I’m so happy you dropped by today, I appreciate your comments.
Melinda
Health Update
Ever hear the saying “If it weren’t for bad luck, I’d have no luck”? My question is “Is this what no luck looks like”? I feel like crumbled tin foil, one move makes something else hurt. It’s a crazy period for me and my writing has slowed down due to spending time in bed.
The new issues are due to prescriptions for my non-working salivary gland and stomach issues. The first prescription sent me over the top dizzy, blurred vision, out of balance, and chest pain. I had to quit. Come to find out after several tests my gastro has three problems caused by the prescription. Now I’m on a gastro prescription and it’s causing dizziness, balance problems, and falling. I’m giving it two more days to see if the side effects pass or lessen.
That happens many times with side effects, you may get some at first and several weeks to a month later they go away. My plan is to give this prescription two more days before I stop taking it, with my doctor knowing of course. Actually, I’m sending a message thru the portal to let them know my plan and ask about another prescription.
Here’s my dilemma, if I take the prescrptions I can’t drive. I rarely drive but I’m not giving up driving unless something is going to blow a gasket. People who are homebound or have chronic illnesses will understand the pain felt every time your body takes part of your life away.
I’m turning 60 shortly and have very little life outside of the house, but I have not given up on driving. I was on limited driving due to my Dementia, only driving within a few miles from the house. I have no desire to give up on driving or life at this point. I’m frustrated and very angry, almost cried yesterday but it will pass.
I’m also dealing with depression and it adds to my anger. Tomorrow is a new day.
Melinda
Tackling The Most Common Causes Of Stress And Anxiety
You only have to listen to the headlines or read the newspaper to see that anxiety levels are rising and a growing number of people are experiencing stress. In this guide, we’ll discuss some common causes of stress and anxiety and offer tips to help you cope.
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Money worries and unemployment
Unemployment is one of the most talked-about subjects at the moment, with many people losing their jobs or businesses and others struggling to hang on to theirs. Balancing the books is challenging at the best of times when you’re trying to manage a household or raise kids, but the pandemic has exacerbated difficulties and made staying in the black virtually impossible for some. If you’re experiencing financial strain, or you’ve lost your job, there is help out there. Don’t hesitate to seek advice about incentives or support measures that are available to you during the crisis and look for opportunities to increase your income if your workload is reduced or you’ve lost your job. From Forex Trading, to online courses, and blogging to temporary jobs, it’s possible to find solutions, even if they are only a short-term option to tide you over. It’s also beneficial to try and reduce spending on non-essential items and budget to make your money stretch further and to find out about programs that could prevent you from getting into debt in the weeks ahead. Some companies offer freezes on loan and credit card payments, for example.
Relationship breakdown
Relationships can make or break us. While some relationships lift our spirits and make us feel secure and content, others can have a negative impact. Break-ups are tough and it can take a long time to come to terms with the fact that you’re moving in a direction that is different from the one you expected to take. You might have envisioned spending your entire life with a partner, only to find that you’re now on your own. Take your time to process what has happened and to heal. Lean on the people closest to you and try to focus on the present, rather than the past. Often, relationships don’t work, and once you have a sense of perspective and time has passed, you realize that there was a good reason for parting. Let yourself feel and experience emotions and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get on with life, start dating or stop feeling upset about the situation. Move at your own pace. Everyone copes in different ways and there is no right or wrong way to deal with relationship breakdowns.
Trauma
Traumatic events such as accidents, natural disasters, or sexual assault can trigger a specific type of anxiety known as PTSD. These feelings of anxiety can be stirred up later in life – often by small and innocuous things that remind us of the traumatic event (such as the sight of a pool after a near-death drowning experience). Doctors can sometimes prescribe drugs to help with day-to-day life. There’s also the option of natural treatments for PTSD. In most cases, therapy can be the best option – a professional therapist will know exactly how to confront your fear in a healthy and effective way so that you can continue to get on with your life.
