are useful at any age, but there are specific benefits for older adults.

With aging comes concerns about strength, balance, and mobility. But integrating resistance training and stretching into your routine can keep you feeling healthy and strong. 

Not sure where to start? Read on for a primer on how movement can make a difference, plus a full-body workout and stretching routine that you can do at home.

Goals for your at-home strength training program 

Committing to and maintaining an at-home strength training program can be the first step to preventing — or delaying the onset of — many age-related ailments. 

The best part is, it doesn’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. 

Your at-home strength training program should:

  • Include 3 sessions weekly. Incorporate a 20- to 30-minute strength training session 3 days per week. You can work out at home with minimal equipment and still see significant results.
  • Work your whole body. Incorporate upper body, lower body, and core exercises to get the most out of each workout. 
  • Be consistent. The more consistently you strength train, the better your results will be. 

6 strength exercises to try at home 

Combine these 6 strength exercises for an effective and comprehensive full-body workout.

Unless otherwise noted, do 3 sets of 10–12 reps of each of these exercises.

One-leg balance

With balance declining as you age, proactively focusing on improving it is key. Start with this one-legged drill to suss out any imbalances you may have:

  1. Position yourself next to a chair or a wall if needed for balance.
  2. Stand with your feet together, arms down at your sides.
  3. Bend your knee and lift your right foot up off the ground behind you, holding where your leg forms a 90-degree angle. 
  4. Hold for 30 seconds, then repeat on the left leg. 
  5. Complete 2 holds on each side.

Squat

The squat is a powerhouse exercise, not only for building muscle but for preparing you for daily life. If you ever sit in a chair, you’ll benefit from squatting. Here’s how to do it:

  1. Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart, toes pointed slightly out, with your arms down at your sides.
  2. Push your hips back then bend your knees, lowering down until your thighs are parallel to the ground or as close as possible, as if sitting in a chair. Keep your chest lifted and proud throughout the movement. 
  3. Push up evenly through your whole foot, back to the starting position.

Wall pushup 

Pushups are one of the most effective exercises to gain upper body strength, and you need no equipment to execute them. Start on a wall, and then try a pushup kneeling if you want more of a challenge. Here’s how to do it:

  1. Get into a plank position with your hands on a wall at shoulder height and your feet about 3–4 feet from the wall. 
  2. Bend your elbows to come closer to the wall, maintaining a straight line from your head to your ankles. Keep your elbows at a 45-degree angle from your body. 
  3. Push back away to the starting position. 

Resistance band row

A strong back is key for good posture, among other things. Use a resistance band here to strengthen those muscles:

  1. Grab a resistance band, with a handle in each hand, and step on the band with both feet. 
  2. Cross the handles and hinge at the waist to a 45-degree angle.
  3. Maintaining a straight back, send your elbows up and back, rowing the handles up toward your chest. Squeeze your upper back muscles at the top.
  4. Pause, then slowly release back to start. 

Bird dog

A boon for both balance and stability, bird dog will challenge your full body. 

  1. Assume a position on all fours on the ground, placing your hands under your shoulders and your knees under your hips. 
  2. Keeping your neck neutral, simultaneously extend your right arm and left leg. Make sure your hips stay square to the ground. Pause at the top. 
  3. Return to start and repeat with your left arm and right leg. 

Glute bridge

An effective exercise for the posterior chain — or the back of your body — glute bridges will build strength in no time. Add a dumbbell to your hips if you need added resistance. 

  1. Start by laying on your back with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Your arms should be down at your sides. 
  2. Brace your core and push up through your feet, lifting your butt up off the ground until your hips are fully extended. Squeeze your glutes at the top. 
  3. Pause, then slowly return to start.

5 stretches to include in your at-home fitness routine

Do these 5 stretches to hit all of the major body parts and help improve your flexibility and mobility.

If not indicated, hold each stretch for about 30 seconds total. As you focus on breathing — deep inhale, deep exhale — try to go deeper into the stretch. 

Hamstring stretch

Particularly if you sit a lot, stretching the hamstrings is important to maintain good movement in the hips. Here’s how to do it:

  1. Position yourself with a step or another flat, raised surface in front of you. There should be about one foot between you and the step.
  2. Put one heel on the step and lean forward at the hips to a 45-degree angle.
  3. Feel the stretch in your hamstring, leaning forward to go deeper.

Seated hip stretch

Hip functionality is key to many movements in our daily lives, like walking, so keeping these muscles and joints mobile is important. Try this seated stretch:

  1. Sit in a chair and scoot down to the edge. Your feet should be flat on the floor and your back should be straight.
  2. Bring your right ankle to rest on your left knee, bending your leg to do so. 
  3. Lean forward slightly to feel the stretch in your hip.

Chest opener

Combat the forward-lean posture with this chest-opening stretch:

  1. Sit in a chair and scoot down to the edge. Your feet should be flat on the floor and your back should be straight.
  2. Interlace your fingers behind your back and open your chest up to the sky, dropping your shoulders.

Side-lying thoracic rotation

Another good stretch if you find your shoulders rounding forward, this rotation will target and release your upper body:

  1. Lay on the ground on your left side, arms straight out in front of you with palms touching.
  2. Lift your right arm straight up and over, opening your chest and allowing your right arm to drop to the other side of your body. Your head should follow.
  3. After 5–10 seconds, rotate back to start and repeat for 10 reps. 

