Brock Turner Gets Six Month Jail Sentence For Sexual Assulting Unconscious Woman..Rape is Rape
I’m sick to my stomach after reading how Brock Turner serves only six months in jail for Raping an unconscious woman behind a dumpster. If you think raping is okay, you need help. The Judge is accountable for the low jail sentence. Rape is Rape. Xx M
The Stanford Survivor Has a Name. It’s “My Hero.”
JUNE 10, 2016 | BY MAILE ZAMBUTO |
FILED UNDER JHF BLOG > OUR ISSUES SEXUAL ASSAULT IN OUR WORDS FROM THE CEO
I first learned about Brock Allen Turner’s sentence for sexually assaulting an unconscious woman behind a dumpster on the Stanford University campus at the time everyone else did: last weekend. As the coverage was unfolding, I was with Mariska, members of our Joyful Heart Foundation staff and volunteers filming a local series of our NO MORE PSAs for Hawai‘i Says NO MORE.
From morning into the night, we gathered at the Hawaii News Now studios in Honolulu and what we saw during the filming was brave, strong, and compassionate person after person, standing up for each other, for the people they love, for their partners, wives, husbands, children, neighbors, friends, mothers, and fathers, for people they’ve never met, for themselves. They were standing up to say NO MORE to the beliefs and attitudes that misplace blame on survivors, excuse those who cause harm, and allow institutions to look the other way.
And outside of that room, the same thing was happening. People have been standing up and proclaiming the sentiment Joyful Heart’s PSAs have been calling upon all of us to say: NO MORE silence. NO MORE excuses. NO MORE ignorance. NO MORE bystanding. NO MORE violence. NO MORE.
“Prosecutors asked for six years. The defense asked for four months. Yet Santa Clara County Superior Court Judge Aaron Persky sentenced him to six months.”
During the last week since Brock Turner’s sentencing, we have read and heard many hurtful, ignorant, and disrespectful statements, and yet we have also witnessed a chorus of voices growing louder and louder; people all over the country making it clear they will not sit quietly by and insisting on deeper examination, accountability, justice, and change.
Turner’s crimes—three counts of felony sexual assault—carry a maximum sentence of up to fourteen years in a state prison. Prosecutors asked for six years. The defense asked for four months. Yet Santa Clara County Superior Court Judge Aaron Persky sentenced him to six months in county jail and three years of probation, citing that he was drunk and as a result had “less moral culpability,” the absence of “significant” prior legal issues, his age, and that he feared that a longer sentence in state prison would have a “severe impact” on Turner.
To read the complete article click link.
http://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org/blog/stanford-survivor-has-name-its-my-hero
Throw Back Thursday *Remember Mixed Tapes?
Did you make or receive a mix tape? I made one cassette for my car. Mixed tapes where the hottest trend in High School.Today you get a mixed tape of sorts. I hope you enjoy the choices this week. The Hotline is open leave your suggestions.
Xx M
Construcion Zone: Pardon The Dust
I’M WORKING ON IMPROVEMENTS FOR SURVIVORS BLOG HERE AND LOOKING FOR THE LIGHT. SURVIVORS IS NOT IN BEST OF SHAPE. KNOW MY ENERGY IS FOR YOU, WORKING ON GOODIES, JUST HARD TO SEE.
THANK YOU FOR STAYING BY OUR SIDE, WE HAVE AMAZING FOLLOWERS AND FRIENDS.
:)
MELINDA
Blessings for Ramadan
Traveling to Mecca can be a long journey, I wish for you a safe arrival and return. I hope you are spending time with family and friends, sharing laughs and blessings.
Blessings for Ramadan
Melinda
http://time.com/3958256/snapchat-mecca-ramadan-prayers/
I left out Falling in Chronic Illness Post *Coming Soon*
No doubt my memory hijacked the important section on falling. I will write a post on falling soon.
Forgive Xx M
Throw Back Thursday *Feed Your Rock soul*
For D, Our favorite Rock-n-Roll, Awesome Frampton! Best Ever Version EC. I feel great and want everyone to share it with me. Let’s jam!
Xx M
Learning from Chronic Illness *Tid Bits, Falling and Learning To Fly*
I dedicate this post to the chronically ill, newly diagnosed and their caregivers. You are the Survivors.