Work
Do you feel like you’re swimming against the tide, or do you dread the alarm going off every morning? It’s rare to find a job you enjoy every minute of every day, but work shouldn’t be a source of severe stress or anxiety. If you are feeling under pressure, or you’re struggling to switch off, talk to your boss about your workload, address issues that are getting to you, and take some time out. It’s crucial to have a balance and to enjoy downtime. Learn to say no. If you’re already working too many hours without pay, or your to-do list is endless, don’t take on more work or sign yourself up for extra commitments after work. Rest, relax and look after yourself.
Stress and anxiety are rife at the moment. If you’re struggling, you’re not alone. There are myriad causes, but help is available. Don’t hesitate to reach out and try and take care of yourself as best you can.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
Blogger Highlight-Milsy Girl
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, Milsy Girl.
Milsy Girl
Your self-care and wellness is my passion 🌻
Hi, I’m Rachel. I’m the blogger behind Milsy Girl 🌻. I’m here to help you create the best version of yourself that you can.
If you’re not sure where to start, try taking my easy self-care audit. It will show you areas of your self-care and wellness that need a little TLC.
My blog is packed full of useful tips and resources to help you on your journey.
Stop by to read Rachel’s self-care and healthy living post.
Melinda
Happy Birthday, Apple Computer!
Today I watched a fascinating interview with Steve Jobs in 1981. What a genius he was, part of the genius was his hard-core passion for building a solid product with the tools people want. He talked about how the company was structured, and the freedom/accountability employees have. Trust was the foundation.
Thank you to all Apple employees! I appreciate you every day, all day.
I’m an Apple lover and can’t imagine going back. He left us too fast.
Melinda
#Weekend Music Share- John Mellencamp – Pink Houses (Live at Farm Aid 2005)
Each week I showcase one of my favorite songs. I’m so glad you dropped by today, have a great weekend.
Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.
Melinda
Friday Quote 3/31/2023
So glad you stopped by, I appreciate you and hope to see you again.
Melinda
Introducing VitalField’s Pineal Detox FrequenCell
VitalField does it again! Introducing the Pineal Detox FrequenCell.
About Vital Field
Vital fields enable living systems – cells, organs, and micro-organisms – to transfer information and energy across the system (or body) instantly, helping the body’s cells to repair, regenerate, and protect against life’s cumulative stressors, such as toxins, stress, trauma, injury, and electrosmog.
Vital fields enable living systems – cells, organs, and micro-organisms – to transfer information and energy across the system (or body) instantly, helping the body’s cells to repair, regenerate, and protect against life’s cumulative stressors, such as toxins, stress, trauma, injury, and electrosmog.
The Pineal Detox FrequenCell
This FrequenCell supports the detoxification and cleansing process of the pineal gland from toxic loads. It is recommended to start with this FrequenCell to optimally prepare the body.
There are two other Pineal Gland FrequenCells that you can buy as a trio. The Trio bundle includes Pineal Detox, Pineal Gland DNA Strenthing, and the Third Eye FrequenCell.
To see the entire line of VitalField FrequenCells, click here.
I’m currently using the Pineal Detox FrequenCell. I will write a review once I have given it time to work.
Melinda
Wordless Wednesday *New Orleans
I’m so happy you dropped by today, I appreciate your comments
I couldn’t pass this graphic, notice the earplugs?
Melinda
Deep Thoughts
In this fast-paced social media world, it can be difficult to find the time to look within or back in time. I hope you find these quotes and questions interesting. So glad you stopped by today!
Continue reading “Deep Thoughts”Blogger Highlight-Stony Soil Vermont
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, Stony Soil Vermont.
Stony Soil Vermont
I live with my two daughters in Hardwick, Vermont, a small village along the Lamoille River.
Single motherhood and writing define the shape of my life.
Unstitched: Understanding Opioid Addiction and Repairing Our Communities twines my quest to understand addiction in Vermont, the country, and in my own life (Steerforth Press, 2021).
Hidden View is a gritty story woven with family, farming, and the desire for redemption (Green Writers Press, 2015).
Other things I love: are our two housecats, spring ephemerals, reading on the back porch, public libraries, and Yahtzee.
