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Whats the Difference Between Sunni Islam and Shiite Islam? *Haters are not welcome*

*I found the article interesting and will validate with The Quran. The article is the opinion of the writer. Opinions are just that, an opinion. I’m not a hater declaring a Religion is bad. Have an open mind, it’s a diverse world and we have to adapt. My opinion is  terrorist misuse passages in the Quran, a Holy Book as a front for their cause not for Allah. * M

The article

Tensions in the Muslim world have risen even further in the wake of a mass execution of 47 men by the Saudi Arabian government, among whom was a prominent Shiite cleric named Sheikh Nimr al-Nimr. Saudi Arabia is a monarchy led by a Sunni Muslim family, while nearby power Iran is a theocracy led by Shiite Muslim clerics.

In news coverage from the region we often hear of tensions between Sunni and Shia Islam, but find that few people in the Western world have been truly exposed to the differences between these two interpretations of one of Earth’s most influential faiths. What is the difference between Sunni and Shia

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For starters, most Muslims (more than 85 percent of them) practice Sunni Islam. These form the majority of the population in most “Muslim” nations (the two most notable outliers from this trend are Iraq and Iran, where Shiites form the majority).

Because these two sects must account for nearly 1.5 billion individuals around the world, it is also important to note that the spectrum of ideas within Sunni and Shia Islam is incredibly wide. There are more fundamentalist and more secular individuals in either group. Some people have argued that the differences between these two groups is analog to the difference between Catholic and Protestant Christians – among which you see a similar ideological spectrum.

History of the Sunni/Shia Split

The initial split between the two groups actually took place nearly 1,400 years ago, when the prophet Mohammed died. The sect that would become Sunni Islam argued that Mohammed’s best friend, Abu Bakr, should succeed him as the next leader of Islam. Those who would come to form the Shia sect of Islam believed that Mohammad’s son-in-law, Ali, should succeed him.

The Sunnis would eventually win that debate, but the rift never really closed (Sunni troops would later kill Ali, an event commemorated annually by Shiites). Tensions have remained high between the two groups – one Pew Research poll revealed that 4 out of 10 Sunnis don’t believe that Shiites are ‘real Muslims’.

What is the Difference Between Sunni and Shia Islam?

Both Sunni and Shia Islam share most of the core values of Islam and largely believe in maintaining similar practices. The rift between the two, at least from an outside perspective, definitely appears to be more historical/political (much of the political upheaval that has taken place in the Middle East over the last ~30 years can at least partially be attributed to Shia/Sunni conflict) than it does theological.

What’s Next for Islam?

Especially in the wake of the recent uproar in Iran, it appears unlikely that tensions between the two factions will ease anytime soon. At this point, unfortunately, it appears as though the religious conflicts we’ve seen around the world (particularly over the last year) will only increase in quantity and severity.

We want to know what you think: How can we close rifts and built peace?

*Comment Left for the Writer*

All the information that I have received over the years on Islam has led me to develop a zero tolerance for Islam. Mostly provoked by the jihad they have waged on Western culture.

The beheading of Christians and the current hostile take over of our culture and religion has put me on guard. While it is nice to know the difference between the Sunni’s and the Shi’ites it is immaterial as long as the jihad and threat to me and my family exists.

Just the fact that we 47 terrorist training camps in the United States is enough to keep us all in guard. The Federal government checks into everything else that poses a threat and have allowed these camps to exist. As long as the jihad exists and the government remains complacent I will have zero tolerance for Islam.

Xx  M

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Culpepper High School makes Anatomy students dissect a Cat *Not me*

NEW CHANGE.ORG PETITION

CALLING ALL CAT LOVERS!

When my daughter Brynnan transferred to Culpeper High School in Virginia this year, she was excited that they offered an anatomy class. She wanted to learn more about the human body and how it worked, but her excitement quickly turned to shock and distress.

“Mom, they want me to skin and dissect a CAT,” she told me. “The teacher told us if we have a black cat at home, pick a white cat and vice versa. Like the color of their fur changes how I feel about ripping the fur from a cat who—no matter what—will remind me of my baby Sparta!”

I was horrified. We discussed how to handle it, and she begged me to let her home school instead. As a new student, she already felt alone, and the thought of taking a stand in a class full of strangers was something that caused her more anguish.

Whether she silently took part in skinning and dissecting a companion animal—something that would cause her immense psychological pain—or stood against the practice and further alienated herself from the other students, she was facing trauma either way.

Eventually, I decided it was best to pull her from the high school. As her parent, it is my duty to protect her, first and foremost, and I didn’t want my daughter to go through such a traumatizing event. Now, I want to make sure that other children don’t have to experience something so traumatic as dissecting a pet. I will start with Brynnan’s school district, but I won’t stop there. Will you join me in asking the Culpeper County Public Schools (CCPS) to ban cat dissection in their classrooms?