It took three painful years to learn I had Chronic Lyme Disease. I’ve had bumps over the years, nothing like Lyme. I’m totally dependent on my husband. Every week he takes countless hours off work. There’s IV Therapy before and after work. Day to-day monitoring the catheter with weekly bandage changes. Out of state doctor appointments once a month, insure medicines are taken properly, on time and everything you can think of.
I didn’t know what life would teach me. Boy have I learned and want to share with you. The ongoing guilt is a challenge for me.Guilt for not getting out of bed, doing laundry, on and on.
I had no concept of how humiliating daily life can get. I march on. At 52, I wear Kotex for daily spills. The agony of not taking extra Kotex on long flight.
I made a list to complete before treatment. HA! It’s hard to prepare for everything when an illness effects everyone different. The post is female oriented, I can’t speak for men. Use your imagination.
Some suggestions will make you laugh and others grateful to know. Here are a few surprises. The list is task you may want to consider.
Any Dental work
Mammogram
Gynecologist
By wardrobe essentials, one size larger, possibly add another half-size or larger.
Shoes become a nightmare, one day your sneakers fit, next day you’re searching for the big ugly pair. Buy a size larger. If you suffer from Edema another half-size makes your day. Edema makes my feet look like melons.
Don’t forget pajamas, undergarments, bra extensions, or Cami.
Your bladder can overflow without warning.
Can’t walk, can’t drive.
Load books, podcast and free College Coursework.
Because the catheter CAN’T EVER get wet, no shower and washing hair a nightmare. I did find a fix. Buy two hairstylist capes with velcro around neck. Wear one backwards the other normal. The backwards one tends to fall forward, I safety pinned arms and pinned back s much as possible. I used 2-1 shampoo, towel close for water in my face and drying towels within distance.
Many households keep rolling due to your efforts.The caregiver will feel like your mother or father at times. Without caregivers, life will weigh you down. Be generous, a thank you goes a long way. Caregivers handle day-to-day task, make appointments, manage medication. Pill maintenance is a full-time job.
I’ll share the next 18-24 month journey to wellness with you.
I can’t express the love in my heart for supporters, friends and followers You’ve stayed by my side in prayer and saying positive words over me.
Xx Melinda
P.S. The reference learning to fly is Sky Diving from 18,000 feet.
For My Twin, Happiness
Her Dreams Give Her Wings, Concrete Angel
Dose of Reality on Monday morning
Sebastian Junger: Our society Makes It Hard To Come Home From War
TED Talk presents Sebastian Junger. Do you agree or send the topic packing. Be sure to leave your comments on the post. Xx M
Inspirational Thoughts
My Back Yard is so Fascinating
“We do not need magic to transform our world
We carry all the power we need inside already
We have the power to imagine better
J.K. Rowling
commencement speech at Harvard University
Throw Back Thursday *Late but not forgotten*
We flew in last night from D.C., slept more than normal. I haven’t missed a Thursday in two years, today is not the day. I’ll keep it short, my body feels much older than reality. Xx M
The Story of my life in 250 words … )
Is a writing challenge presented by, Jenni, author of the blog, StoryofMyLifeTheBlog.blogspot.com. She wills us to write about our life in the next 31 days. Our task, should we decide to accept it, is to write about specific items each day. Her outline, found in this post, http://storyofmylifetheblog.blogspot.com/2013/04/blog-every-day-in-may-challenge.html, defines the specifics.
It was my daughter, M1, author of the blog, ZuPlusTwo.com, who inspired me. M1 is taking on this challenge. I thought I’d try, too. I’ve been listed as AWOL for several months now, occupied by several life changes, but never forgetting how much I miss my friends, their words, their lives, and their inspirations. Come along as Jenni (and all who offer themselves up on this quest). Take the plunge. Come dive into the water, deep, someone will be here to grab you if you begin to sink (me), cuz…well, I’m good at sinking, and my friends…
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A Heart A Fire Nominated Me for Blogger Recognition Award
A Heart A Fire nominated me for The Blogger Recognition Award. She nominated me months ago. Lyme Disease truly slows you physical and Cognitive ability. I encourage everyone to spend time at http://www.aheartafire.wordpress.com. You will enjoy her Blog and fantastic writing. Thank you for nominating Looking For The Light Blog for The Blogger Recognition Award
The criteria for this award:
Post an image of award
Thank the person, mention name of the blog and link them to your post
Briefly explain how your blog got started
Give a piece of advice to fellow blogger.