Melinda
Disability Awareness Month
If we talked about disabilities the stigma will lessen. I say little because it would be a miracle for the stigma to disappear. Unfortunately, we live in a society that for the most part is focused on itself. This morning I retweeted a story about a Podcaster who went on a rant about having disabled people in ads as ridiculous. She went on but I haven’t heard any backlash.
She’s someone who needs an education. 
This is the 28th Year the United States has recognized and celebrated March as National Disability Awareness Month!
On February 26, 1987 President Ronald Reagan officially declared Proclamation 5613 making March National Disabilities Awareness Month. The proclamation called for people to provide understanding, encouragement and opportunities to help persons with disabilities to lead productive and fulfilling lives.
Everyone wants, and deserves, to enjoy life, feel productive and secure. But in March, we take extra steps to raise awareness about the supports and rights of the people with disabilities and to celebrate their contributions to our communities and society as a whole!
Thank goodness many organizations are advocating for the disabled and you can see what charitable organizations can provide support.
I wish you the best.
Melinda
References:
https://portal.ct.gov/DDS/Media/Latest-News-2015/March-is-National-Disability-Awareness-Month
#Weekend Music Share-Foreigner – Urgent – Live Dortmund Germany 1982
Each week I showcase one of my favorite songs. I’m so glad you dropped by today, have a great weekend.
Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.
Melinda
Friday Quote 3/24/2023
So glad you stopped by, I appreciate you and hope to see you again.
Melinda
March Writing Prompts Hosted By Sheryl From A Chronic Voice
It’s a new month and new writing prompts for March. I like participating because you meet so many great people who understand chronic illnesses. If you’ve been there, chances are someone has too.
Be sure to check out Sherly’s blog, A Chronic Voice, it’s a site with all types of information. She has an extensive archive too.
This month’s prompts are Viewing, Experiencing, Reacting, Thinking, and Dealing.
I have chosen three this month, Dealing, Reacting, and Thinking.
Dealing
I’ve been dealing with health issue after health issue, it’s like my body decided to slowly break down. At the beginning of the year, I put a list of doctor appointments I needed to get done in 2023. It does put a little fire underfoot if your list is long like mine.
I deal with the frustrations of my health, the best I can, because chronic illnesses may never go away. There’s no black or white in life and illness, each day is grey with some grayer than others.
When I’m just mentally worn out, I go lay down. I practice meditating, or at least to get my mind to stop for so long. I challenge myself to go longer the next time. The rest helps reset your brain and now you can get back in control.
Reacting
Our government is fighting with each other, and the country is divided, what does that have to do with Chronic illnesses? While our government fights, Bills are not getting passed which means new services are being held up for the sake of politics.
I read today that a major brand of Baby Formula is being recalled, WTH!!!!! Did they ever get fully stocked?
The DEA has failed miserably at stopping the Fentynal crisis so now they are going after prescription stimulants. The number of Pain doctors is dwelling fast. Be sure not to ask about medication! Your file may be marked as a Drug Seeker. Let the doctor talk and don’t say anything about meds until they run down what they think is wrong. At that point, ask what options you have. If you’ve taken a med for that health issue, I would say, “I’ve taken this in the past and it worked/not worked.” Then let the conversation goes where it will.
One trick to try before you go, read their website and look for reviews. Then call the office, don’t say your name, “I’m looking for a Pain Doctor, does the doctor prescribe meds when needed? Once you get a Pain doctor, pay attention to the policies, you’ll want to know so you don’t screw up and getting kicked to the curb.
We have come so far and keep going backward!
Thinking
When I’m out of energy, I lay down. It’s become a bit of a habit so I decided, I will only nap when I’m in severe pain. After months of sleeping late and taking a nap all afternoons, I feel like my life has passed me by. I started looking inward, just letting my mind roam. I am not happy, living inside 24/7, no longer driving and the list goes on, I have little to no life outside the house, it’s wearing on me.
After spending several days thinking, I came up with some new hobbies to try, online advocacy, learning hand knitting, and picking up Ansestry again. I stopped there because I won’t set myself up by setting the goals too high.