Cats are the most popular companion animal in the United States, outnumbering dogs by some 15 million. To expect students to skin and cut up the very same animal that they may sleep with at night is cruel and inhumane, both to the cats and to the students forced to maim them.

There are many alternatives to dissection, including online or computer simulations and 3-D models. It’s time for CCPS in Virginia to put into practice the humane message they should be sending to all students. Please stand with Brynnan and myself to demand an end to cat dissection in the classroom.

Thank you!

Sign Tamira’s petition

https://www.change.org/p/don-t-force-our-children-to-skin-cats?utm_source=action_alert&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=482498&alert_id=WDnuSdowjI_AXKyJ%2FT2xtW3aGiPHkralYqDO2R%2B%2Be77J55fCLPm4yk%3D

Thank you for the participation. These petitions do make a difference.

Xx  M

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My Husband Threw Acid In My Face

NEW CHANGE.ORG PETITION

READING MADE ME WANT TO WORK HARDER ON WOMENS RIGHTS AROUND THE WORLD.

After having lived for seven years with an abusive husband, I decided it was time to leave. I didn’t think I would survive another year if I stayed, so in 2011, I walked out the door and broke the crippling silence and isolation the abuse had made me feel. I felt empowered and free, and finally looked forward to my future. But because I left my marriage, my husband considered me “disobedient” and, therefore, worthy of punishment. So one day, when he called me to pick up my children at his house and suddenly acid was thrown at my face and body.

The next thing I knew, my face felt as if it were on fire. My skin was literally melting away.
He thought he would break my spirit, but he only made me stronger. Since my attack, I have been fighting to put an end to this horrific practice in my country of Uganda, and I need your help to do it. Please support our petition by asking H.E. President Yoweri Museveni Kaguta to sign the Toxic Chemicals Bill into law.

That is my story, but there are many more, each one as harrowing as the last. Acid violence occurs around the globe and isn’t specific to race or religion. My country, Uganda, has some of the highest rates of acid violence. In fact, since 1985, there have been nearly 400 reported cases of acid attacks here, and in just one hospital alone, they have reported 8 attacks and two deaths this year. And those are just the ones that were reported. The real statistics are likely much higher.

My name is Hanifa Nakiryowa,and my fellow acid attack survivor Gloria Kankunda and I have founded the Center for Rehabilitation of Survivors of Acid and burns Violence (CERESAV). We founded CERESAV because of our personal experiences, and because of the stories we were told by fellow victims. CERESAV’s ultimate goal is to address the issue of acid attacks and gender violence on a global level, but today we have a chance to make a difference in Uganda by helping to pass legislation that would classify products like acid as controlled substances. Cutting off easy access to acid has proven to drastically reduce the rate of attacks in other countries.

Research indicates that the most effective ways to reduce acid violence are through regulation of the sale of acid, tougher jail sentences for perpetrators, and raising awareness of the devastating impact that acid attacks have on individuals and their families. Step by step, CERESAV hopes to make all of these things a reality, but we can’t do it alone.
With collective efforts, we can end this devastating act and save the next potential victim. I know we can make a difference. When strong women and fellow victims of female-directed violence, like Jaha who fought to end female genital mutilation, or Malala who is a champion for girls’ education started Change.org petitions, great things happened.

Please join me in asking H.E. President Yoweri Museveni Kaguta to sign the Toxic Chemicals Bill into law.

Sign Hanifa’s petition

https://www.change.org/p/urge-ugandan-president-museveni-to-pass-the-acid-attack-bill-now?utm_source=action_alert&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=481998&alert_id=kKonevTcai_7yqcov%2Bbi4RaihvGVshGQn7%2FjBy1oOyyYoJ1mD6KY%2BA%3D

You have to see her photo to begin to understand her pain.

Xx  M

 

 

 

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My Bucket List has moved to Looking for the Light Blog

BUCKET LIST STARTED 2015

Chronic Lyme Disease has given me time to reflect on the blessings in life. To stay motivated, I think of a bright future. Thinking of travel locations and adventures left to do. I want to help my community. I’m extremely proud of my charity God’s Tree of Life Ministries. There’s an unlimited amount to learn, see, give back and baggage to let go. My first Bucket List now started and written down. I’m a strong believer, if you can feel and see the goal, you can do it.

I’ll live a full life expanding my soul and supporting others.

XO Melinda

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Learn to double jump rope

Roller Derby

Watch baby turtles hatch

Drive Hover Craft

Tango and Salsa Lessons

Dive again, I had panic attack during a dive in 1999. I have to tackle the fear.