Nominate 15 bloggers for the award and notify them you to accept award as recognition and appreciation of your contribution to a brighter world; the gift of beauty, inspiration, and enlightenment.
A bit of advice to a fellow blogger:
Write what you’re passionate about, show people your personality. If you are can’t be truthful to yourself, people will know and you’ll burn out fast. Good luck.
I’m not able to include 15 fantastic Bloggers. I feel like a cheater. Those who know me understand the effects of Lyme Diease and how it robs your ability little by little. I’m grateful and wish my body allowed more energy,
Grateful Xx Melinda
Thank all who served and their families this Memorial Day
Have a blessed day, hopefully surrounded by family and friends.
Xx M
How to Protect the Civil Rights of Sexual Assault Survivors
May 19, 2016
TED Talks
Karen Eng
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Karen Eng is a contributing writer to TED.com, dedicated to covering the feats of the wondrous TED Fellows. Her launchpad located in Cambridge, UK.
My memory attacks me every week. I could not remember how to have the story start here. It’s long, informative and looks like a good resource. Xx M
Throw Back Thursday *Female Power House Voices*
Adele’s voice is unique, so powerful, She will surprise you with Send My Love ( To Your New Lover ) Enjoy Power Female Artist this week. Amy’s voice is beautiful, life ended to soon for her. Alice Keys is another Power House.
Xx M
Chewbacca Mom Wednesday..It’s Contagious
Van by the River inspired me with her post, Chewbacca Mom. The Chewbacca Mask has taken the Internet by storm. The video has broken the record on Live Facebook. The video gets crazier as she travels to all the talk shows. I think the TV anchors are having a blast. Please visit my friend www:vanbytheriver.com
Pass a laugh and smile to all who need it. Xx M
Madre con mascara de chewbacca en español
Enjoy!!!!!
:)
Melinda
Genuine Laughter
I reblogged from vanbythelake.wordpress.com, reblog must be taking a nap. Luckily I could reblog from her source. Spread the JOY.
I don’t know this woman but she’s the kind of person I’d like to know. Anyone who can generate this kind of laughter at something as simple as what you’re about to see is worth hanging out with…:)
If you’re not laughing out loud by the time this is over, I think someone should be taking your pulse.
Enjoy.
Throw Back Thursday *Get on the Floor*
I needed some laughter, the videos will do the trick.Have a great weekend Xx M
Throw Back Thursday *My Apple is Fried*
Throw Back Thursday * Twice as Nice *
The trick on YouTube, maybe VeVo. Only difference, taped clock on far right. Click on. Time for Dance Party.
Throw Back Thursday *I’m late, you should see my laptop*
I started at 8:30pm deciding on video’s. After years of enjoyment, YouTube and VeVo are enforcing copyright laws. Somebody has an answer, please leave a comment or email msandorm@verizon.net. The Shania Twain video is an example, of the the copyright screen. I stopped at 1:00am, way past bedtime. I’m praying for progress today. Here’s a snack while I work on desert.
Xx M
Child Marriages, life of beatings and Sexual Assault by husband
When I was 14 years old, I was kidnapped for a marriage to a much older man, as depicted in the film Difret. On the day I was abducted, I was raped by my would be “husband.” I knew I had to fight back and escape the first chance I got.
I was taken to a hut and locked up. When I received another visit from my abductors I saw my chance. When he was suddenly called away, he left his gun leaning against the wall and the door unlocked. My father had taught me how to fire a gun, so I took it and ran. When he and his friends chased me, I shot him. It was the most terrifying, horrible ordeal of my entire life — and I’m one of the lucky ones.
I was accused of murder and after 2 years in the courts, the judge ruled that it was, in fact, self-defense. My trial led to a re-examination of this tradition and the Ethiopian government is now working to end child marriage and female genital cutting by 2025. In addition, the African Union recently launched a campaign to end child marriage across the continent.