I send my best wishes to you and hope you live your best life. If you’re not there yet, keep taking one step in front of the other and you’ll move forward.
Melinda
5 Ways To Help Your Teen As A New Driver
Has your teen just passed their driving test? It can be an extremely exciting time for them. Being able to drive and have the independence that comes with having their own car can be exhilarating. But for parents, it can be a time of increased worry and stress. This is only natural, especially when statistics show that young drivers cause 16% of all fatal car accidents in the US.
However, there are many different ways you can help your teen driver as they embark on their driving career to not only put your mind at ease but ensure they are safe too.
Read on for some tips on how to help your teen as a new driver.
Stay Calm
One of the best things, when your teen starts driving alone is to stay calm. Whether you are with them or you are waiting at home. Remember how it felt to be a new driver and use this to help boost your teen’s confidence. The more faith you have in them and their abilities, the calmer they will be on the road, with or without you. Remember, they have to pass a test and will have all of the basic skills and knowledge they need.
Talk About The Rules
There are driving rules and laws for a reason, and all of them are or ensure the safety of all road users. As a driver, your teen will now have to be adhering to these laws. Keep your discussions out of the car; doing so while driving will only further distract them. Talk about the dangers of driving while under the influence, using a mobile phone when driving, and the number of distractions having passengers can cause. It can be a good idea to talk about their reaction to other drivers and how to react should they encounter road rage or other poor driving habits from other drivers on the road.
Car Maintenance
Maintaining a car is a great responsibility, and as such, having a good mechanic and some knowledge of the internal workings of an engine and components can serve them well in their driving career from teen to old age. A simple but essential step is to talk through all aspects of car maintenance, how their actions will affect the vehicle they are driving, and how safe it is. If your teen knows the common faults of the car they are driving, and how to identify when something is wrong, they can call for help and be better prepared for breakdowns or getting repairs fixed quickly.
Car Safety
There is a lot involved in being a safe driver. Your teen needs to be safe on the road, but they also need to be confident all their passengers and other road users are safe. Some of these issues might not be at the forefront of their minds for teens, especially in those first few weeks or months of driving, from the importance of everyone wearing seatbelts to the distraction of loud music and conversations to speeding and driving appropriately for different weather conditions. It can be a good idea to look into taking an advanced driving class to improve their skills or ask them if they want you to ride them when driving after dark for the first time or in wet and windy weather conditions.
Emergency Responses
With nearly 20,000 car crashes daily on the roads in America, there is a high chance your teen may be involved in one at some point in their driving career or witness an accident. Knowing what to do should this occur can give them the tools they need to make the right decisions. From calling emergency services to documenting the scene and contacting their insurance company, these are vital tips they will need to know before an event, not after. Make sure they have all of their documents with them, are up to date with their insurance, have breakdown and recovery services they can contact, and know they can call you anytime in an emergency for help and support, not criticism.
Conclusion
Learning to drive is a rite of passage for many teens, and every driver can remember how it felt to finally get behind the wheel and onto the open road without relying on others to get from A to B. However, as parents, you can help your teen become a better driver by giving them the knowledge you have from your driving experience and the skills and tools they need to be a better and safer driver on the roads.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
Wordless Wednesday *Psyco Jelly Fish
I’m so happy you dropped by today, I appreciate your comments.
Melinda
I’m Sending Good Karma To All
For those who are having a challenging day, close your eyes and change the scenery, even for a minute.
Life is like a swing, back and forth, not every day is a good day.
If you are having a great day, pass a kind thought on to others.
No matter how tiny the light will shine again. We have to live our best life and we can give back just by doing something kind to someone who needs it.
Melinda
What To Try If You’re Having Trouble Sleeping
Sleep is something that evades a lot of people. If you’re having trouble getting to sleep at night, the problem could be a number of things. You’ve got to try and work out the best way to get to sleep so that you can get those all important hours. It may feel as though you have tried everything, but we’re sure that there’s at least a couple of things that you haven’t thought of yet. In this article, we’re going to be taking a look at some of the things that you should try if you are having trouble sleeping at night. If you want to find out more about this topic, keep reading below.