Argentinian Wine Country

Volunteer for RAINN Advocate Speaker for Child Abuse and Rape.

Started charity, Tree of Life Ministries, focused on children’s early education, children in shelters and growing community awareness. Our first initiative was to provide underserved kids with clothes and backpacks and books.

Provide pastoral support as Ordained Minister with a focus on dying children and the elderly. My challenge is to clean my language up.

Swim with Manatees, Dolphins and Sharks, Sharks only while in cage.

Ride a Camel and Elephant in native environment, treated ethically.

See every inch of Australia. Australia is several countries in one.

Hot air balloon ride French country side.

Visit countries safe for American women traveling alone. I like to travel alone to foreign destinations. Germany, Istanbul, India, Dubai, Alaska, a good start.

Learn to rescue animals who coexist in our neighborhood, like ducks, rabbits, owls, bobcats and coyotes.

Learn how to grow Orchids.

Travel to Uganda to experience the few Silver Back Gorilla’s left.

See fine Turkish rugs being made.

Pray at Wailing Wall.

Learn how to restore antiques, know the different woods.

Restore antique tools and my antique fan.

COME BACK OFTEN, WHO KNOWS WHAT YOU’LL FIND.

:)

M

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My Reaction to Faded Memories *Death Haunts Me*

 

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My father committed suicide in 1992 at 52 years old. After his death I questioned if I would reach 52. It’s not that I loved and missed my father, he sexually abused me. The thoughts were tied to deep depression and helping my grandmother grieve.  In time the thoughts faded away until Christmas night. I don’t drink but do suffer from Chronic Lyme Disease which creates extreme pain.

I was sitting on the couch looking at the tree when thoughts of being 52 and my father’s death at 52 resurfaced. Several thoughts overwhelmed me, the most comforting was I made it to 52 years old. My father was Bipolar, suffering until the end. His mental illness and death pushed me to look in the mirror at my lifelong depression. The search for a doctor who knew how to manage Bipolar took seeing several doctors.

The memories will fade with no reason to return. I rarely look back at my life or worry about my age. Living till 52 years old haunted me. 2016 is open for me to shape, improve and focus on getting well.

Thank you for reading. If someone is suffering, please reach out for help.

Xx M

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American Crime *The story lines shine light on abuse and violence*

American Crime prompts conversation with story lines about abuse and violence. The show starts 1/16/16 on ABC. One story line is a boy being raped. I believe sexual abuse and violence towards men needs a spotlight and resources. The topics may be disturbing or freeing. Without resources men/boys have no safe to turn for help.

The series deals with topics ripped from current headlines. Audiences see story lines dealing with issues teenagers face, discrimination and transgender, are a few topics.

http://abc.go.com/shows/american-crime

Their site has several options to find more about the program. I look forward to the conversation from WP Bloggers after watching.

Xx  M

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Throw Back Thursday *New Year’s Eve with a Rock & Roll Jam Session*

I want to thank everyone who reads my post, you are priceless. I feel blessed by the special people in my life who pray for me and cheer me up. The past year has been tough but everyone filled my heart with joy and lots of smiles. You are truly family to me. Happy New Years Eve.

I have plans for the New Year not resolutions. Continue learning, helping others, having more fun, and learning more about the people who follow me.

Now it’s time for great Rock & Roll tunes. Keep the request coming, I love playing your suggestions.

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Sentimental Keepsake From My Beloved Granny *Merry Christmas*

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This is a very special gift

That you can never see

The reason it’s so special is

It’s just for you, from me

Whenever you are lonely 

Or you’re feeling blue

You only have to hold this gift 

And know I think of you

You can never unwrap it

Please leave the ribbon tied

Just hold the box close to your heart

It’s filled with love inside

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Merry Christmas Granny, you made every Christmas special.

Xx  Melinda 

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I saw Mommy kissing Santa Clause, under the misletoe last night

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TOYS FOR TOTS CHARITY RUN

Yes, that’s a Corona at 9:00 AM, Santa doesn’t seem to mind. It’s an incredible feeling riding down the freeway with up to 1,000 bikes. People are standing on bridges as you pull into Arlington, Texas. They’re holding signs, American Flags and waving. Whole families on bridge after bridge. Helping the Marines Toys of Tots program is deeply rewarding and tons of fun.  

Wishing everyone around the world a safe Holiday and peace for all.  Xx M 

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Yellow Wolf Enlightenment Nominated Me For The Sunshine All Around Award

https://yellowwolfenlightenment.wordpress.com/2015/12/05/sunshine/award

Yellow Wolf Enlightenment  nominated me for The Sunshine Blogger Award. I do apologize for the long delay in posting award.Today is a great day to visit her site if haven’t. Her site is a Spiritual journey to inspire. Instantly you’re at peace, http://www.yellowwolfenlightentment.com.