I am now dedicating my life to working on this issue and to give voice to the screams of unheard rural women and girls. I don’t want to see the same story happen to any more girls. And yet, it still is.
You can help. Please join me in Ending Child Marriage around the world by signing this petition, asking President Obama to sign the executive order that would help prevent an estimated 39,000 child marriages every day.
To see her inner strength, strength to move the process forward. A few World Leaders have signed bills to End Child Marriage. The World Leaders are moving slow. All victories, women are being heard, conversations are taking place.
Please read her story. It’s painful, unimaginable and most courageous yet my soul feels progress for reading her story.
The movie Difret@Difretfilm highlights real courage. The movie received an award Sundance and others at it traveled to new audiences.
This petition is supported by Global Fund for Women, Ms Magazine, Equality Now and Truth Aid. The petition is supported by highly respected Advocates. Please sign and join advocates around the world.
Throw Back Thursday *Don’t let time pass you by*
I was thinking about tunes to play, Prince came to mind. He’s Mystical, very erotic with dancers and fans enjoy every minute. Prince supported multiple charities, one supported kids education. He heard the library was closing due to lack of funds. The next day, the library doors opened.
I celebrate the life of Prince and pray the family comes together with hearts of love.
Xx M
Robert Goldstein Awarded Me Versatile Blogger Award
WOW! Mission Control we landed without to many Starbucks stops.
I’m thrilled to receive The Versatile Blogger Award from Robert Goldstein at http://www.robertmgoldstein.com. Robert is a generous spirit. Thank you for choosing my blog worthy of The Versatile Award.
Robert has a mental illness called DID, Dissociative Identity Disorder. He is open about the struggles he face. He is a strong advocate for Mental Illness, the treatment patients receive at medical health facilities. Please check out his site, which includes artwork, short stories and Advocacy work. He’s an all around great guy. He always has my back!
The rules for receiving Versatile Blogger Award
Thank the person who nominated you
Display award
Tell 7 things about yourself
Nominate Bloggers who are worthy
Tell us 7 things about yourself
- Buy old cameras
- I’m a MAC/Apple lover
- Passion for Photography
- Collect old leather books
- I’m afraid a snake will bite me when I go in to garage
- Cleaning Gramps pieces and parts, old mechanical item.
- Organized
Nominate 10 Bloggers
https://piecesofbipolar.wordpress.com
http://www.aheartafire.wordpress.com
http://www.juststuffifoundontheinternet.wordpress.com
http://www.charlypriest.wordpress.com
http://www.coffeegrinder.wordpress.com
http://www.piecesofbipolar.com
http://www.autismthoughts.wordpress.com
I’m smiling, it’s new day,
Xx M
Throw Back Thursday *Country? Rock? Country Rock?
Howdy friends,
Thinking about Country Music today, the line between Country and Rock are not always visible. Brad Paisley and many others sound like Rock with riff’s and jamming guitar solos. The video surprised me, did I wake up in tunesville? The Country artist are everywhere except in Country music. I hope you enjoy the music. Next week we’re Rocking, flames shooting from the sky. Maybe Big Hair band or you can leave a request 24 hours a day. Xx M
Hearding Chickens awarded Survivors Blog Here with The Versatile Blogger Award
heardingchickens.wordpress.com/2016/02/05/the-versatile-blogger-award
We’re thrilled to receive The Versatile Blogger Award from Herding Chickens. If you have not stopped by http://www.herdingchickens.wordpress.com, today is a great day to start. Her personality shines through her writing. Her and husband have adopted two children. She shares the successes and struggle of Adoption. She’s a generous person.
Seven Answers
Paola’s Answers
Writing is my therapy. It heals my soul and makes me feel less lonely
I’d love to understand why I spend the whole week waiting for the Friday and the entire year waiting for the spring.
Melinda’s Answers
I think a snake will bite me every time I enter the garage.
I don’t read instructions
I’m a chocolate addict
A Hawk family returns every year to lounge in our bird bath. I’ve named every generation, Hawke I love the wildlife in our neighborhood.
The Big Revel!
https://sheldonkleemanartworks.com
http://www.charlypriest.wordpress.com
http://www.aheartafire.wordpress.com
http://www.insightsbipolarbear.com
http://www.firefly1275.wordpress.com
Looking for the Light 