Now, obviously, we’re not suggesting that you get behind the wheel and start driving if you want to go to sleep. Instead, you should ask someone else if they mind taking the wheel for a little while as you see if this works. It’s a great trick when you’ve got a baby who doesn’t want to sleep because the motion helps soothe them to sleep, so it might work for you too. In fact, a lot of people find it easier to sleep in the car than they do when they are staying still. As such, it’s well worth a try if you’re struggling at night time.
If this is something that you are interested in, you should look into investing in a high-quality sound system for the car so that you can play your music while you’re going around. You can find some reviews of options at a site like zenaracing.com. Looking at sites like this will help you determine which system could be the best for you, so it’s well worth checking out.
Another thing that we think you should try is keeping all the electronics that you own out of the room. This will ensure that you aren’t being impacted by any of the blue light that they emit because this can cause issues with sleeping. As such, when it’s time for bed, you should leave your phone, laptop, and all other devices outside the room, and preferably downstairs completely away from you.
Not only is this helpful for the blue light problem, but it also ensures that you can’t be tempted to turn over and play with it. We know the temptation and we know it well. You want to check your messages and see if anyone has spoken to you. You want to scroll through social media just to kill the time a little bit. But, doing things like this will keep you awake for longer, so it’s never a good idea even if you’re bored.
Have you ever thought about not going into your bedroom unless it’s time to sleep? Or at least, going in there minimal amounts of times and only when you need something from there? You should never get into bed if you’re not going to be going to sleep as this sends the message to your brain that it’s just another place for your day-to-day activities.
If you can manage to get yourself into a routine where you only go to bed when it’s time for your nighttime sleep, you are going to find it much easier to get some rest through the night. This is because your brain gets the message that when you get into bed, you’re going to sleep for the night, so it knows that it’s time to switch off everything else and allow you the rest you need.
Something else that could help is coming up with a night routine. For example, if you brush your teeth, do anything that you usually do like if you have a skincare routine, change into your pajamas, let all the stresses of the day go, and then go to sleep every night, eventually, it will just become a habit to go to sleep after these things. As such, each night, as long as you complete the routine, you should find that getting to sleep isn’t so much of a problem. Of course, this isn’t foolproof and sometimes it won’t work, but it will for the large majority of nights.
We hope that you have found this article helpful, and now see some of the things that you should try if you’re having issues sleeping. Sleep is difficult for a lot of people, but it’s essential that you get it where you can and as much as you can, otherwise you could be in some serious trouble health-wise. Hopefully, something on this list will help you go to sleep.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
Let’s Celebrate! It’s Looking for the Light’s 13th Blogversary
When I started blogging in 2005, it never occurred to me that blogging would take me so far. It was in 2014 that Looking for the Light was born. Every week I’m inspired by how you have moved forward in your life when coming out of trauma. I love the photographers I follow and these are a small example of what get’s me out of bed each day.
I love getting comments, just what’s on your mind after reading a post. Even when very sick in the past, I showed up when I could. I love learning, sharing, and having fun.
I want to thank my great followers, you make my day, every day.
Let’s see what the rest of 2023 brings! If you have a topic you like to read more about, please reach me thru my Contact page or leave a comment section in a post.
If congrats are due, then it’s congrats for all of us for Looking for the Light could not be here without you!
Melinda
Blogger Highlight-DOREENS HEALTH AND WELLNESS63
Thank you for all the great feedback on the Blogger Highlight series, I’ve enjoyed meeting each blogger and sharing their site with you. This week we highlight a new blogger, DOREENSHEALTHANDWELLNESS63
The purpose of this blog is to share my personal medical stories about my Auto-immune(chronic illnesses) diseases and receive information from others in hopes that we can help each other.
Stop by and check out her site.