I am grateful she thought my site worthy of The Sunshine Blogger Award.

Many of you know I have Chronic Lyme, I pray you never know first hand. My memory last 5-15 minutes and pain leaves me in bed under pain medication. I am not able to reciprocate by writing questions and nominate awesome Bloggers.    Xx  M

The Sunshine Blogger Award Rules Are:

Thank the person who nominated you. Display award on your site. Answer the 11 questions from your nominator and give nominees eleven questions to answer.

Questions asked:

What drew you to blogging?

Write my frustrations down instead of keeping inside.

Do you tend to think then speak or speak then think? 

Depends on who I’m talking with. When working always thought first.

What did you want to be when you were young? 

I didn’t dream, lived in

Is that childhood desire the path you followed to adulthood?

From sixth grade wanted to be Photojournalist.

 What is your favorite flower? 

Peony

Is there a subject you would love to blog about but haven’t?

Art, Travel, Charity, Ministry and wide open from there.

Are you a cat person or a dog person? 

I love most animals but in the house it’s cat and dogs.

Would like a garden or a farm?

Farm-grow everything Texas allows.

Do you prefer the woods or a meadow?

Woods, I grew up walking the river bottoms skipping rocks. We made a slide on the tallest mud and rock site. We had so much fun flying down the hill.

Are you a big city kid or a small town kid?

City kid, I could not stay out of trouble in wide open country.

What is your favorite cocktail?  

When I drank, Good Merlot fave, Tonic & Gin, I do miss my Margaritas.

 

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In 24 hours 29,520 people became victims of domestic violence or sexual assault..20 people a minute by someone they know!

JOYFUL HEART FOUNDATION

Dear Friend,

In the 24 hours since I emailed you, 29,520 people became victims of domestic violence or sexual assault.
The statistics are staggering:

Every minute, 20 people are physically abused by an intimate partner.

Every two minutes, someone is sexually assaulted.

One in three women experience sexual or physical violence in their lives.

One in four girls and one in six boys are sexually abused or assaulted before their 18th birthdays.

This violence is preventable. And healing is possible.

Yesterday, I wrote to you about Joyful Heart’s signature retreat programs and the work we are doing to make this healing experience available to even more survivors.

Can you help us? Your gift today will guarantee that more survivors benefit from Joyful Heart’s retreats—and take the next step in their healing journey.

29,520 people in the past 24 hours. 20 people in the minute it took you to read this note. You can help change it today.

Please, give what you can.

With gratitude,
Maile Zambuto
Chief Executive Officer
Joyful Heart Foundation

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Hilarious Poop Story Dedicated To My Twin P *Dotedon.wp.com*

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It’s time to share with my WP family how stubborn I can be. I was an innocent child of six years old playing on jungle gym, all things kids do at recess.

I felt a growl in my stomach but the jungle gym was more fun. Another growl, I better tell the teacher I have to potty. She looked at me rather stern, NO! Go back and play.

I went back as instructed and tried to hang on. I had my favorite purple polyester suite with elephants on it. Not wanting to get it dirty, I wondered around watching my friends. GROWL.

Going back to teacher, again she said NO! I pleaded with her. “If I don’t go inside I will poop my pants right here.” She didn’t know I was a kid that meant business. I stood right in her face and pooped my pants.

The look in her eyes. “You pooped your pants”, I told you. Off to the Principles office, she called my mother to come get me. She came about three hours later. I had the pleasure of sitting in poop on a bench outside her office. My classmates had a good laugh, my mother did not.

I sure missed my purple pant suit. Let’s just say it was beyond repair!

Have a great weekend.

XO  M

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Throw Back Thursday *Best Tunes And They Came From You*

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Continue sending request, now we’re having fun.

As a child I believed music could change feelings, like pump you up or knock you down. We’ve all had rocks thrown at us while we walk forward. There is no way around, doing the time is essential for growth. I’ve  had a rough life, music loved me when no one would. On shitty days I would rush home, hide in my closet with my radio and pray no one found me.

(Sounds so depressing after reading. Sorry, no downer here!)

I’m thrilled for the request. Getting to know each other and surprising each with a song.

Coffee Grounded asked for Annie Lennox and sent the link for the version. I’m so glad she shared this version, what a song it is. Bringing tears to my eyes. She is a genius.

Casey Alexander  jumped in with one of my #1 songs. Lord knows “I’m no Angel”.  Greg Allman  

Carol King “You’ve got a Friend” rips at my heart, good and bad.

My friend Gavin had an awesome request, the video didn’t meet my standards. We’ll see Gavin’s next week.

Hope everyone enjoyed the tunes.

XO M