Side-to-side reach

Stretch your back and core with this move:

  1. Stand straight with your arms down at your sides and feet shoulder-width apart.
  2. Bring your right arm up and over your head, bending your torso to the left as you go. 
  3. Hold here for 5–10 seconds, then return to center and switch arms. 

The takeaway

Consistently strength training and stretching, even for short periods 3 times per week, can help tremendously in delaying or preventing many age-related ailments. Start slow and watch your strength, balance, and mobility improve.

Last medically reviewed on October 11, 2024

Melinda

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Book Review · Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Men & Womens Health · Religion

Book Review-The Rosary Prayer By Prayer By Mary K. Doyle

Mary and I have become good friends, and her encouragement, positive attitude, and motivation have helped me grow. Her book has expanded my life in new ways. Thanks, Mary.

About Mary K. Doyle

Author Mary K. Doyle has a Master of Arts Degree in Pastoral Theology. Her fluid, conversational writing style results from an extensive career in feature writing, advertising, and publicity over more than thirty years. Her latest book is Navigating Alzheimer’s: 12 Truths about Caring for Your Loved One. This information was taken from the back of the book.

Whether readers are praying the rosary for the first time or are already praying the rosary daily, they will find that The Rosary Prayer by Prayer is an invaluable resource and aid to promoting a deeper prayer experience. It is a treasure chest of information about the history and benefits of the rosary, suggestions for meditation on the mysteries, exquisite artwork, and references. This book is also an easy way to learn how to pray the rosary.

You can find Mary’s book on Amazon.

Here are a couple of reviews from Amazon

“I grew up Catholic, but didn’t know that there were multiple devotions to saying the rosary. And, as an adult and lapsed Catholic I was a bit fuzzy on the basics as well. This book does a soulful job of detailing the steps and introducing the special devotions of each of the mysteries. The pen and inks are a beautiful accompaniment to the text. A very nice gift book for anyone who wants to reaquaint themselves with the devotion of the rosary.”

“As a Catholic Man in the Knights of Columbus we oft say “REAL MEN SAY THE ROSARY.” I to my shame lapsed a bit in regular Rosary Prayer/Reflection…..BUT….. well … I came across this GEM of a BOOK! it has revived my devotion in the Rosary by new BUT Traditional reflections….magnificent charcoal pics in all Mysteries in short…. a book LONG NEEDED….I think it wonderful for Catholics who are long time Rosary users….Newbies…….or in my Case…….a lapsed “Rosary User” ….JP2 called it (the Rosary) his favorite Prayer… this book….will bring full circle why JP2 said this!!!”

Mary has written nine books; you can see the collection HERE.

My Thoughts

The book’s layout flows nicely and leads smoothly into the next topic.

Each Prayer shares the history of the Rosary prayers and references the Scripture where the prayer originated. Each prayer has an illustration of the Rosary, and the bead to start the prayer is circled.

The book is informative, not technical, and written with a gentle heart.

The Rosary is written for everyone, and her writing is easy to understand. I’ve learned so much. The Rosary Prayer By Prayer is a must-read for all Catholics or those who are curious. It’s a book for your bookshelves to reference for years to come.

Major Thumbs up!

Mary’s blog is Midwest Mary. Her writing is informative and inspirational. Stop by her blog, say hello, and enjoy the archives. You’ll be glad you did.

Melinda

Looking for the Light

Celebrate Life · Health and Wellbeing · Medical · Men & Womens Health · Politics

Robert Kennedy Jr. Is On My Last Nerve With His Latest Autism Project-Not A Rant

This post is not a rant; it’s based on facts that may set you ablaze, too.

Here’s a brief overview of how he is taking private medical records without permission to gather information and track people with Autism.

  • Robert F. Kennedy Jr. is amassing private medical records of Americans for a new autism study
  • This includes data from pharmacy chains, lab tests, smartwatches and more
  • The HHS secretary is also launching a registry that will track Americans with autism

What is next? Americans with no right to privacy?

This is appalling, and it opens the door for our government to use and misuse our private information.

Be sure to read the article in full; the information was taken from an interview on CBS.

Melinda

Reference::

https://people.com/rfk-jr-to-launch-autism-registry-using-private-health-records-11720156

Celebrate Life · DIY · Fun · Men & Womens Health

Safety Tips For Working Without Preservatives

Make smaller quantities, approximately what you will use in three months.

Make sure you only use absolutely clean and sterile equipment, utensils, and storage bottles.

Take out only as much product as you will use in the next week, and always store the rest in the refrigerator. If properly made and stored, the backstock will last three to four months.

Don’t dip your fingers in the container because you can introduce contaminants that will make the product go bad sooner. Instead, use a sterile spoon or spatula to transfer product from the backstock container to a daily-use container. Similarly, either use a spoon to scoop out the product for daily use or keep it in a pump bottle.

Store the daily-use container away from direct sunlight and heat.

If the recipe separates or smells off, discard it and make a new batch.

Melinda

Reference:

Willow & Sage by Stampington

Celebrate Life · Fun · Health and Wellbeing · Mental Health

Wordless Wednesday-Bursting Open

I’m glad you joined me on Wordless Wednesday, and I hope to see you soon.

Melinda