Melinda
Welcome Our Newest Contributor to Survivors Blog Here, Ellie Thompson from Essentially Ellie —
Please join our celebration of Ellie Thompson from Essentially Ellie, who has joined as a Contributor. I’ve been talking with Ellie for a few months and was overjoyed when she accepted to join the group. Photo by Henry & Co. on Pexels.com Who is Survivors Blog Here? We support men and women Survivors from […]
Please Welcome Our Newest Contributor, Ellie Thompson from Essentially Ellie — Survivors Blog Here Mental Health Collaborative
Fun Facts
Thanks for stopping by today, I love hearing your comments each week.
Human beings can use only a small fraction of Earth’s water
Wally Amos is responsible for making more than just cookies famous
The brand name Spam is a combination of “spice” and “ham”
It takes a drop of water 90 days to travel the entire Mississippi River
People once ate arsenic to improve their skin
Melinda
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The Smart Buyer’s Guide to Choosing a Home in a New Neighborhood
If you’re in the market for a new home, you may be considering a move to a new neighborhood. This can be a great way to get into a new community and find the perfect home for your needs. But it’s important to do your research before making any decisions. This smart buyer’s guide will help you understand what to look for when choosing a neighborhood to call home.
Location
Location is one of the most important factors when it comes to buying a home in a new neighborhood. It is essential to consider the nearby amenities and services, such as schools, hospitals, public transport links, and shopping centers. Additionally, take into account the crime rate in the area and any other safety concerns you may have. You should also research how far away your new home will be from friends and family or if there are plenty of activities for you and your family close by.
Additionally, it is worth considering how quickly the properties in the area appreciate in value over time; this can help give you an idea of whether it is a good investment or not. Ultimately, location plays an integral role in determining whether your new neighborhood will be a good fit for you and your family.
Cost
The cost of buying a home in a new neighborhood can vary widely depending on the location and the amenities available. Therefore, it is important to do your research and compare prices between different areas before making any decisions. You should also take into account any additional costs such as property taxes, homeowner association fees, utility bills, and so on.
Additionally, consider whether you’re able to make a larger down payment or if there are special programs that offer assistance with financing for first-time buyers – these can help reduce the overall cost of purchasing a home. Attending an event like Concierge Auctions can let you experience another side to purchasing a property that has its own reward if you bid well.
Quality of Life
Ultimately, it’s important to look at the quality of life you and your family will have in your new neighborhood. This includes considering factors such as educational opportunities, job prospects, and recreational activities in the area. In addition, it would be best if you also looked at the diversity of the local population, as well as any community events and clubs you could participate in.
Also, remember to research what types of homes, properties, or real estate are available in your preferred location. Of course, your preferences should guide this search. For example, are you looking for a villa, a townhouse, a bungalow, or an apartment? You can work with real estate companies to identify your best property. Some real estate companies offer a wide variety of property options to pick from. For example, companies such as Peebles Corporation, the largest black owned real estate company, have a wide portfolio, including residential properties that might suit you.
Finally, if you have specific needs or requirements for your new home, make sure to take them into consideration when choosing a neighborhood. This could include things like finding a place that is pet-friendly or close to public parks.
Making the Move
Once you’ve researched all your options and made a decision, it’s time to make the move with a professional company like North American Van Lines. This can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience, but with the right preparation, you’ll soon settle into your new neighborhood. Make sure to keep an open mind and get involved with local community events and clubs – this is a great way to meet people and start making friends in your new home!
In conclusion, buying a home in a new neighborhood requires careful research and consideration. By following this smart buyer’s guide, you’ll be well-prepared to make an informed decision and find the perfect place for you and your family to call home.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
Retire in Style: How Oceanfront Real Estate can Secure Your Future
Planning for retirement can be hard, but if you take the right steps, you can secure your future and make sure you have enough money in your golden years. Investing in luxury oceanfront estate is a strategy that is becoming more and more popular. In this blog, we’ll talk about the advantages of using a retirement plan to buy oceanfront property.
Why investing in real estate for retirement is a good idea
Real estate has long been considered a safe and lucrative investment option. Real estate has a stable and consistent return on investment, unlike stocks and bonds, which can be hard to predict and are affected by market changes. Also, it’s a real asset that can gain value over time, giving you a steady source of passive income.
Tax breaks can also come from investing in real estate. For example, mortgage interest and property taxes are tax-deductible, which can lower your tax bill and increase your overall return on investment.
Why Oceanfront Real Estate?
Investing in oceanfront real estate offers a host of benefits that make it an attractive option for retirement planning. First, it is a physical asset whose value can go up over time. Also, oceanfront properties tend to go up in value faster than properties farther inland. This means that your investment is likely to grow in value more quickly.
Oceanfront real estate can also be a way to make money without doing anything. Oceanfront properties are in high demand, particularly during peak vacation seasons. So, you can make a lot of money renting out your property to vacationers or people who want to live there for a long time.
Lastly, investing in oceanfront property can give retirees a great chance to live a high-quality life. Many oceanfront homes have beautiful views, easy access to fun things to do like boating and fishing, and a quiet, peaceful atmosphere that is perfect for relaxing.
How to Use Oceanfront Real Estate to Plan for Retirement
When planning for retirement with oceanfront real estate, it is essential to take a comprehensive approach. Here are some important things to think about:
Figure out your budget. Before you put money into real estate, you need to know where you stand financially. Consider your income, expenses, and savings to determine how much you can afford to invest in a property.
Research the market: The real estate market can be unpredictable, so it is essential to conduct thorough research before making any investment decisions. Look at how the prices, vacancy rates, and rental income of oceanfront properties change over time to find investment opportunities.
Choose the right property: When investing in real estate, it’s important to choose the right property that fits your needs and financial goals. When choosing a property, think about things like its location, size, and potential rental income.
Make a plan: Once you’ve chosen a property, make a detailed plan for how to run and take care of it. When making your plan, think about things like property management, taxes, insurance, and maintenance costs.
Conclusion
Investing in oceanfront property can be a great way to plan for retirement, as it has many benefits. But when making investment decisions, it’s important to look at the big picture and think about things like budget, market trends, property selection, and management. With the right plan, investing in oceanfront real estate can be a stable and reliable source of passive income and a great way to enjoy a high quality of life in retirement.
This is a collaborative post.
Melinda
#Weekend Music Share-James Arthur Recovery and Falling like the Stars
Each week I showcase one of my favorite songs. I’m so glad you dropped by today, thank you. Have a great weekend.
Falling like the Stars (This is one of my favorites because it’s about love and the Military)
Recovery (If you’re recovered or recovering, this song is a must-listen)
Welcome back to Weekend Music Share; the place where everyone can share their favorite music.
Feel free to use the ‘Weekend Music Share‘ banner in your post, and don’t forget to use the hashtag #WeekendMusicShare on social media so other participants can find your post.
Melinda
Friday Quote 3/17/2023
So glad you stopped by today, I look forward to your comments.
Melinda
Friday Is St. Patricks Day
St. Patricks Day is tomorrow and I thought a little background on the holiday would help. St. Patrick’s Day is celebrated annually on March 17, the anniversary of his death in the fifth century.
The Irish have observed this day as a religious holiday for over 1,000 years. On St. Patrick’s Day, which falls during the Christian season of Lent, Irish families would traditionally attend church in the morning and celebrate in the afternoon.
The Chicago River Dyed Green
As Irish immigrants spread out over the United States, other cities developed their own traditions. One of these is Chicago’s annual dyeing of the Chicago River green. The practice started in 1962, when city pollution-control workers used dyes to trace illegal sewage discharges and realized that the green dye might provide a unique way to celebrate the holiday. That year, they released 100 pounds of green vegetable dye into the river–enough to keep it green for a week. Today, in order to minimize environmental damage, only 40 pounds of dye are used, and the river turns green for only several hours.
This is probably where green beer started for those who partake. I know over the years, when I drank and went to parties, no one thought about it being a religious holiday. Now we know.
I wish you a happy St. Patrick’s day and all the festivities.
Melinda
Book Review How To Help Someone With An Eating Disorder
Maddie Dunne-Kirby from Welbeck Publishing Group gifted me an advanced copy of How To Help Someone With An Eating Disorder by Dr. Pam Macdonald for a review.
About the Author
Dr Pam Macdonald is a research psychologist, carer coach, and trainer. She is actively involved in supporting carers of people with eating disorders using the New Maudsley Approach, which incorporates the principles of Motivational Interviewing (MI). She also has personal experience of the regular emotional challenges that can impinge upon the functioning of the entire family, as well as friends and significant others, at different points along the recovery path.
When reflecting back on her time caring for a loved one with an eating disorder, she remembers it as a wholly frightening and stressful time. Even after several years, it still evokes strong memories of a long, dismal tunnel littered with countless pitfalls. A major uncertainty was her own role in the process. She desperately craved information on how to react to the situation as well as knowledge and guidance on how to react to the imposter that had invaded family life. She needed to know that she was handling the situation in a way that was conducive to a healthy outcome. In her search for these answers, she stumbled across Professor Janet Treasure’s work at the Institute of Psychiatry, King’s College, London. Back in 2006, Professor Treasure and her team were working on a skills-based learning intervention for carers of people with eating disorders. Pam joined the project as a PhD student and started work researching the effectiveness of a guided self-help package that offered training and skills to carers.
In 2011, she was awarded her PhD and since then she has worked on a part-time basis with the team on subsequent iterations and development of skills training interventions. She co-edited The Clinician’s Guide to Collaborative Caring in Eating Disorders (2010)1 with Professors Janet Treasure and Ulrike Schmidt and has contributed to numerous peer- reviewed papers in the academic literature. She is a passionate advocate of evidence-based research that equips carers with the appropriate information and tools that will help them best support someone through their eating disorder. She is currently based in Edinburgh, Scotland.
Blurb
It is heartbreaking to learn that your loved one has experienced a miscarriage or molar or ectopic pregnancy. Be it a friend, child or your own partner, it can be hard to know what to say, or how best you can help.
Should you mention the baby or avoid all topics that relate to children? How can you be there for your partner as they grieve, while dealing with your own emotions? What if you’re pregnant and it’s your best friend that has experienced a loss? What if you say the wrong thing?
This accessible guide provides evidence-based advice on supporting someone after a miscarriage, ectopic or molar pregnancy. Clare Foster draws upon her personal experience and that of other women and partners, as well as extensive research, to provide you with the knowledge and practical advice you need to help your loved one. The National Director of the Miscarriage Association, Ruth Bender-Atik, has written a foreword.
Published 2021
256 pages
My Thoughts
Eating Disorders are complex and can be very difficult to talk about with a friend or loved one. How do you start a conversation and where do you go to better understand what the underlying triggers are with the disorder?
Dr. Mac Donald has an extensive background in helping people with eating disorders, including a personal experience with a friend as a carer. She shares her knowledge in a gentle yet informative manner that allows you to broach the subject and help your friend or loved one.
A few of the topics discussed:
What is an eating disorder
The impact on others
Communication
Recovery
Problematic Behavior
She also includes helpful resources you can turn to in the book.
I had an eating disorder as a teen and there were no resources, no knowledge, or places to turn to talk about what I was going thru. This book would have been helpful for those around me to better understand the pain and shame I was going thru.
Dr. Macdonald’s book is a great resource for anyone who has a friend or loved one who has an eating disorder and I highly recommend the book.
Welbeck Publishing Group
Welbeck Publishing Group is an exciting, fast-growing independent publisher based in London, dedicated to publishing only the very best and most commercial books spanning a number of genres and categories, from leading authors and well-known brands to debut talent. We live for books that entertain, excite and enhance the lives of readers around the world.
From building our boutique fiction and narrative non-fiction lists to shaping our world-renowned illustrated reference, gift and children’s titles, our aim is to be a market-leader in every category in which we publish. Our books and products come to life for adults, children, and families in 30 languages in more than 60 countries around the world, selling through a variety of traditional and non-traditional channels. We are constantly looking for new ways to deliver our exceptional content and new ideas to inspire readers and listeners everywhere.
Melinda
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